We hear the deep distress in your words, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ to rebuke the spiritual chaos and toxicity you are describing. The enemy is at work in this situation, seeking to pervert God’s design for marriage, family, and purity. The Lord has not called us to live in confusion or under the oppression of demonic influences, but to walk in the light of His truth, covered by the blood of Jesus.
The Scripture you referenced in Matthew 5:31-32 is clear: *"It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.’"* This is God’s standard—marriage is a sacred covenant, not to be broken except in cases of unrepentant sexual immorality. What you are witnessing is a direct assault on this divine order, fueled by the enemy’s lies and the sinful desires of the flesh. The mockery, sexual immorality, and gossip you describe are not just human failures but evidence of demonic strongholds that must be broken in Jesus’ name.
We also note with urgency that you have not invoked the name of Jesus Christ in your request. There is no power, no authority, and no access to the Father except through Him. *"Jesus said, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6). *"There is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we implore you to do so now. Confess your sins, repent, and place your faith in Him alone for salvation. Without this foundation, you cannot effectively stand against the spiritual forces at work around you.
Now, let us address the specific evils you’ve described. The spirit of divorce is a destructive force, and the enemy uses it to bring confusion, pain, and broken families. The phrases you’ve shared—*"I am not her, he is not him," "we don’t have ties family," "inappropriate sexual mix"*—reveal a perversion of God’s design for marriage and identity. This is not of God. The Lord created marriage to be a lifelong union between one man and one woman, reflecting Christ’s relationship with His Church (Ephesians 5:31-32). Any distortion of this—whether through divorce without biblical grounds, sexual immorality, or the mockery of marriage—is an abomination in His sight.
The "gang" mentality you describe, spreading chaos, gossip, and sexual mockery, is a work of the flesh and demonic influence. *"Now the works of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful desires, idolatry, sorcery, hostility, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before: those who practice such things will not inherit God’s Kingdom"* (Galatians 5:19-21). This is not a time to remain silent or passive. We must take a stand in the Spirit.
Let us pray with authority and clarity:
**Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We thank You that You are a God of order, purity, and truth, and that You have given us authority to trample on serpents and scorpions and over all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:19). Lord, we lift up this situation of divorce, sexual immorality, confusion, and demonic oppression to You. We rebuke every spirit of divorce, adultery, fornication, gossip, mockery, and chaos that is operating in this neighborhood and through these individuals. These spirits are not welcome here, and they have no authority in the name of Jesus.
Father, we bind the strongman behind this toxicity. We break every curse, every generational tie, and every demonic assignment sent to destroy marriages, families, and godly identities. We declare that no weapon formed against Your people shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We command every spirit of lust, perversion, and sexual immorality to be exposed and cast out in Jesus’ name. We break the power of gossip and slander, and we declare that every tongue that rises against Your people in judgment shall be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
Lord, we ask for Your protection over this individual who has brought this request. Surround them with Your angels, and let no evil befall them. Give them discernment, wisdom, and the courage to stand firm in Your truth. If they have not yet surrendered to Christ, we pray that today would be the day of salvation. Open their eyes to see the urgency of repentance and faith in Jesus alone.
Father, we also pray for those who are caught in this web of sin and deception. Soften their hearts to convict them of their wrongdoing. Bring them to repentance, that they may turn from their wicked ways and seek Your forgiveness. Raise up godly believers in that neighborhood to be lights in the darkness, to speak truth, and to pray against the enemy’s schemes.
We declare that marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled (Hebrews 13:4). We stand against the spirit of this age that seeks to redefine and destroy what You have established. Let Your Holy Spirit move mightily to bring conviction, repentance, and restoration.
Finally, Lord, we ask for Your peace to guard the heart and mind of the one who has shared this request. Fill them with Your joy, Your strength, and Your righteous anger against sin. Let them walk in victory, knowing that greater is He who is in them than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4).
We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.**
Now, to you who have shared this: **stand firm.** Put on the whole armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) daily. Do not engage in the gossip or the chaos around you. Instead, pray fervently, speak life, and walk in holiness. If you are not already immersed in the Word of God, we urge you to begin reading it daily. Surround yourself with believers who will stand with you in prayer and accountability.
If you are struggling with any of the sins mentioned—whether in thought, word, or deed—repent now. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). The Lord is merciful, but He calls us to holiness. Do not allow the enemy to lure you into compromise.
Lastly, if you are single, seek the Lord for a godly spouse who will honor Him in marriage. If you are married, guard your marriage fiercely. Do not let the culture or the enemy redefine what God has established. Marriage is a covenant, and it is worth fighting for in prayer and obedience.
We are standing with you in this battle. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and do not waver. The Lord is your strength and your shield.
