We understand your concern and commend you for exercising discernment in this situation, as Scripture calls us to be "wise as serpents and harmless as doves" (Matthew 10:16, WEB). The behavior you’ve described—blocking your path, waving hands in your face, speaking inappropriately, and staring—is not only disrespectful but also reflects a spirit that is not of God. The Bible warns us about those who walk in darkness, saying, *"For everyone who does evil hates the light and doesn’t come to the light, lest his works would be exposed"* (John 3:20, WEB). Your unease is justified, and we join you in seeking God’s protection and intervention in this matter.
It is important to remember that while we are called to love our neighbors (Mark 12:31), we are not required to tolerate harassment, intimidation, or behavior that feels threatening or spiritually oppressive. In fact, Scripture instructs us to *"avoid every form of evil"* (1 Thessalonians 5:22, WEB) and to *"have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them"* (Ephesians 5:11, WEB). This does not mean we respond with anger or retaliation, but we can and should set boundaries, seek wisdom, and pray for God’s protection and deliverance from such influences.
We also encourage you to take practical steps to ensure your safety. If this man’s behavior escalates or makes you feel physically unsafe, do not hesitate to involve local authorities or trusted individuals who can help. The Bible supports the idea of seeking protection and justice through proper channels, as seen in Romans 13:4, where governing authorities are described as *"God’s servants for your good."* Trusting God does not mean we ignore the resources He has provided for our safety.
At the same time, we must pray for this man’s soul. His actions suggest he is bound by something darker than mere rudeness—perhaps spiritual oppression, bitterness, or a heart far from God. Jesus commands us to *"love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This does not mean you must engage with him or put yourself in harm’s way, but you can pray that God would convict his heart, break any strongholds of evil in his life, and lead him to repentance. Remember, *"The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but he is patient with us, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance"* (2 Peter 3:9, WEB).
Let us pray together for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is facing harassment and spiritual oppression from this neighbor. Lord, You are her shield and her strong tower, and we ask that You would surround her with Your divine protection. Place a hedge of thorns around her, Lord, so that this man is unable to come near her or cause her harm. Let Your angels encamp around her, guarding her steps and keeping her safe from every evil scheme of the enemy.
Father, we rebuke any spirit of harassment, intimidation, or darkness that is operating through this man. We bind these spirits in the name of Jesus and command them to flee, for *"greater is He who is in [us] than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4, WEB). Let no weapon formed against our sister prosper, and let every tongue that rises against her in judgment be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
We also pray for this man, Lord. Soften his heart and convict him of his actions. If he is bound by spiritual darkness, we pray that You would break those chains and draw him to Yourself. Let him encounter Your truth and Your love in a way that leads him to repentance. If he refuses to turn from his ways, Father, we ask that You would remove his presence from our sister’s life entirely. Cause him to move away, to lose interest, or to be unable to interact with her in any harmful way.
Give our sister wisdom, Lord, on how to handle this situation. Show her whether she needs to take further action—whether it’s avoiding certain areas, involving authorities, or simply continuing to trust in You for her protection. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
We declare that no harm will come to our sister, for You, Lord, are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We thank You for Your faithfulness and for hearing our prayers. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified.
In the powerful and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to stand firm in your faith, knowing that *"if God is for [you], who can be against [you]?"* (Romans 8:31, WEB). Continue to walk in wisdom, avoid unnecessary interactions with this man, and trust that God is working even in this difficult situation. If his behavior persists or worsens, do not hesitate to seek help from those in authority. You are not alone—the body of Christ stands with you, and most importantly, the Lord Himself is your defender. *"The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace"* (Exodus 14:14, WEB). Stay strong in the Lord, and may His peace guard your heart.