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[Anonymous]

Why am I abused? Trust people then they abuse me yelling at me. I’ll never trust anyone again. I suspicious of all people even when they act nice. The abuse has made me very cynical and dislike intrusive question from people. Jeremiah 29:11 doesn’t apply to me at all. Seems like reprobate people prosper in this life. None of God’s promises apply to me and that’s a fact.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and betrayal in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The wounds of abuse—whether emotional, verbal, or otherwise—leave scars that can make it feel impossible to trust again. You’re not wrong to feel angry, cynical, or even hopeless after being treated so unjustly. But we want to gently remind you that your pain does not mean God has abandoned you or that His promises have failed. Jeremiah 29:11 *does* apply to you, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. The Lord declares, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* (WEB) His plans for you are not defined by the cruelty of others.

The prosperity of the wicked is a real and painful mystery, but Scripture assures us it is temporary. Psalm 37:7-9 warns, *"Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him. Don’t fret because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who makes wicked plots happen. Cease from anger, and forsake wrath. Don’t fret; it leads only to evildoing. For evildoers shall be cut off, but those who wait for Yahweh shall inherit the land."* (WEB) Their momentary gain is not worth your eternal soul. We must hold fast to the truth that God sees every injustice and will one day make all things right.

Your suspicion of others is understandable, but we must caution you not to let bitterness take root. Hebrews 12:15 says, *"Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* (WEB) The enemy would love to isolate you in your pain, but God calls us to community—even when it’s hard. That doesn’t mean trusting blindly, but it does mean allowing the Lord to heal your heart so you can discern who is safe.

We also want to gently address your despair over God’s promises. The fact that you’re wrestling with this at all shows your heart still longs for Him. Lamentations 3:21-23 reminds us, *"This I recall to my mind; therefore I have hope. It is because of Yahweh’s loving kindnesses that we are not consumed, because his compassion doesn’t fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness."* (WEB) His promises are not voided by our suffering; they are often *proven* in it.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who has been so deeply wounded by the cruelty of others. Lord, You see every tear, every moment of betrayal, and every lie the enemy has whispered to make them doubt Your love. We ask You to break the chains of cynicism and bitterness that have taken hold. Replace their suspicion with Your perfect discernment, and their pain with Your healing peace.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of isolation that would keep them from Your people. Surround them with godly believers who will speak truth, show compassion, and walk alongside them in this journey. Remind them that You are their ultimate defender—*"Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord"* (Romans 12:19 WEB). Let them rest in the knowledge that no injustice escapes Your notice.

We declare over them the promise of Isaiah 61:1-3: that You came to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and to comfort all who mourn. Lord, let them feel Your presence in a tangible way. Restore their hope, renew their trust in You, and help them to see that even in this pain, You are working for their good.

We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who endured the ultimate betrayal and abuse so that we might have eternal life. Amen.

Friend, you are not alone in this. The Lord has not forgotten you, and neither have we. Keep crying out to Him—even if it’s just *"God, help me."* He hears you. And if you’re not yet in a safe community of believers, we urge you to seek one out. You were not made to walk this road alone.

 

[hostadmin]

We're really sorry to hear that you've been hurt so deeply. It's completely understandable to feel suspicious and cynical after being abused. It's like a part of you is constantly on guard, waiting for the next betrayal. We want you to know that we're here for you, and we're not going to add to your pain by offering empty words or platitudes.

We believe that God sees your pain, and He's right there with you, even when it doesn't feel like it. Remember, Jesus was also betrayed by those He trusted the most. Yet, He trusted God with His pain and ultimately, He was vindicated. We pray that you can find that same trust in Him.

We also want to encourage you to keep seeking God, even in your pain. He's not hiding from you, and He's not ignoring your cries. He's there, and He's working in your life, even if you can't see it right now. Remember, even in the darkest night, the sun is still shining. It's just hidden behind the clouds.

And hey, it's okay to be angry, to feel cynical, to question why. God can handle your honesty. He's big enough for that. Just keep talking to Him, keep pouring out your heart to Him. He's listening.

We're here for you, and we're praying for you. You're not alone in this.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[erravan]

Why am I abused? Trust people then they abuse me yelling at me. I’ll never trust anyone again. I suspicious of all people even when they act nice. The abuse has made me very cynical and dislike intrusive question from people. Jeremiah 29:11 doesn’t apply to me at all. Seems like reprobate people prosper in this life. None of God’s promises apply to me and that’s a fact.

my sibling in Christ, I pray for you to encounter the stillness of our Fathers unconditional love and that overwhelming peace to confront you with a realization that you are deserving of no less than the love God has for you. I remain comfortable and tolerating abuse for so long until the presence of the Lord became something I could not ignore. I could no longer sacrifice in order to appease and lay idle in abuse. There is suffering we are intended to endure in order to appreciate how much we do matter and how important we are to our Father in heaven. I would’ve never known how much more I deserved if I had not surrendered to the understanding that I could not create justice in my own life and that injustices were intended to be my portion for a long time. It was impossible to understand why terrible things were happening while I was in the midst of it, but in time, I am so grateful because I have learned so much. I have let go of people who were harming me and came to understand that the love of Christ that extended through me to those who were harming me, wasn’t my duty to continue taking on as a responsibility. Forgiveness is everything, the active forgiving allows us to have empathy with those who did so wrong by us. It is a choice we make, and it is not an emotional one. It is a spiritual one and that extension of grace and forgiveness for those who have never apologized and never will create space in our hearts to realize that those people Harbor darknesses we can’t understand and that don’t know the light of the Lord and how good God‘s love feels, and that understanding is powerful and it is sad. I pray that the injustice you are facing, the inner turmoil and abuse comes to an end. The divine supernatural interference and intercession cuts off every source of pain inhibiting your ability to feel the freedom of faith. God bless you you do not deserve to endure the wrath of man. You do not to feel broken down and intended to be made weaker as a result of the weaknesses of others and their cruel intentions being imposed upon you. Those who harbor darkness are disturbed by the light that God‘s children Harbor and unfortunately people who harbor darkness with no interest in seeking the Light will do everything in their power to dim ours. Pray for them, forgive them, and remember
the light shines in the darkness in the darkness cannot overcome it.
I am praying for you and I will continue praying for you. I am new here and I’m grateful that I am here I’m grateful you posted this prayer request and I will not forget it. The strength that took to post this is strength that I see, and that God sees. God knows everything you’re going through and every tear on your cheek and every night awake wondering when the trials will be over. They will. Only God knows when but they will. Keep your eyes on Hom. You are never alone. You have a father in heaven, who loves you. You have siblings in Christ who love you. I love you you, God bless you and go in peace today. Keep on your heart the mantra “Jesus I trust in you.”all will be well.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.