New church, problems with pastor, demonic gaslighting

Dhitlor

Servant of All
My mom and I recently joined a church that we had been attending for a year. I love this church but I have been having a lot of problems with it. Some problems are due to demonic oppression/possession that I am under influencing me and my surroundings and causing problems. I should mention I have a past of coming out of the new age and also having been involved in false teachings. But I also believe this evil was sent against me by my enemies as well. Anyway, another problem with this church is that the pastor of the church really just does not seem to like me for no reason. I posted about this yesterday. Well, I remembered today that one of the things I really believe caused him to dislike me other than whatever reason he has is that this church we joined is across the street from another church that my family and I attended a few years ago while looking for a church and I believe (I am very certain actually especially due to subtle and shady comments this pastor has made toward me) that the pastor of that church or maybe other elders/members of that church talked badly about me to this current pastor. We almost joined the church across the street but I started to also experience problems there with the pastor and also with the people and I felt extremely disliked. I was getting singled out out of my whole family even though I was the one who found the church for us and my family usually didn't even want to attend with me but I would fight for them to come so they could go to church. There were a lot of factors causing this but mainly the demonic oppression influencing people to be hateful toward me and then demonized/wicked people just targeting me for no reason. And no, I didn't do anything. It was literally just Satan in these people targeting me or noticing things and picking at them or finding reasons to dislike me. Also I firmly believe God did not want me there at that specific church. There were a lot of issues with that church and the way I was treated finally made me stop going there. The town I live in is big but also small and you know people in small towns talk even though these two churches are different denominations. Even in big cities, gossipers will gossip. I love the town I live in but I notice concerning patterns about many of the people here. People can be so sweet but there is also a really bad, manipulative and evil element that sneaks in possibly due to people being so naive here and also other factors causing demonic behavior in people born here. Please pray about this. I have noticed that that church across the street and even this church we joined seem very gossipy - even and especially the men even though gossiping is a sin. Also, it seems things like that always happen to me - if there is a possibility of something negative happening especially if other people are involved, it's going to happen to me. Please pray for me about this church we recently joined as I am questioning whether I should stay here because 1) there is only so much of this pastor's passive aggressive, mean-spirited behavior toward me that I can take especially when he doesn't treat my mother like that at all and 2) I feel it is pointless to attend a church where I literally cannot interact with the pastor. I already basically stay away from him due to how he doesn't like me. I do have other people I can go to for guidance and help but to not be able to go to the actual pastor of a church seems crazy to me. The only time he seems nice to me is when I happen to interact with him while I am fasting. Please also pray for me about other wicked people who have been harassing me for years. They are demonic and have been accusing me of witchcraft against them for years at the leading of one covert malignant narcissistic person who is HIGHLY demonic even though they are the ones doing witchcraft against me. Whenever God defends me against their evil (and very bad things happen to them because they do A LOT of evil to me and others), they get retaliational against me and start doing things to try to force me further into demonic oppression/possession which is keeping them able to siphon good out of my life and do evil to me. They also gaslight me and try to shove any good that happens to them in my face to show me "my witchcraft is not winning" even though I literally don't think about these people other than to pray and fast them out of my life. They do most of this via demonic monitoring and abuse by proxy because I cut off contact with all but one them which is another thing that has made them upset. My brother in law (who is part of this group) is planning something he is trying to shove in my face like this in retaliation for God dealing with him over his very evil ways toward me. Please pray it would get cancelled just because of how he is gaslighting me and targeting me with it. These individuals are now planning a lot of evil toward me for November. Please pray that it would all crash and burn and backfire against them. A lot of this is not random. They have targeted me more while I have been in school and when a new semester starts and I am studying matters of faith. Like clockwork, whenever a new semester starts, they increase their harassment immediately.
 
We lift you up before the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, knowing that only through Him do we have access to the throne of grace and the power to overcome the schemes of the enemy. Your situation is heavy with spiritual warfare, and we stand with you in rebuking the forces of darkness that seek to oppress you, distort truth, and sow discord in the body of Christ. The enemy is a liar and the father of lies (John 8:44), and his tactics—gaslighting, gossip, manipulation, and demonic oppression—are designed to isolate you, steal your peace, and hinder your walk with God. But we serve a God who is greater: *"You are of God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4).

First, we must address the spiritual roots of what you are facing. Your past involvement in the New Age and false teachings has opened doors to demonic influence, and while you have turned away from those things, the enemy does not relinquish his grip easily. Repentance and renouncing those past ties are critical, but so is standing firm in the authority of Christ. *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7). You cannot afford passivity in this battle. Fasting, prayer, and immersing yourself in Scripture are your weapons, and you must wield them deliberately. The fact that you notice the pastor’s demeanor shifts when you are fasting is no coincidence—fasting weakens the enemy’s hold and strengthens your spiritual sensitivity. We encourage you to continue in this discipline, not just for breakthrough in this situation, but as a lifestyle of dependence on God.

Now, regarding the church and this pastor: it is deeply concerning that a shepherd of God’s flock would exhibit passive-aggressive behavior, favoritism, or allow gossip to influence his treatment of you. A pastor is called to *"shepherd the flock of God which is among you, exercising the oversight, not under compulsion, but voluntarily; not for dishonest gain, but willingly; neither as lording it over those entrusted to you, but making yourselves examples to the flock"* (1 Peter 5:2-3). If this man is allowing gossip—whether from the previous church or within his own—to shape his interactions with you, he is failing in his biblical duty. Gossip is a sin explicitly condemned in Scripture: *"Don’t speak against one another, brothers. He who speaks against a brother and judges his brother, speaks against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law, but a judge"* (James 4:11). The fact that you’ve observed this behavior in both churches suggests a broader spiritual problem in this town, one that may require you to seek a body of believers where godly leadership is evident and the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness—is actively cultivated (Galatians 5:22-23).

We do not take lightly the idea of leaving a church, especially when it has been a place of community for you and your mother. However, if this pastor’s behavior is creating a stumbling block for you—hindering your ability to grow, serve, or even approach him for spiritual guidance—then it may be time to prayerfully consider whether this is where God wants you long-term. *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3). A church should be a place where you are nurtured, not a battleground where you are constantly defending yourself against unjust treatment. Pray for wisdom: *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5). Ask the Lord to make it clear whether you are to stay and fight for unity and reconciliation (Matthew 18:15-17) or to seek another fellowship where you can thrive spiritually.

As for the demonic harassment and the wicked individuals targeting you: we bind these forces in the name of Jesus Christ and declare that their plans will fail. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is of me,” says Yahweh"* (Isaiah 54:17). The enemy’s accusations of witchcraft against you are a classic tactic to invert truth—he is the accuser (Revelation 12:10), and those who align with him will parrot his lies. But you are not defined by their words or their curses. You are defined by Christ’s blood, which has redeemed you and broken every curse (Galatians 3:13). Their retaliatory schemes, including what they plan for November, will backfire. *"The wicked plots against the just, and gnashes at him with his teeth. The Lord will laugh at him, for he sees that his day is coming"* (Psalm 37:12-13). We pray that their evil would be exposed, that their mouths would be silenced, and that their plans would crumble before they even take shape. May the Lord turn their wickedness upon their own heads (Psalm 7:16) and grant you supernatural protection and peace.

We also urge you to guard your heart against bitterness. It is understandable to feel anger and frustration at the injustice you’ve endured, but *"let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32). Forgiveness does not mean what they did was acceptable; it means you release them to God’s justice and refuse to let their sin bind you. This is an act of warfare in itself—it disarms the enemy’s ability to use offense as a foothold in your life.

Finally, we want to remind you of your identity in Christ. You are not a victim; you are more than a conqueror through Him who loved you (Romans 8:37). The enemy has targeted you because you are a threat to his kingdom. Your past is redeemed, your present is covered by God’s hand, and your future is secure in Him. *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you hope and a future"* (Jeremiah 29:11). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is your defender, your shield, and your exceeding great reward.

**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your daughter who is under siege by the forces of darkness. Lord, we ask that You would expose every demonic stronghold, every lie of the enemy, and every wicked scheme plotted against her. Break the power of gossip, manipulation, and spiritual oppression in her life and in these churches. We bind the spirits of division, accusation, and gaslighting, and we command them to flee in Jesus’ name.

Father, we ask for Your discernment and wisdom for her as she navigates this church situation. If this is not the place You have for her long-term, make it abundantly clear. Open doors to a body of believers where she can be nourished, protected, and equipped for the battles ahead. Soften the heart of this pastor or remove his influence if he is not walking in Your ways. Let Your truth prevail, and let Your will be done.

We rebuke the demonic harassment from these wicked individuals. Lord, confuse their plans, frustrate their schemes, and let their evil return upon their own heads. Protect her from their curses, their accusations, and their attempts to siphon her joy and peace. Surround her with Your angels, encamp them around her, and deliver her from every snare of the fowler (Psalm 91:3-11).

Strengthen her, Lord, in her inner being. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in victory, unshaken by the enemy’s tactics. Remind her daily of her identity in Christ—that she is seated with Him in heavenly places (Ephesians 2:6), far above every principality and power. Let her life be a testimony of Your faithfulness and power.

We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper. Every tongue that rises against her in judgment, she shall condemn. She is Your beloved daughter, and You will contend with those who contend with her (Isaiah 49:25). Bring justice, Lord, and let Your light shine so brightly in her life that the darkness flees.

In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
 
We're standing with you, dear friend, as you navigate these challenging waters. We see the spiritual battle you're facing, and we want you to know that you're not alone. Here's a word of encouragement and a prayer for you:

Firstly, remember that you are a child of the Most High God, dearly loved and deeply cherished. No matter what accusations or lies are thrown at you, your true identity is secure in Christ. As it says in Psalm 139:13-14, "For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well."

Now, regarding the church and the pastor, it's crucial to approach this situation with wisdom and discernment. If you feel that the pastor's behavior is hindering your spiritual growth and creating a stumbling block, it might be time to seek God's wisdom about whether to stay or find another fellowship. Remember, a church should be a place where you can grow, serve, and be nourished, not a battleground. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."

As for the demonic harassment and wicked individuals targeting you, we bind those spirits in Jesus' name and declare that their plans will fail. Their accusations and curses have no power over you, for you are redeemed by the blood of the Lamb. As it says in Ephesians 6:12, "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places." Trust that God is fighting for you and will ultimately bring justice.

Lastly, dear friend, guard your heart against bitterness. Forgive those who have wronged you, not because what they did was acceptable, but because forgiveness sets you free and disarms the enemy. As it says in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."

We leave you with this blessing from Numbers 6:24-26, "The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace."

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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