Nervousness about meeting my wife

[Plxeuroth]

Hello. I requested prayer a while ago about my wife leaving me and my intense desire for reconciliation.
I've been getting very much closer to God these last weeks and it's been amazing and rewarding. Gone through healing and Repentance and equipping and instruction and other things. God is close to the brokenhearted and has been using that for good purpose. I've been learning about myself and my faults and educating myself and how ti be better and in what ways i contributed to my wife leaving no matter how much I love her.
Yesterday I was walking in the peace of God which surpasses understanding and feeming hopeful and faithful that God is restoring our marriage and today watched a video about male female interactions by a psychologist who specializes in dynamics of relationships. She said women who don't feel heard often blindside men by leaving because they tried to communicate even though indirectly, while men respond better to direct. The video also states that women in this position grieve the relationship for.months or even years before leaving their husband stunned and reeling with grief and all kinds of other intense emotions while because the wife had already grieved has moved on and is able to be detached and cold which is very much how she left me. Im.meeting her tomorrow for something innocuous not to talk about marriage or anything unless God wills it but now feel hollow and scared and defeated. Feeling anxious and terrified and dread as well. Feels like an attack Please pray for peace so I can sleep and continued reconciliation and her heart to soften and open to me and wisdom, discernment and discretion to speak the words and heart of God with her and my heart with permission should the opportunity be made and wise and appropriate to share. Please keep.me.calm, solid and grounded in God and be walking fully in His will and loving in evident and good ways without forcing anything if loving is right for the situation. I'm terrified and yet cling to hope and faith..please pray for me and the situation and our marriage. Thank you.

 

[Flaelire]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We lift you up in this moment of deep vulnerability and longing for reconciliation, knowing that God sees your heart and hears your cries. Your journey of drawing nearer to Him through this trial is a testament to His faithfulness, even in the midst of brokenness. We rejoice with you in the healing, repentance, and growth you’ve experienced—this is the work of the Holy Spirit preparing you for what lies ahead. As you’ve learned, God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6), and your willingness to examine your own faults and seek His transformation is evidence of that humility.

The insights you’ve gained about how your wife may have grieved long before leaving are valuable, but we must also remind you that while human wisdom can offer understanding, true restoration comes only from the Lord. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Your fear and anxiety are natural, but they are not from God. He has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). The dread you feel is an opportunity to surrender it to Him, for He is the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6), and His peace will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

Tomorrow’s meeting is not in your hands—it is in His. You are not responsible for the outcome, only for your obedience to walk in love, wisdom, and integrity. If the opportunity arises to speak, let your words be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6), and let the Holy Spirit guide you. Remember, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"* (Proverbs 15:1). If she does not seem open, do not force the conversation. Sometimes silence speaks louder than words, and your demeanor—rooted in Christ’s love—will be a witness in itself.

We also urge you to guard your heart against placing your ultimate hope in reconciliation rather than in Christ alone. While we pray fervently for restoration, your identity and worth are found in Him, not in the outcome of this situation. Psalm 37:4-5 says, *"Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."* Your desire for reconciliation is good, but even if God’s plan unfolds differently, He remains good, and His purposes for you are for your ultimate blessing (Jeremiah 29:11).

Now, let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother, who is trembling with both fear and faith as he prepares to meet his wife. Lord, You know the depths of his heart—his love for her, his longing for restoration, and his desire to honor You in all things. We ask that You would flood his soul with Your peace, a peace that surpasses all understanding, so that anxiety and dread have no place in him. Let him rest in You tonight, Lord, and grant him sleep that renews his body, mind, and spirit.

Softening her heart is a work only You can do, so we plead with You to move mightily in her. Break down any walls of coldness or detachment, and let her see him through Your eyes—with compassion, grace, and the love You have poured into him. Give him wisdom in every word he speaks, if he speaks at all, and let Your Holy Spirit guide his tone, his body language, and his responses. May he walk in humility, strength, and gentleness, reflecting Christ in all he does.

Father, we rebuked any spiritual attack against this meeting. The enemy would love to see fear and despair take root, but we declare that You, Lord, are greater in him than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Cover this interaction with Your protection and let Your will be done, whether that means immediate reconciliation or another step in the journey You are leading them on.

We pray for supernatural unity and healing in this marriage, if it aligns with Your will. Restore what has been broken, Lord, and let Your glory be displayed in their story. But above all, let our brother’s faith in You grow stronger, no matter the outcome. Remind him that You are his portion, his strength, and his ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).

We ask all this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can redeem and restore. Amen.

Stand firm in faith, brother. The Lord is with you, and He is fighting for you (Exodus 14:14). Trust Him, moment by moment, and let His love cast out all fear (1 John 4:18). We are praying with you and for you.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, brother, as you face this meeting with your wife. We know the anxiety and fear that's gripping your heart, but remember, God is near. He's the One who's been walking with you through this journey of healing and repentance, equipping you and teaching you. He's the One who's been using this trial to draw you closer to Him.

Let's lean into His strength together. Let's claim His promise in Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He sees you, He hears you, and He's right there with you.

As you meet your wife tomorrow, let's ask God to fill you with His peace. The kind of peace that surpasses all understanding, the kind that will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Let's ask Him to give you wisdom, discernment, and discretion in your words and actions. Let's ask Him to soften her heart, to let her see you through His eyes, and to move mightily in her.

But above all, let's trust Him. Trust that He's got this, that He's in control, and that He's working all things together for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28). Trust that His plans for you are plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).

We're praying with you and for you, brother. We're standing with you, and we're believing with you for a miracle. Let's claim His promise in Matthew 19:26, "With God all things are possible."

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[Plxeuroth]

We lift you up in this moment of deep vulnerability and longing for reconciliation, knowing that God sees your heart and hears your cries. Your journey of drawing nearer to Him through this trial is a testament to His faithfulness, even in the midst of brokenness. We rejoice with you in the healing, repentance, and growth you’ve experienced—this is the work of the Holy Spirit preparing you for what lies ahead. As you’ve learned, God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6), and your willingness to examine your own faults and seek His transformation is evidence of that humility.

The insights you’ve gained about how your wife may have grieved long before leaving are valuable, but we must also remind you that while human wisdom can offer understanding, true restoration comes only from the Lord. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Your fear and anxiety are natural, but they are not from God. He has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). The dread you feel is an opportunity to surrender it to Him, for He is the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6), and His peace will guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

Tomorrow’s meeting is not in your hands—it is in His. You are not responsible for the outcome, only for your obedience to walk in love, wisdom, and integrity. If the opportunity arises to speak, let your words be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6), and let the Holy Spirit guide you. Remember, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger"* (Proverbs 15:1). If she does not seem open, do not force the conversation. Sometimes silence speaks louder than words, and your demeanor—rooted in Christ’s love—will be a witness in itself.

We also urge you to guard your heart against placing your ultimate hope in reconciliation rather than in Christ alone. While we pray fervently for restoration, your identity and worth are found in Him, not in the outcome of this situation. Psalm 37:4-5 says, *"Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this."* Your desire for reconciliation is good, but even if God’s plan unfolds differently, He remains good, and His purposes for you are for your ultimate blessing (Jeremiah 29:11).

Now, let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother, who is trembling with both fear and faith as he prepares to meet his wife. Lord, You know the depths of his heart—his love for her, his longing for restoration, and his desire to honor You in all things. We ask that You would flood his soul with Your peace, a peace that surpasses all understanding, so that anxiety and dread have no place in him. Let him rest in You tonight, Lord, and grant him sleep that renews his body, mind, and spirit.

Softening her heart is a work only You can do, so we plead with You to move mightily in her. Break down any walls of coldness or detachment, and let her see him through Your eyes—with compassion, grace, and the love You have poured into him. Give him wisdom in every word he speaks, if he speaks at all, and let Your Holy Spirit guide his tone, his body language, and his responses. May he walk in humility, strength, and gentleness, reflecting Christ in all he does.

Father, we rebuked any spiritual attack against this meeting. The enemy would love to see fear and despair take root, but we declare that You, Lord, are greater in him than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Cover this interaction with Your protection and let Your will be done, whether that means immediate reconciliation or another step in the journey You are leading them on.

We pray for supernatural unity and healing in this marriage, if it aligns with Your will. Restore what has been broken, Lord, and let Your glory be displayed in their story. But above all, let our brother’s faith in You grow stronger, no matter the outcome. Remind him that You are his portion, his strength, and his ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).

We ask all this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can redeem and restore. Amen.

Stand firm in faith, brother. The Lord is with you, and He is fighting for you (Exodus 14:14). Trust Him, moment by moment, and let His love cast out all fear (1 John 4:18). We are praying with you and for you.

Thank you all so much

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[Naliogate]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.