Neighbor troubling

Anonymous

Beloved of All
St. Francis, pls pray for me. Lord please help me. Our neighbors are troubling me a lot. Playing cricket. I scolded neighbor children. No parents came to compensate my loss. Pipe broke, car hit, block gate entry with their cars. I am not rich. I am not able to find a new plot or house to shift. Nor additional money to renovate this house completely with big gates. I am not having peace after scolding anyone. Especially children. I like children. Lord why me? Help them to forget this and stop hurting me. Last 2 months ### went for our laptop repair and ### advocate fees. Lord unable to bear the car damage. God, my neighbors won't fight with me. They will forget and be very busy so that I will stay peaceful. I beg you Lord. Forgive me Jesus.
 
We come before the Lord with you in this time of distress, lifting your burdens to the One who hears and answers prayer. It is clear that your heart is troubled by the actions of your neighbors, the financial strain, and the lack of peace in your home. Yet we must first address something vital—your prayer was directed to "St. Francis," and we gently but firmly remind you that there is only one Mediator between God and man, the Lord Jesus Christ. *"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is through His name alone that we approach the Father, and it is in His name that we pray for you now.

Your frustration is understandable—broken pipes, car damage, blocked gates, and the financial weight of repairs are real hardships. But we must also examine the state of your heart. You mentioned scolding the neighbor’s children, and while discipline may sometimes be necessary, we are called to speak with grace and patience, especially to little ones. *"Fathers, don’t provoke your children, so that they won’t be discouraged"* (Colossians 3:21, WEB). Even in correction, our words should reflect Christ’s love, not anger or bitterness. Have you considered speaking to the parents in humility, seeking reconciliation rather than confrontation? *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB).

The financial strain you describe is heavy, and we acknowledge your fear and helplessness. But remember, the Lord sees your needs and promises to provide. *"Don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ ... For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:31-33, WEB). Have you brought this burden to the Lord in surrender, trusting Him to make a way? It may be that He is calling you to rely on Him more deeply in this season.

We also sense a spirit of fear and resentment taking root in your heart. You ask, *"Lord, why me?"*—a question that reveals the pain of feeling targeted. But Scripture reminds us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces. *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). Have you considered that this trial may be an opportunity to demonstrate Christ’s love to your neighbors, even when they wrong you? *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB).

As for the children, your confession that you *"like children"* is beautiful. Let that love guide your actions. Pray for them instead of scolding them. Ask God to soften their hearts and turn their energy toward good. And pray for their parents—that the Lord would convict them to take responsibility and teach their children respect for others’ property.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift our brother/sister before You, knowing that You are a God who hears the cries of the afflicted. Lord, we ask for Your peace to flood their heart—a peace that surpasses understanding. Calm the storm of anger, fear, and resentment that has taken hold. Replace it with Your love, patience, and wisdom.

Father, we pray for reconciliation with these neighbors. Soften their hearts, Lord, and open doors for respectful, honest conversation. If there has been wrongdoing on either side, bring conviction and repentance. Help our brother/sister to respond in a way that honors You, even when they feel wronged.

We ask for Your provision over their finances. You know the cost of the damages, the strain of unexpected expenses, and the desire for a safer home. Lord, we trust You to provide—whether through restored relationships, unexpected resources, or a miraculous solution only You can bring. Help them to seek Your Kingdom first, knowing that You will supply all their needs according to Your riches in glory.

Protect their home, Lord. Guard it from further damage and give them wisdom in how to address these ongoing issues. If it is Your will, move in the hearts of these neighbors to show consideration and respect. But even if they do not change, fill our brother/sister with Your grace to respond with kindness and trust in You.

We rebuke any spirit of fear, bitterness, or unforgiveness trying to take root. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we declare freedom and peace over this situation. Let Your love be the driving force in every word and action.

Finally, Lord, we pray for their faith to grow through this trial. Remind them that You are near to the brokenhearted and that You work all things together for good for those who love You. May this season draw them closer to You, trusting in Your sovereignty and goodness.

We ask all this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Stand firm in faith, knowing that the Lord is fighting for you. *"Don’t be afraid, nor be dismayed ... for the battle is not yours, but God’s"* (2 Chronicles 20:15, WEB). Keep praying, keep trusting, and let your actions reflect the love of Christ—even to those who trouble you. If you have not already, forgive them as Christ has forgiven you. *"Bearing with one another and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do"* (Colossians 3:13, WEB). The Lord is with you.
 
Dear friend, we're here with you, feeling the weight of your troubles. Your neighbors' actions, the financial strain, and the lack of peace at home - it's all so overwhelming. But remember, God sees you, and He cares. He's not surprised by any of this, and He wants to help.

We've been praying for you, asking God to fill your heart with His peace. We've asked Him to soften your neighbors' hearts, to open their eyes to the hurt they're causing. We've also prayed for wisdom for you, that you might respond with kindness and patience, even when it's hard.

We know it's tough, but we encourage you to keep trusting God. He's got a plan, and He's working it out, even in the midst of all this. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep loving, just as Jesus loves you.

We're here for you, every step of the way. Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer, knowing that our God is faithful and true.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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