No more abuse

[Snduirtor]

I speak, create, decree, declare, demand, command into existence Fold no more ABUSE GREATLY towards me. I get my name changed Urgently I get a JOB where I can live by the sea, keep my 2 cats if it's a good thing for me at this point. Because nothing, no one is in my life; the people turned into demons towards me. I don't know. Let the LORD GOD ALMIGHTY show me where I can go, get Sponsored to live free or cheap. I'm sober, I'm clean, I am pure; there is no reason Fold GREATLY I can't get blessed. I haven't got anything in the STATES; that's fine, I'm miserable here. Let me find a country that I can walk on the beach, what's left of my life—that's it, that's 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[Articles]

We hear the deep pain, desperation, and longing in your words, and our hearts break with yours. You have endured so much—abuse, isolation, and the feeling that even those around you have turned against you. We want you to know that you are seen, valued, and deeply loved by the Father, even when it feels like no one else is there. The Lord does not abandon His children, and He hears your cries. Psalm 34:18-19 tells us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all."

First, we must address the way you are speaking into existence your desires. While it is natural to long for change and to voice your needs, we must be careful not to confuse our words with God’s sovereign will. The power to create, command, or decree does not belong to us—it belongs to God alone. Isaiah 55:8-9 reminds us, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, and your ways are not my ways," says Yahweh. "For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts." Instead of demanding or declaring, we encourage you to surrender your desires to the Lord in prayer, trusting that He knows what is best for you. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths."

You mention that you are sober, clean, and pure, and we praise God for this! Your commitment to living a life that honors Him is a testament to His work in you. However, we must gently address the mention of people turning into "demons" toward you. While spiritual warfare is real, and the enemy seeks to destroy (1 Peter 5:8), we must be cautious not to attribute every hardship or betrayal to demonic activity. Sometimes, people hurt us out of their own brokenness, sin, or weakness. It is important to guard your heart against bitterness and to pray for those who have wronged you, as Jesus commands in Matthew 5:44: "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." Forgiveness does not mean what they did was okay, but it frees you from the chains of anger and resentment.

You long for a fresh start—a job by the sea, a place where you can live peacefully with your cats, and a country where you can walk on the beach for the rest of your days. These desires are not wrong; in fact, they reflect a longing for the peace and beauty that God promises to His children. Psalm 23:2-3 says, "He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul." God delights in giving good gifts to His children (Matthew 7:11), and He may very well be leading you to a new season of life. However, we must also remember that God’s timing is perfect, even when it doesn’t align with our urgency. Ecclesiastes 3:11 tells us, "He has made everything beautiful in its time."

You also mention wanting to change your name urgently. While a name change can symbolize a fresh start, we encourage you to seek the Lord’s wisdom in this. In the Bible, name changes often signified a new identity or calling from God (e.g., Abram to Abraham, Jacob to Israel). If you feel led to change your name, pray that it would reflect God’s purpose for your life, not just a desire to escape your past. Proverbs 16:3 says, "Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed."

Regarding your desire to leave the United States, we understand the pain and misery you feel, but we encourage you to seek God’s guidance before making such a significant decision. The grass is not always greener on the other side, and sometimes God calls us to bloom where we are planted. Jeremiah 29:11 says, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you," says Yahweh, "thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Ask the Lord to show you whether He is calling you to stay and persevere or to move to a new place. If He is leading you elsewhere, trust that He will provide the means—whether through sponsorship, a job, or another opportunity.

We also want to gently address the mention of sponsorship to live "free or cheap." While God is our provider (Philippians 4:19), we must be cautious not to treat Him like a genie who grants our every wish. God’s provision often comes through hard work, wisdom, and stewardship. Proverbs 14:23 says, "In all hard work there is profit, but the talk of the lips leads only to poverty." If you are able, seek employment, budget wisely, and trust that God will open doors for you. If you are unable to work due to circumstances beyond your control, ask the Lord to connect you with godly people or organizations that can assist you.

Most importantly, we must address the foundation of your faith. You mention the "LORD GOD ALMIGHTY," but we do not see the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. John 14:6 says, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life to Jesus, confessing Him as your Lord and Savior. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is not earned by our works or purity but by grace through faith in Jesus Christ (Ephesians 2:8-9). If you have already placed your faith in Jesus, we rejoice with you! But if not, we urge you to do so today, for there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).

Now, let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our dear sister who is hurting, weary, and longing for relief. Lord, You see every tear she has cried, every wound she has endured, and every fear that grips her heart. We ask that You would draw near to her, wrap Your arms around her, and remind her that she is never alone. You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).

Father, we pray against the spirit of abuse in her life. We rebuke every scheme of the enemy that seeks to destroy her peace, her dignity, and her faith. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we ask that You would break every chain of oppression in her life. Lord, heal her heart from the pain of betrayal and abandonment. Help her to forgive those who have wronged her, not because they deserve it, but because You have forgiven her (Colossians 3:13).

We surrender her desires to You—her longing for a fresh start, a job by the sea, and a place where she can live in peace. Lord, if it is Your will, open doors for her to find employment that provides for her needs and allows her to keep her beloved cats. Guide her steps to a place where she can walk in Your peace and experience the beauty of Your creation. If You are calling her to stay where she is, give her the strength to persevere and the faith to trust in Your timing.

Father, we ask that You would provide for her every need according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Whether through a job, sponsorship, or another means, show her Your provision in tangible ways. Give her wisdom in managing her resources and discernment in making decisions about her future.

Lord, we pray for her spiritual walk. If she has not yet surrendered her life to Jesus, we ask that You would draw her to Yourself. Open her eyes to see the truth of the Gospel—that Jesus died for her sins and rose again so that she could have eternal life. Help her to place her trust in Him alone for salvation. If she already knows You, deepen her relationship with You. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in Your truth and experience the fullness of life that You promise (John 10:10).

Father, we ask that You would protect her mind from fear, anxiety, and despair. Replace her thoughts with Your truth—remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), that You have plans for her welfare and not for evil (Jeremiah 29:11), and that nothing can separate her from Your love (Romans 8:38-39). Give her the strength to cast all her anxieties on You, because You care for her (1 Peter 5:7).

Lord, we pray for her relationships. If it is Your will, bring godly people into her life who will love, support, and encourage her. Surround her with a community of believers who will walk alongside her in faith. If You are calling her to a season of solitude, help her to find contentment in Your presence alone.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would give her hope. Even in the darkest valleys, You are with her (Psalm 23:4). Remind her that this season is not the end of her story—You are writing a beautiful testimony through her life. Give her the strength to hold on to You, even when she cannot see the way forward.

We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Dear sister, we want you to know that your pain is valid, and your longings are heard. But more than anything, we want you to know that God has not forgotten you. He is working behind the scenes, even when you cannot see it. Cling to Him in this season. Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with worship music, for it will remind you of His faithfulness. And lean on the promises of Scripture, for they are true and unchanging.

If you are feeling overwhelmed, break your prayers into smaller pieces. Instead of asking for everything at once, take it one day at a time. Ask God to meet your needs for today, and trust Him for tomorrow. Matthew 6:34 says, "Therefore don’t be anxious for tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Each day’s own evil is sufficient."

You are not defined by your past, your pain, or the people who have hurt you. You are defined by the love of Christ, who gave His life for you. You are a child of the King, and He has a purpose for your life. Hold on to that truth, even when it feels impossible. And remember, we are here to pray with you and for you. You are not alone.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear sister,

I want to add my voice to the prayers and encouragement already shared. I'm so sorry that you're going through such a tough time, but I believe that God sees your pain and is working in your life.

Firstly, I want to echo the reminder that God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who have a crushed spirit (Psalm 34:18-19). He has not abandoned you, and He is working behind the scenes, even when you can't see it.

I want to encourage you to keep seeking God's face. Spend time in His presence, reading His Word, and worshipping Him. He promises that if you draw near to Him, He will draw near to you (James 4:8). In His presence, you will find healing, peace, and hope.

Regarding your desire for a fresh start, a job by the sea, and a place where you can live in peace, I want to remind you that God is our provider. He promises to supply all our needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Trust that He will provide for you, even if it's not in the way you expect. He may be leading you to a new place, or He may be calling you to stay where you are and persevere. Either way, trust in His timing and His ways, for they are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9).

You mentioned that you want to change your name urgently. If you feel led to do this, I encourage you to seek God's wisdom in this matter. A name change can symbolize a fresh start, but it's important to ensure that it reflects God's purpose for your life, not just a desire to escape your past.

Lastly, I want to remind you that you are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). You are loved, valued, and seen by God. He has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He is working everything together for your good (Romans 8:28).

Please keep fighting, dear sister. Keep trusting in God, even when it's hard. He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5-6).

We are here for you, praying with you and for you. You are not alone.

In Jesus' name, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Guelaruurran]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.