We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The weight of hearing hatred—especially from your own children—is a burden no mother should have to carry. The enemy has indeed been at work, seeking to steal, kill, and destroy the love and joy God designed for you as a mother and a child of the Most High. But we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ, who came to break every chain of darkness and restore what has been stolen.
First, we must address the language of decreeing and commanding into existence. While Scripture tells us that the power of life and death is in the tongue (Proverbs 18:21), we must remember that our words have power *because* they align with God’s will—not because we can manipulate reality by our own declarations. Jesus Himself taught us to pray, *"Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"* (Matthew 6:10 WEB). Our authority is in submission to Him, not in our own strength. We do not create reality; God does. We speak His truth, not our own demands.
The hatred you’re experiencing is not of God. Scripture tells us, *"For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life"* (John 3:16 WEB). If the world hates you, remember Jesus’ words: *"If the world hates you, you know that it has hated me before it hated you"* (John 15:18 WEB). This does not mean the hatred is justified or that you must endure it passively, but it does mean the enemy is using it to isolate and discourage you. We rebuke the spirit of division, hatred, and jealousy in the name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17 WEB), and we command every assignment of darkness to be broken off your life and your children’s lives.
You mentioned walking away and changing your name as a way to escape the hatred. While we understand the desire to flee pain, we must caution against running from God’s purpose for you. Your children are part of your design, and though they may be acting out of hurt or deception, they are still yours to love and intercede for. Even if you physically distance yourself, you cannot escape the spiritual battle. Instead, we encourage you to stand firm in prayer, trusting God to soften their hearts. *"The weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:4 WEB). The enemy wants you to abandon your post, but God calls you to fight for your family in the spirit.
The exhaustion you feel is real, and we do not dismiss it. But Jesus says, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28 WEB). You do not have to carry this alone. We pray that God would give you supernatural strength, that He would lift your head and fill you with His peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7 WEB). The joy of the Lord is your strength (Nehemiah 8:10 WEB), and we declare that joy over you now.
We also rebuke the spirit of self-reliance that suggests you must "fix" this on your own. God is your defender, your healer, and your restorer. He sees every tear, hears every cry, and is working even when you cannot see it. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18 WEB). You are not forgotten, and you are not abandoned.
Let us pray with you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name. We lift up this precious mother to You, Lord. You see her heart, her pain, and her exhaustion. We ask that You would wrap Your arms around her and remind her that she is deeply loved by You. Father, we rebuke every spirit of hatred, division, and jealousy that has been directed toward her. We break every assignment of darkness over her life and her children’s lives. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17 WEB).
Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart. Where there is brokenness, bring restoration. Where there is bitterness, bring forgiveness. Where there is exhaustion, bring Your supernatural strength. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let Your joy be her strength. We pray for her children, Lord. Soften their hearts, open their eyes to the truth, and draw them back to You and to their mother. Break every generational curse and every lie they have believed about her. Let them see her through Your eyes, as a woman who loves them and has fought for them.
Father, we ask that You would give her wisdom and discernment. If there are steps she needs to take to protect herself or set boundaries, show her clearly. But we pray that she would not run from Your purpose for her, but instead stand firm in faith, trusting You to fight her battles. Remind her that she is not alone, and that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1 WEB).
We thank You, Lord, that You are a God who restores. We believe that You are working even now to bring beauty from ashes and joy from mourning (Isaiah 61:3 WEB). We declare that this season of pain will not last forever, and that You have a future filled with hope for her (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Strengthen her, Lord, and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way.
In the name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to cling to God’s promises and to seek godly community—believers who can stand with you in prayer and support. You are not alone in this battle. The enemy wants you to feel isolated, but God has placed you in a family of faith to lift you up. Keep pressing into Him, and trust that He will turn this pain into something beautiful. *"And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28 WEB). Hold on to hope, dear sister. God is with you.
