Not sure how to pray on this. Help.

Ive recently found out that my ex boyfriend mother really hated that we were together. 16 years. that she disliked me but she was always nice and smiling when we saw each other. she is my kids grandmother so it hard for me to understand her hatred for me. when my boyfriend and I got into a verbal fight. I found out she told him to just leave me. For him to be someone who had money. All this time she was lying to me and her grandkids. I'm not sure how to pray on this matter. I'm upset that the truth is unfolding and she still acts like it nothing. Her other adult children are upset with her for interferring and telling him to leave his family. how she thinks its okay because she herself is involved with a married man. Im hurt. Im upset. again, im not sure how to pray on this matter. I do want to reconcile my relationship and keep my family together. help.

 

[HisWill_NotMine]

Not sure how to pray on it either so let’s ask the Holy Spirit to give you the right words. Holy Spirit of God speak to you child. Teach them how to focus on the issues. With the right words and through your intercession help them and all of us to pray the right prayers. In Jesus’ mighty name we ask of this.

 

[natasha2]

Ive recently found out that my ex boyfriend mother really hated that we were together. 16 years. that she disliked me but she was always nice and smiling when we saw each other. she is my kids grandmother so it hard for me to understand her hatred for me. when my boyfriend and I got into a verbal fight. I found out she told him to just leave me. For him to be someone who had money. All this time she was lying to me and her grandkids. I'm not sure how to pray on this matter. I'm upset that the truth is unfolding and she still acts like it nothing. Her other adult children are upset with her for interferring and telling him to leave his family. how she thinks its okay because she herself is involved with a married man. Im hurt. Im upset. again, im not sure how to pray on this matter. I do want to reconcile my relationship and keep my family together. help.

I am not sure if I understand your current condition. Are you married to this man? Are you having children with him? Are you living together , you, your man and your children, is his mother living with you, how is your marriage and relationship with him? And then we can pray. Thanks....

 

[Brother James]

Ive recently found out that my ex boyfriend mother really hated that we were together. 16 years. that she disliked me but she was always nice and smiling when we saw each other. she is my kids grandmother so it hard for me to understand her hatred for me. when my boyfriend and I got into a verbal fight. I found out she told him to just leave me. For him to be someone who had money. All this time she was lying to me and her grandkids. I'm not sure how to pray on this matter. I'm upset that the truth is unfolding and she still acts like it nothing. Her other adult children are upset with her for interferring and telling him to leave his family. how she thinks its okay because she herself is involved with a married man. Im hurt. Im upset. again, im not sure how to pray on this matter. I do want to reconcile my relationship and keep my family together. help.

Read the book of Hosea in the Bible. Jesus has more power and authority over us than we can realize

 

[Checen]

Ive recently found out that my ex boyfriend mother really hated that we were together. 16 years. that she disliked me but she was always nice and smiling when we saw each other. she is my kids grandmother so it hard for me to understand her hatred for me. when my boyfriend and I got into a verbal fight. I found out she told him to just leave me. For him to be someone who had money. All this time she was lying to me and her grandkids. I'm not sure how to pray on this matter. I'm upset that the truth is unfolding and she still acts like it nothing. Her other adult children are upset with her for interferring and telling him to leave his family. how she thinks its okay because she herself is involved with a married man. Im hurt. Im upset. again, im not sure how to pray on this matter. I do want to reconcile my relationship and keep my family together. help.

You said ex boy friend which means that you were not married.It is not right to live in a common law relationship.But a man should not live with a woman for so long without m

Ive recently found out that my ex boyfriend mother really hated that we were together. 16 years. that she disliked me but she was always nice and smiling when we saw each other. she is my kids grandmother so it hard for me to understand her hatred for me. when my boyfriend and I got into a verbal fight. I found out she told him to just leave me. For him to be someone who had money. All this time she was lying to me and her grandkids. I'm not sure how to pray on this matter. I'm upset that the truth is unfolding and she still acts like it nothing. Her other adult children are upset with her for interferring and telling him to leave his family. how she thinks its okay because she herself is involved with a married man. Im hurt. Im upset. again, im not sure how to pray on this matter. I do want to reconcile my relationship and keep my family together. help.

It is not good for a man to live in common law relationship without marrying much less to live in that way for sixteen years.and having children.Whether you are a christian or not it is not right.If the man walks out on the relationship itdoes not look good.With the human nature being what it is you will feel emotional pain and hurt You feel cheated by your ex boy friend and shocked to know that his mother did not truly appreciate you.I am praying that God will turn things around in your favour. Stir up their conscience ,rekindle the love and cause that man to reconsider and do the honourable thing.It has been a long time.May the Lord work out things to your advantage and give you peace.Keep on praying.

 

[The Encourager]

Prayer Focus: God I ask You in Jesus’ name help me develop in this New Year (2019) the habit of spending quality quiet time alone with You daily, praying, meditating on and soaking in Your Word. Let me find myself seeking Your face and Your will for my life. Train my ears to hear Your still small voice even clearer. Bless me with the forever desire, strength, and spirit of obedience to obey Your Word and will for my life. Anoint me and use me for Your glory. Teach me how to operate in the anointing of the Holy Spirit as Jesus did. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer please do the same for the writer of the prayer and every faithful prayer warrior on this prayer site. God forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. Thank You God. Thank You Jesus. Thank You For Loving Me. Amen.

 

[natasha2]

This video will help you to pray if you are not willing to tell us the condition tell it to God. If there is any sin just repent (you can repent for yourself for your man and for his mother to). Ask God to give you love and patience and understanding for them and to heal your heart. He can do it. Only beleive. You can also pray for exactly what you need in a form of a short clear request. For example : please pray that God will heal my heart from the rejection of the mother of my man , or Please pray that my boyfriend will marry me. Or Please pray that I will forgive myself for _____ (living unmarried together) etc etc. I find short clear requests most effective for praying because people can misunderstand your prayer request and then pray wrongly and I am sure you will not want that. If you can post also the current condition/little bit background. Have courage to do this. It will help you to go forward and be clear what you need to do. It will boost your self confidence. Being in unclear situation in your mind and life is confusing and can cause you to have other problems in your life. So be honest to God and to yourself and pray from the standpoint of righteousness (doing what is right and knowing who you are in Christ). The devil likes confusing and unclear situations. Clear it out and your life will.start to flourish. Repentance is always a good starting point for changing relationships and for living right. Ask the Holy spirit to give you courage to do all that I have said to you. God loves you no matter what you have done or not done because He has not only forgiven your sins on the cross but also erased them so now He sees you like you have never sinned and like you will never sin. Amazing. Just because of that we can love Him and repent that we are in the moment not like He would like us to be. He is the only measurement how we should live. Don't look at other people or maybe condemnation from them. He is the only one to whom you will be responsible for your life. Praise God that He is so loving and patient! Dear sister, read one chapter of the Bible and listen and pray along with this video every morning. You will soon clear out things and start to blossom if you listen to the instructions in the video. Amen and God bless you.
DECLARE AND DECREE BLESSINGS IN THIS YEAR - INEZ MARTINEZ (YOU TUBE)

 

[GreeterMadelynn]

Jesus loves you and cares for you. Give it all to Him. Attend church faifhfully. Serve the Lord with gladness. Sing in the choir of your church and glorify the Lord all the time. He will show you the right person to marry. He will fix your problems and give you a new start in life.

 

[Muani]

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.(Galatians:6:-10)
I am sorry if I hurt you. I cant forget the wedding night, my father cried so much, my parents opposed my marriage at a young age etc. But finally we got married though. I was revived spiritually when one of my child was taken away from this world and I was blessed with heavenly peace since then.Then my ex had affairs finally lived with her, then divorced. I never blame any body not even my ex huaband.That was my great mistake, my disobedience , hurting my parents. Sowing and reaping is Biblical,I realised it. I asked forgiveness to God and to my patents, I moved on with Jesus ,caring children with divine guidance though.... hard but its most enjoyable working for His Kingdom which God lead me to start from home to others. All because of God's Grace ,mercy and love
Glory to God.

 

[Checen]

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.(Galatians:6:-10)
I am sorry if I hurt you. I cant forget the wedding night, my father cried so much, my parents opposed my marriage at a young age etc. But finally we got married though. I was revived spiritually when one of my child was taken away from this world and I was blessed with heavenly peace since then.Then my ex had affairs finally lived with her, then divorced. I never blame any body not even my ex huaband.That was my great mistake, my disobedience , hurting my parents. Sowing and reaping is Biblical,I realised it. I asked forgiveness to God and to my patents, I moved on with Jesus ,caring children with divine guidance though.... hard but its most enjoyable working for His Kingdom which God lead me to start from home to others. All because of God's Grace ,mercy and love
Glory to God.

It is good when we can reflect on the past and see where we have gone wrong .We can learn from our mistakes and move on.