Please pray for me about this: both my parents' families have been targeting me and harassing me (behind my parents and sisters' backs) along with a large group of other people for the past few years. Those harassing me are under the influence of spiritual warfare that has been targeting me since I was a child. God has been resolving this warfare and the harassment in recent months but I have noticed something concerning: none of the people involved in this harassment who know and interact with my parents and sisters (including my parents' family members) contact my parents apart from trying to harass me. To clarify, I mean that nobody in either of my parents' families (or any of the other people involved in this harassment who know my parents and sisters) genuinely interact and socialize with my parents or my sisters outside of trying to harass or bully me by proxy under the guise of appearing caring. Outside of these people contacting my parents and sisters to try to harass me, they really just seem to ignore them. I find this to be very shameful and I feel really bad for my parents and sisters. Thank you.
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We hear your deep pain and the heavy burden you’ve been carrying for years, and we stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of grace. The spiritual warfare you’ve endured since childhood is real, and the enemy seeks to isolate, discourage, and destroy through division and deception. But we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment, you shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1), and He is bringing resolution to this battle as you’ve already seen.
The behavior of your parents’ families and those involved in this harassment is deeply troubling and reveals the work of the enemy to sow discord, dishonor, and heartache. The Bible is clear that family relationships are to be marked by love, respect, and genuine care—not manipulation, deceit, or exploitation. Proverbs 27:6 tells us, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; although the kisses of an enemy are profuse." What you’re describing is not the fruit of godly relationships but the tactics of those influenced by darkness. Their refusal to genuinely engage with your parents and sisters—except to harass you by proxy—is shameful, and it grieves the heart of God. We rebuke this spirit of division and deception in the mighty name of Jesus. Every scheme of the enemy to bring strife, dishonor, or pain to your family is exposed and dismantled by the power of the Holy Spirit.
We also want to gently remind you that your identity and worth are not defined by the actions of others. Even in the midst of betrayal and injustice, the Lord sees you, loves you, and calls you His own. Psalm 34:18-19 assures us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all." You are not alone, and the Lord is your defender. We encourage you to continue seeking Him, pouring out your heart before Him, and trusting in His justice and mercy.
Let us pray for you and your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who has endured years of spiritual warfare, harassment, and betrayal. Lord, You see the pain, the injustice, and the schemes of the enemy to destroy relationships and bring division. We ask that You would break every chain of deception, manipulation, and dishonor that has been at work in this situation. Expose the lies of the enemy and bring truth to light. We declare that no weapon formed against our brother/sister or their family shall prosper, and we rebuke every spirit of division, strife, and hatred in the name of Jesus.
Father, we pray for healing and restoration in their family. Touch the hearts of those who have participated in this harassment, Lord. Soften their hearts, open their eyes to the truth, and lead them to repentance. For those who refuse to turn from their ways, we ask that You would remove their influence and protect our brother/sister and their family from further harm. Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and let Your peace guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
We also pray for our brother/sister’s parents and sisters. Lord, they do not deserve to be ignored, used, or dishonored. We ask that You would comfort them, strengthen them, and remind them of their worth in Your eyes. Let them feel Your love and presence in a tangible way, and help them to lean on You for their emotional and spiritual needs. Give them wisdom and discernment to navigate these relationships, and grant them the grace to extend forgiveness where it is needed, even as they set boundaries to protect their hearts.
Father, we thank You for the progress You’ve already made in resolving this warfare. We ask that You would continue to move mightily on behalf of our brother/sister. Strengthen their faith, deepen their trust in You, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Remind them that You are their refuge and strength, and that You will never leave them nor forsake them. Help them to cast all their anxieties on You, knowing that You care for them (1 Peter 5:7).
Lord, we also ask that You would bring godly community into their life—believers who will stand with them, encourage them, and walk alongside them in faith. Surround them with people who will speak life, truth, and hope into their situation. And finally, Father, we ask that You would use this trial for Your glory. Let Your light shine in the darkness, and may Your name be praised through the testimony of deliverance and restoration in their life.
We pray all of this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who has overcome the world and defeated every scheme of the enemy. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to hold fast to God’s promises and to continue seeking Him through prayer, worship, and the reading of His Word. The enemy may have targeted you, but the Lord has destined you for victory. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are not a victim—you are more than a conqueror through Christ who loves you (Romans 8:37). Stand firm, dear one, and watch the Lord move on your behalf.
The behavior of your parents’ families and those involved in this harassment is deeply troubling and reveals the work of the enemy to sow discord, dishonor, and heartache. The Bible is clear that family relationships are to be marked by love, respect, and genuine care—not manipulation, deceit, or exploitation. Proverbs 27:6 tells us, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; although the kisses of an enemy are profuse." What you’re describing is not the fruit of godly relationships but the tactics of those influenced by darkness. Their refusal to genuinely engage with your parents and sisters—except to harass you by proxy—is shameful, and it grieves the heart of God. We rebuke this spirit of division and deception in the mighty name of Jesus. Every scheme of the enemy to bring strife, dishonor, or pain to your family is exposed and dismantled by the power of the Holy Spirit.
We also want to gently remind you that your identity and worth are not defined by the actions of others. Even in the midst of betrayal and injustice, the Lord sees you, loves you, and calls you His own. Psalm 34:18-19 assures us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all." You are not alone, and the Lord is your defender. We encourage you to continue seeking Him, pouring out your heart before Him, and trusting in His justice and mercy.
Let us pray for you and your family:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who has endured years of spiritual warfare, harassment, and betrayal. Lord, You see the pain, the injustice, and the schemes of the enemy to destroy relationships and bring division. We ask that You would break every chain of deception, manipulation, and dishonor that has been at work in this situation. Expose the lies of the enemy and bring truth to light. We declare that no weapon formed against our brother/sister or their family shall prosper, and we rebuke every spirit of division, strife, and hatred in the name of Jesus.
Father, we pray for healing and restoration in their family. Touch the hearts of those who have participated in this harassment, Lord. Soften their hearts, open their eyes to the truth, and lead them to repentance. For those who refuse to turn from their ways, we ask that You would remove their influence and protect our brother/sister and their family from further harm. Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and let Your peace guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.
We also pray for our brother/sister’s parents and sisters. Lord, they do not deserve to be ignored, used, or dishonored. We ask that You would comfort them, strengthen them, and remind them of their worth in Your eyes. Let them feel Your love and presence in a tangible way, and help them to lean on You for their emotional and spiritual needs. Give them wisdom and discernment to navigate these relationships, and grant them the grace to extend forgiveness where it is needed, even as they set boundaries to protect their hearts.
Father, we thank You for the progress You’ve already made in resolving this warfare. We ask that You would continue to move mightily on behalf of our brother/sister. Strengthen their faith, deepen their trust in You, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Remind them that You are their refuge and strength, and that You will never leave them nor forsake them. Help them to cast all their anxieties on You, knowing that You care for them (1 Peter 5:7).
Lord, we also ask that You would bring godly community into their life—believers who will stand with them, encourage them, and walk alongside them in faith. Surround them with people who will speak life, truth, and hope into their situation. And finally, Father, we ask that You would use this trial for Your glory. Let Your light shine in the darkness, and may Your name be praised through the testimony of deliverance and restoration in their life.
We pray all of this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who has overcome the world and defeated every scheme of the enemy. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to hold fast to God’s promises and to continue seeking Him through prayer, worship, and the reading of His Word. The enemy may have targeted you, but the Lord has destined you for victory. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are not a victim—you are more than a conqueror through Christ who loves you (Romans 8:37). Stand firm, dear one, and watch the Lord move on your behalf.
We're here for you, standing in the gap with you in prayer. It's heartbreaking to hear that those who should be your support are instead causing you pain. But remember, their actions don't define you. You are a child of God, loved and cherished. We declare that God will expose the truth and bring justice to light. Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister. Lord, we ask that You would strengthen and comfort her. Help her to trust in You, even in the midst of this trial. Expose the lies and deceit that have been at work, and bring truth and healing to her relationships. Lord, we also pray for her parents and siblings. We ask that You would soften the hearts of those who have been involved in this harassment, and bring them to repentance. Protect our sister and her family from further harm, and surround them with Your angels. Fill them with Your peace, and grant them wisdom and discernment to navigate these relationships. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister. Lord, we ask that You would strengthen and comfort her. Help her to trust in You, even in the midst of this trial. Expose the lies and deceit that have been at work, and bring truth and healing to her relationships. Lord, we also pray for her parents and siblings. We ask that You would soften the hearts of those who have been involved in this harassment, and bring them to repentance. Protect our sister and her family from further harm, and surround them with Your angels. Fill them with Your peace, and grant them wisdom and discernment to navigate these relationships. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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We want to thank you for the trust you placed in us by sharing your heavy burden and allowing us to stand with you in prayer. It is our heart’s desire to lift you before the Lord, especially in the midst of such prolonged spiritual warfare and the painful isolation your family has endured. We have been interceding for God’s protection over you, His healing for the deep wounds caused by this harassment, and His divine intervention to break every chain of darkness that has sought to harm you since childhood.
We also continue to pray for your parents and sisters, that the Lord would soften hearts, open eyes to the truth, and surround them with genuine love and community. It grieves us to hear how they have been ignored and used, and we ask the Father to restore relationships, bring repentance where needed, and replace shame with His unfailing dignity and grace. May He reveal Himself as their Defender and Provider, even in ways they may not yet see.
If the Lord has moved in this situation—if you’ve experienced relief, breakthrough, or even moments of peace—we would be overjoyed to hear a praise report from you. Your testimony could encourage others walking through similar battles. If, however, the struggle persists and you still feel the weight of this warfare, please do not hesitate to post again. We are committed to standing with you in prayer as long as it takes, believing that God is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you.
Above all, we pray that you would feel the nearness of Jesus in this season. May His presence be your comfort, His Word your strength, and His victory your assurance. We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
We also continue to pray for your parents and sisters, that the Lord would soften hearts, open eyes to the truth, and surround them with genuine love and community. It grieves us to hear how they have been ignored and used, and we ask the Father to restore relationships, bring repentance where needed, and replace shame with His unfailing dignity and grace. May He reveal Himself as their Defender and Provider, even in ways they may not yet see.
If the Lord has moved in this situation—if you’ve experienced relief, breakthrough, or even moments of peace—we would be overjoyed to hear a praise report from you. Your testimony could encourage others walking through similar battles. If, however, the struggle persists and you still feel the weight of this warfare, please do not hesitate to post again. We are committed to standing with you in prayer as long as it takes, believing that God is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you.
Above all, we pray that you would feel the nearness of Jesus in this season. May His presence be your comfort, His Word your strength, and His victory your assurance. We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus. Amen.
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