Blaymarmont

Disciple of Prayer
I discovered by coincidence that the man I was considering getting married to is cheating on me and is back to sexual sin. I broke things off but I am very VERY hurt. The devil is using this to hit me with feelings of shame and being not guilt enough. And I have a very important exam for my career in a few weeks and I am so scared it will negatively impact my performance. I want to thank God for his protection, and for giving my clarity. I also want to ask in Jesus name for a quick recovery from this pain, and for ability to move forward and focus my career and studies. I am praying for this man to be freed from sexual sin and to repent from his terrible ways. Finally, I want to ask God for a Godly spouse sent from him, who will help me praise the Lord and will be faithful and kind everyday. In Jesus name I ask. Amen.
 
We stand with you in this deep pain of betrayal, lifting your heart before the Lord who sees every tear and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). The wound of infidelity cuts deep, especially when trust was given with purity of heart and the hope of a godly marriage. We rebuke the lies of the enemy that seek to shame you—you are not defined by this man’s sin, nor are you lacking in worth. Your value is found in Christ alone, who loved you and gave Himself for you (Galatians 2:20). The shame you feel is not yours to carry; it belongs to the one who chose deception and sexual immorality. Scripture is clear: "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). His choices are a reflection of his own unrepentant heart, not your inadequacy.

We also rebuke the spirit of fear that seeks to distract you from your calling. The Lord has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). Your exam is important, but your identity in Christ is eternal. We declare that this trial will not derail your purpose—rather, it will refine you like gold in the fire (1 Peter 1:7). The Lord is your strength, and He will uphold you as you fix your eyes on Him (Isaiah 41:10).

We join you in thanking God for His protection and clarity. It was His grace that revealed the truth before you entered into a covenant that would have brought lifelong sorrow. The Lord is your shield, and His faithfulness is your armor (Psalm 91:4). We pray now for your healing, that the Holy Spirit would bind up your broken heart and pour in the balm of Gilead (Jeremiah 8:22). May the peace of Christ, which surpasses all understanding, guard your heart and mind as you press forward (Philippians 4:7). We ask the Lord to restore your focus, sharpen your mind, and grant you divine discipline in your studies. Let this season of pain become a testimony of His faithfulness, for He works all things together for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

For the man who has fallen into sexual sin, we pray fervently for his repentance. May the Lord break the chains of lust and lead him to true brokenness before God. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). We declare that no sin is beyond the reach of God’s mercy—if he turns to Christ with a contrite heart, he can be washed, sanctified, and justified in the name of the Lord Jesus (1 Corinthians 6:11). But we also warn: unrepentant sin hardens the heart, and the Lord will not be mocked (Galatians 6:7). May he choose life, not destruction.

Finally, we stand in agreement with your prayer for a godly spouse. The Lord knows the desires of your heart, and He delights in giving good gifts to His children (Matthew 7:11). We pray for a man after God’s own heart—a man who walks in integrity, leads with humility, and loves you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). May the Lord prepare you both in this season, teaching you patience, trust, and dependence on Him. Do not settle for less than God’s best, for "he who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord" (Proverbs 18:22). Until then, may you find your completeness in Christ alone, for in Him, you lack no good thing (Psalm 34:10).

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, yet confident in Your goodness. We ask You to heal every wound of betrayal in [your sister’s] heart. Let her feel Your presence like a warm embrace, reminding her that she is deeply loved and chosen by You. We break the power of shame and condemnation over her life in the name of Jesus, for there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ (Romans 8:1). Strengthen her mind and spirit as she prepares for her exam—grant her clarity, retention, and peace that surpasses all understanding.

We lift up the man who has caused this pain, asking that You would pursue him with Your relentless love. Convict him of his sin, Lord, and lead him to repentance. Break the chains of sexual immorality in his life, and restore him to a right relationship with You. If it is Your will, bring him to a place of true transformation, but if not, we trust in Your justice and Your perfect plan.

Father, we ask You to prepare a godly spouse for [your sister], a man who will cherish her, lead her in righteousness, and honor You in their marriage. Until that day, let her find her joy and fulfillment in You. Teach her to wait with hope, for those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength (Isaiah 40:31). We declare that this season of singleness is not a punishment but a preparation—a time for her to grow in faith, wisdom, and intimacy with You.

We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We trust You to turn this pain into purpose, this sorrow into strength, and this waiting into worship. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
 
We're here with you, sister. We know the sting of betrayal, the shock of discovering a loved one's infidelity. It's like a punch to the gut, leaving you gasping for air, wondering how you'll ever breathe normally again. But remember, you're not alone. Jesus is right there with you, every step of the way.

We're lifting you up in prayer, asking God to heal your broken heart. We're asking Him to bind up your wounds, to comfort you in your pain. We're praying for peace, for strength, for the ability to forgive when the time is right. We're asking God to help you focus on your upcoming exam, to give you clarity, to help you perform at your best.

We're also praying for the man who hurt you. We're asking God to convict him of his sin, to lead him to repentance. We're praying for his healing, for his restoration. We're praying that he would turn away from his sin and towards God.

And we're praying for a godly spouse for you, a man who will love you as Christ loves the church. We're asking God to prepare both of you, to teach you patience, trust, and dependence on Him. We're praying that you would find your completeness in Christ, that you would find your joy and fulfillment in Him.

We trust in God's goodness, in His faithfulness. We know that He works all things together for our good, for those who love Him. So, we're asking Him to turn this pain into purpose, this sorrow into strength, this waiting into worship.

We're here for you, sister. We're praying for you, with you. In Jesus' name, we ask. Amen.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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