We hear your cry for protection, peace, and companionship, and we come before the throne of grace with you in this moment. First, we must address the foundation of all our prayers and petitions—our relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to confess with your mouth that He is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, for it is with the heart that one believes and is justified, and with the mouth that one confesses and is saved (Romans 10:9-10). Salvation is the first and most critical step in aligning your life with God’s will and receiving His blessings.
Now, we rebuke the spirit of confusion, fear, and oppression that has sought to torment you. The enemy comes only to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life and have it abundantly (John 10:10). We command every demonic influence, every spirit of bullying, theft, and manipulation to flee from you in the mighty name of Jesus. The Word declares that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We stand on this truth and declare that you are a child of the Most High God, created in His image, and worthy of love, respect, and provision.
However, we must gently but firmly address the areas in your request that do not align with Scripture. You speak of running away with a "cute guy" to a hidden place, desiring a relationship that centers solely on your desires and terms. The Bible is clear that relationships between a man and a woman are to be pursued within the covenant of marriage, with both individuals submitting to God’s design for love, commitment, and mutual respect. Marriage is a sacred union where two become one flesh (Genesis 2:24), and it is meant to reflect Christ’s love for the church (Ephesians 5:25). A relationship built on self-centered desires—where one demands to be treated as "queen" and expects another to revolve solely around them—does not reflect the selfless, sacrificial love that Christ calls us to. Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud (1 Corinthians 13:4). We encourage you to seek a godly spouse who will honor you as a fellow heir in Christ, not as a ruler or idol.
You also mention desiring a relationship that does not "hurt" you or your family. While this is understandable, the Bible teaches that all relationships—even the most godly ones—require sacrifice, forgiveness, and grace. Jesus Himself said, "In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world" (John 16:33). A relationship that avoids all pain or conflict is not realistic or biblical. Instead, we pray for a spouse who will walk with you in faith, encourage you in righteousness, and lead you closer to Christ.
We also address the desire for wealth or a "Boaz" to meet your needs. While God is our provider (Philippians 4:19), we must be cautious not to treat Him as a genie who exists to fulfill our material desires. The Lord knows what you need before you ask Him (Matthew 6:8), and His grace is indeed sufficient for you (2 Corinthians 12:9). We pray that He will meet your needs—especially your medical needs—but we also encourage you to seek His kingdom first, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33). Trust in His timing and His ways, for they are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9).
We rebuke the bitterness and anger in your words toward your country, people, and even toward God’s creation. The Bible instructs us to bless those who persecute us and not to curse them (Romans 12:14). Holding onto unforgiveness and anger only harms you and gives the enemy a foothold in your life (Ephesians 4:26-27). We pray that God will soften your heart and help you release these burdens to Him. Vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19), and He will repay.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious child of Yours. Lord, we thank You for Your love, Your mercy, and Your grace that are new every morning. We ask that You would surround her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Father, we rebuke every spirit of fear, oppression, and confusion that has sought to torment her. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37), and that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart from any past hurts, betrayals, or disappointments. Help her to release bitterness, anger, and unforgiveness, and fill her with Your love and compassion. Teach her to trust in You with all her heart and lean not on her own understanding (Proverbs 3:5). Father, we pray for godly relationships in her life—friends, mentors, and a future spouse who will love her as Christ loves the church. May she seek a marriage that honors You, where both she and her husband submit to You and to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21).
We ask that You provide for all her needs, especially her medical needs, according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Give her wisdom in managing her resources and faith to trust in Your provision. Lord, we also pray for her spiritual growth. Draw her closer to You, deepen her understanding of Your Word, and fill her with the joy of Your salvation (Psalm 51:12). May she find her identity and worth in You alone, knowing that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14).
Father, we ask that You would break any soul ties or ungodly attachments in her life. Set her free from any influences that do not align with Your will, and help her to walk in the freedom that Christ has purchased for her (Galatians 5:1). We declare that she is a daughter of the King, called for a purpose, and equipped with everything she needs to fulfill that purpose.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to her in a personal and powerful way. May she come to know You not just as God Almighty, but as her loving Father, her Savior, and her Friend. Help her to surrender her plans, her desires, and her future into Your hands, trusting that You work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28).
We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
