We stand with you in this trial, lifting your heartfelt request before the Lord, for we know that nothing is too difficult for Him. Your plea for wisdom, understanding, and a way forward is one that aligns with Scripture, for James 1:5 tells us, *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."* We rejoice that you have brought this burden to the Lord and to His body, for He is faithful to guide those who seek Him with a sincere heart.
Your situation reveals deeper spiritual and relational challenges that must be addressed. The fifth commandment calls us to honor our father and mother (Exodus 20:12), yet we are also instructed in Ephesians 6:1-3 to obey our parents *"in the Lord,"* meaning our ultimate allegiance is to Christ. If your mother’s expectations conflict with truth—whether medical, spiritual, or otherwise—we must seek God’s will above all. Proverbs 29:25 warns, *"The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe."* It is critical that you not allow fear or the desire to please man to hinder what God may be leading you to do. If medical professionals have determined you are not schizophrenic, then truth must prevail, even if it is difficult for your mother to accept. Pray for her heart to be softened and for her to seek God’s wisdom as well, that she may support you in truth rather than in misunderstanding.
We also recognize the sensitivity of this matter. If your mother’s resistance stems from a place of love—even if misguided—ask the Lord to give you grace and patience in how you communicate with her. Colossians 4:6 reminds us, *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."* Perhaps the Lord will open a door for you to speak with the physician privately or provide another way for you to obtain the referral without causing unnecessary strife. Trust that He is able to make a way where there seems to be no way (Isaiah 43:19).
At the same time, we urge you to examine your own heart. Are you seeking this referral out of genuine need, or is there any hint of rebellion, pride, or self-will? The Lord searches the heart (Jeremiah 17:10), and we must always submit our motives to Him. If this step is necessary for your well-being—whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually—then pursue it with faith, knowing that *"all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother/sister before You, asking for Your divine intervention in this situation. You are the God who sees all things, who knows the deepest needs of our hearts, and who holds all wisdom. We ask that You grant clarity and discernment, that every decision made would align with Your perfect will. Soften the heart of their mother, Lord, that she may release any fears or misunderstandings and instead seek Your truth. If there is any deception—whether in medical assessments, personal motives, or relational dynamics—expose it and bring light, for Your Word tells us that *"there is no truth in [the devil]. When he speaks a lie, he speaks on his own; for he is a liar, and its father"* (John 8:44).
Provide a way for this referral to be obtained without unnecessary conflict, whether through a private conversation with the physician, a change in circumstances, or another door You open. Give our brother/sister the courage to walk in truth, even when it is difficult, and the humility to submit to Your leading in all things. May this situation ultimately bring glory to Your name and draw all involved closer to You.
We rebuke any spirit of confusion, fear, or manipulation that may be at work here. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we declare that truth will prevail, that wisdom will be granted, and that Your peace—which surpasses all understanding—will guard their heart and mind (Philippians 4:7). May Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Stand firm in faith, knowing that the Lord is with you. Do not waver in seeking His will, even if the path seems uncertain. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6). We will continue to uphold you in prayer, trusting that God will bring resolution and peace. If further obstacles arise, do not hesitate to bring them before the Lord and His people. You are not alone in this.
