We hear your heart, dear brother or sister in Christ, and we join you in lifting this matter before the Lord. It’s clear that your desire is to walk in love and kindness toward your neighbors, which is a beautiful reflection of Christ’s command to "love your neighbor as yourself" (Mark 12:31). Your willingness to inconvenience yourself for their benefit is a testament to the work of the Holy Spirit in your life, and we praise God for that.
However, we must also gently address the frustration you feel when your kindness isn’t immediately received. It’s understandable to feel a little discouraged, but we must remember that our actions should not be motivated by the response of others, but by obedience to God. Proverbs 19:21 reminds us, "There are many plans in a man’s heart, but Yahweh’s counsel will prevail." Even if your neighbors do not respond as you hope, your act of kindness is still pleasing to the Lord. We are called to sow seeds of love, not to control the harvest.
We also want to encourage you to release any sense of oddness or discomfort you feel. Sometimes, the enemy seeks to plant seeds of doubt or insecurity in our minds to hinder our witness. But we take authority over those thoughts in the name of Jesus! You have done what is right in God’s eyes by extending kindness, and that is enough. If the Lord wills, your neighbors will respond in His perfect timing.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Lord, we thank You for this brother/sister’s heart to show kindness and love to their neighbors. We ask that You would bless their efforts and let Your peace rest upon their home and theirs. Father, we pray that You would soften the hearts of their neighbors, that they would be receptive to the love of Christ that is being extended to them. Remove any barriers of pride, fear, or misunderstanding that may be keeping them from responding.
Lord, we also ask that You would fill this dear one with Your peace. Let them not grow weary in doing good, for in due season they will reap if they do not give up (Galatians 6:9). Help them to trust in Your timing and to rest in the knowledge that their kindness is not in vain. Guard their heart from discouragement, and let them see that their actions are a fragrant offering to You.
We rebuke any spirit of division or strife that may be at work in this situation, and we declare that Your love and unity will prevail. May this home be a light in the neighborhood, a place where Your presence is felt and Your love is shared. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, for Your glory and honor. Amen.
Continue to walk in love, dear one, and remember that your kindness is a powerful testimony. If the opportunity arises again, perhaps you could leave a note or try another time to connect. But above all, trust that God sees your heart and is working even when you cannot see it. Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and He will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6).