We hear your cry for a new beginning, peace, and deliverance from the spiritual oppression you are experiencing. Your words reveal deep pain, exhaustion, and a longing for freedom from forces that seek to destroy your life. We stand with you in prayer, declaring the power of Jesus’ name over every assignment of the enemy, every lie, and every attack against you. The Bible tells us in **Ephesians 6:12**, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* You are not fighting alone—God is your defender, and His angels are encamped around you (**Psalm 34:7**).
First, we must address the foundation of your faith. You speak of decreeing and declaring things into existence, but Scripture teaches that it is **God alone** who creates and sustains all things (**Genesis 1:1, Colossians 1:16-17**). While we can boldly come before Him in prayer (**Hebrews 4:16**) and make our requests known (**Philippians 4:6**), we do not command God or "speak things into existence" as if we hold His authority. That is a dangerous deception. Jesus Himself taught us to pray, *"Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"* (**Matthew 6:10**). Our prayers must align with God’s will, not our own desires apart from Him.
You mention seeking a "cute boyfriend" who loves the Lord and loves you. While companionship is a gift from God, we must be cautious not to place our hope in a person but in Christ alone. The Bible warns against being unequally yoked with unbelievers (**2 Corinthians 6:14**), and even in courtship, our focus should be on finding a **godly spouse**—not just a boyfriend—who shares your faith and commitment to marriage as a covenant before God (**Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:22-33**). If you are currently in a relationship that is not leading toward marriage or is outside of God’s design, we must rebuke that in Jesus’ name. If you are engaging in sexual intimacy outside of marriage, that is **fornication**, and Scripture is clear that it is sin (**1 Corinthians 6:18-20**). We urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness and healing in this area.
You also express a desire to move to another country by the sea, away from spiritual warfare and abuse. While God can certainly lead you to a new place, we must caution against running from battles that God may want to use to refine you (**James 1:2-4**). The enemy wants you to flee in fear, but God calls us to stand firm in faith (**Ephesians 6:13**). If you are in physical danger, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and safety. But if this is primarily a spiritual battle, remember that **greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world** (**1 John 4:4**). You do not need to escape Lucifer—you need to **submit to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you** (**James 4:7**).
Regarding your cats and the assignments against them: we rebuke in Jesus’ name every demonic attack seeking to harm your pets or use them as tools of torment. Animals are part of God’s creation, and He cares for them (**Matthew 6:26**). However, we must also remind you that while pets bring comfort, they are not a substitute for human relationships or the peace that only Christ can give (**John 14:27**).
You mention changing your name and starting an online business. While there is nothing inherently wrong with these things, we must ensure they are not rooted in a desire for control or escape rather than surrender to God’s will. Your identity is found in Christ (**Galatians 2:20**), not in a name or career. If God is leading you to these things, He will open the doors (**Revelation 3:8**), but we must seek Him first (**Matthew 6:33**).
Now, let us pray:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Name above all names. We thank You that You hear the cries of Your children and that You are a refuge for the oppressed. Lord, we lift up this precious one to You, asking that You break every chain of spiritual warfare, fear, and torment that has been assigned against her. We rebuke every assignment of the enemy—every demonic force, every lie, every attack on her mind, body, and spirit—in Jesus’ name. We declare that **no weapon formed against her shall prosper** (**Isaiah 54:17**), and that the blood of Jesus covers her and all that belongs to her.
Father, we ask for Your forgiveness where there has been fear, control, or reliance on anything other than You. Forgive us for trying to command Your will instead of surrendering to it. Forgive us for any relationships or desires that do not align with Your Word. Cleanse us, Lord, and renew a right spirit within us (**Psalm 51:10**).
We pray for Your divine protection over her life. Surround her with Your angels (**Psalm 91:11**), and let Your peace that surpasses all understanding guard her heart and mind (**Philippians 4:7**). If it is Your will for her to move to a new place, open the doors and provide the resources. If You are calling her to stand and fight, give her the strength and faith to do so.
Lord, we ask for godly relationships in her life—friends, mentors, and if it is Your will, a spouse who loves You and will walk with her in covenant marriage. Remove anyone from her life who does not have her best interests at heart, and bring people who will speak truth and life into her.
Father, we declare that the assignments of the enemy end today. Every plot, every delay, every blockage is broken in Jesus’ name. We speak life, peace, and provision over her. Let her steps be ordered by You (**Psalm 37:23**), and let her trust in You with all her heart (**Proverbs 3:5-6**).
We pray for her cats and all that concerns her. May they be a source of joy and comfort, and may every attack against them be silenced.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You draw her closer to You. Let her find her identity, security, and purpose in Christ alone. May she know that **You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble** (**Psalm 46:1**). We thank You for Your faithfulness, and we trust You to complete the work You have begun in her life (**Philippians 1:6**).
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."*
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, especially in the Psalms, which are filled with cries for deliverance and declarations of God’s faithfulness. Surround yourself with a biblical church community that can pray with you and hold you accountable. If you have not already, we urge you to fully surrender your life to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. **Romans 10:9** says, *"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved."* Salvation is not found in rituals, decrees, or even good works—it is found in **Jesus alone**.
You are not alone in this battle. The same God who parted the Red Sea, shut the mouths of lions, and raised Jesus from the dead is fighting for you. Stand firm, keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (**Romans 8:28**).