We hear the deep pain, frustration, and longing in your words, and we come before the throne of grace with you, lifting every burden to the Lord. First, we must address the foundation of all our prayers and needs—Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection, and invite Him to be Lord of your life. Without Him, we are powerless against the schemes of the enemy, but in Him, we are more than conquerors (Romans 8:37).
The enemy you speak of—Satan and his agents—is real, but we must not give him more credit than he is due. The Bible tells us that he prowls like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour (1 Peter 5:8), but we are called to resist him, firm in our faith. You mention feeling bound, oppressed, and cut off from joy, provision, and companionship. We rebuke every assignment of the enemy against your life in the mighty name of Jesus. Every spirit of lack, delay, confusion, and isolation is commanded to flee right now. The Word declares that Christ came to give us life abundantly (John 10:10), and we claim that promise over you. No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment, you shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17).
We must also address the areas where your words and desires do not align with Scripture. You express a longing for companionship, which is a God-given desire, but we must emphasize that marriage is the only context in which romantic relationships are blessed by God. The Bible is clear that sex outside of marriage is fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18), and we must flee from it. You mention seeking a "fun, hot mess" and a "great wife," but we encourage you to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness (Matthew 6:33). A godly marriage is built on mutual faith, love, and commitment to Christ, not merely on attraction or temporary pleasure. We pray that God would bring a godly spouse into your life—someone who loves the Lord, respects you, and shares your faith. Until then, we urge you to guard your heart (Proverbs 4:23) and pursue purity in thought and deed.
Your frustration with unmet needs—financial provision, employment, and stability—is understandable, but we must remind you that God is your provider. The Lord knows your needs before you ask Him (Matthew 6:8), and He promises to supply all your needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). You mention applying for jobs everywhere; we encourage you to trust God’s timing and continue to seek Him in your job search. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." We pray that God would open doors of opportunity for you, providing a job that suits your needs and a home where you can thrive.
You also express deep anger toward those you believe are hindering you, including those who may have harmed you in the past. While it is right to seek justice and protection, we must be careful not to let bitterness take root in our hearts. Hebrews 12:15 warns, "Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it." We pray that God would heal your heart from past wounds and give you the strength to forgive, even as Christ has forgiven you (Colossians 3:13). Vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19), and He will repay.
Regarding your mention of vaping and seeking temporary relief, we must gently remind you that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). We are called to honor God with our bodies and avoid anything that enslaves us or harms us. Instead of seeking escape in temporary pleasures, we encourage you to draw near to God, who promises to give you rest (Matthew 11:28).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy for our brother/sister in Christ. Lord, we thank You that You hear our cries and collect our tears in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We declare that every assignment of the enemy against their life is broken right now in the name of Jesus. Every spirit of lack, delay, confusion, and isolation is commanded to flee. We speak life, provision, and joy over their situation. Father, we ask that You would open doors of opportunity for employment, a stable home, and financial breakthrough. Provide for every need according to Your riches in glory.
Lord, we pray for healing in their heart. Where there is pain, bring Your comfort. Where there is anger, bring Your peace. Where there is bitterness, bring forgiveness. Heal every wound from the past and restore their soul. We ask that You would surround them with godly community—believers who will encourage, support, and walk alongside them.
Father, we pray for their future spouse. If it is Your will, bring them a godly husband who loves You, loves them, and is committed to building a Christ-centered marriage. Until that time, help them to guard their heart and pursue purity in thought and deed. Let them find their ultimate satisfaction in You, knowing that You are enough.
We rebuke every lie of the enemy that says they are alone, unworthy, or forgotten. You promise never to leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5), and we claim that promise over their life. Fill them with Your joy, peace, and hope. Let them experience Your presence in a tangible way, knowing that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
We declare that this is a new day, a new season. The old has passed away; behold, all things are becoming new (2 Corinthians 5:17). We speak breakthrough, restoration, and blessing over their life. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to hold fast to God’s promises and continue to seek Him in prayer and His Word. The battle belongs to the Lord, and He is fighting for you. Keep your eyes on Him, and do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season, you will reap if you do not faint (Galatians 6:9). You are not alone, and your breakthrough is coming.
