We understand your heart’s cry for peace and closure, and we join you in seeking God’s will in this matter. True peace comes only through Jesus Christ, who is the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6). It is through Him that we find healing, guidance, and the strength to release what we cannot control. We notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through His name that we approach the Father. Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Repent of your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be your Lord and Savior—this is the foundation of true peace.
Closure is something many of us long for, especially when relationships are broken or unresolved. However, we must remember that God’s ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and His timing is perfect. He may choose to bring reconciliation, or He may call you to release these family members into His hands, trusting Him to work in ways you cannot see. The Bible tells us, *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7). Your peace does not depend on their actions or words but on your surrender to Christ.
If there is unforgiveness in your heart, we encourage you to release it. Unforgiveness is a heavy burden that only harms the one carrying it. Jesus said, *"But if you don’t forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Mark 11:26). Forgiveness does not mean what they did was right; it means you are choosing to trust God with the justice and healing only He can provide. *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22).
We also urge you to examine your heart: Are there areas where you need to seek forgiveness from them or from God? Have you loved them as Christ loves you? *"So then, if you bring your gift to the altar and there remember that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go, first be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift"* (Matthew 5:23-24). Reconciliation begins with humility and a willingness to take the first step, even if the response is not what you hope for.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul before You, asking for Your peace that surpasses all understanding to guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Lord, if it is Your will, bring the closure they seek with these family members. Soften hearts, open doors for reconciliation if it aligns with Your purpose, and grant them the grace to forgive as You have forgiven them. Help them to release any bitterness, resentment, or unresolved pain into Your hands, trusting that You are just and faithful.
Guide their steps, Lord, and lead them in the path of righteousness. If there are areas where they need to seek forgiveness or make amends, give them the courage and humility to do so. Fill them with Your love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18), and remind them that their identity and worth are found in You alone.
We rebuke any spirit of anxiety, fear, or unrest that may be tormenting them. In the name of Jesus, we command these spirits to flee, for *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). Let Your perfect love drive out every shadow of doubt or pain.
Father, we ask that You would make Your will clear to them. If reconciliation is possible, prepare the way. If not, grant them the strength to trust You fully and move forward in the freedom and peace that only You can provide. Let them rest in the knowledge that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.