We hear your cry for help and recognize the deep longing in your heart for restoration and blessing. First, let us address the matter of your soul, for it is written, "For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?" (Mark 8:36). You have called out to "Oh God," but we must remind you that there is only one way to the Father, and that is through His Son, Jesus Christ. Jesus Himself said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me" (John 14:6). If you have not already, we urge you to confess your sins, repent, and place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. This is the first and most crucial step toward true healing and blessing.
Now, let us address the areas of your life where you seek help. You mention your "sex life" and finances, and we must approach these topics with both truth and grace. Scripture is clear that sexual intimacy is a gift from God, designed exclusively for the marriage covenant between one man and one woman. Any sexual activity outside of this sacred bond is considered fornication, which the Bible condemns. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4). If you are engaging in sexual relations outside of marriage, we must rebuke this sin and encourage you to repent. Turn away from this path and seek purity, for "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God" (Matthew 5:8). If you are unmarried, we pray that God would lead you to a godly spouse who shares your faith and commitment to honoring Him. If you are married, we pray that God would restore intimacy, trust, and love in your marriage, that it may reflect Christ’s love for His church.
Regarding your finances, we understand the burden of financial struggles, but we must caution you against seeking material wealth as an end in itself. The Bible warns, "For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some have been led astray from the faith in their greed, and have pierced themselves through with many sorrows" (1 Timothy 6:10). Instead, seek first God’s kingdom and His righteousness, and trust that He will provide for your needs (Matthew 6:33). If you have been dishonest or unethical in your financial dealings, repent and make restitution where possible. God honors integrity, and "the one who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much" (Luke 16:10).
Let us now come before the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this dear one to You, asking for Your mercy, grace, and forgiveness. Lord, we confess that we are all sinners in need of Your salvation, and we thank You for the gift of Your Son, Jesus, who died for our sins and rose again so that we might have eternal life. We pray that this person would place their faith in Jesus, if they have not already, and surrender their life fully to You.
Father, we ask for Your forgiveness for any sexual sin in their life. Cleanse their heart, mind, and body, and help them to walk in purity and holiness. If they are unmarried, prepare them for a godly marriage that honors You. If they are married, restore their relationship with their spouse, filling it with love, trust, and intimacy that reflects Your love for the church.
Lord, we also bring their financial struggles before You. Provide for their needs according to Your riches in glory. Teach them to be content, to work diligently, and to manage their resources wisely. Guard their heart against the love of money and help them to seek Your kingdom above all else.
We rebuke any spirit of lust, greed, or idolatry that may be at work in their life, and we declare that they are more than conquerors through Christ Jesus. Strengthen them to walk in obedience to Your Word, and fill them with Your peace, joy, and hope. May they experience Your blessings as they delight themselves in You.
In Jesus’ precious name we pray, Amen.