Need Help Communicating With My Spouse

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Yesterday I felt the urge to try and talk to my spouse about issues in our marriage..I wanted him to be honest for once and be accountable...it weighed on my heart! So I tried with not such great results..he avoided every question to do with him by trying to turn the tables on my faults...which I went through them again with him ans still asked him to be honest! But he stopped testing...I told him this morning I was canceling the divorce because I did not want it and he should have been the one to file not me..I filed for more of financial and custody reasons..he didn't say anything much back yo that..he didn't agree or disagree!I just pray the lord still work on his heart to soften it, convict his heart of his wrongs, for him to stop his adultery...I pray that the lord works in my heart to change me and help me to stay strong and not get discouraged..to let me know im making the right decision..I am new to this and the enemy is really attacking me..I doubt alot what im suppose to do and I get discouraged..
 
God doesn't expect the impossible from us, He wants us to expect the impossible from Him. Take God at His Word that He cares about you, your mother, your family, those He love (1 Peter 5:7), by bringing everything to Him in prayer (Philippians 4:6), and trusting Him to direct your paths in life as He so PROMISED (Proverb 3:5-7). The power of God rests in the PROMISES of God. As you await God’s response I offer and pray this prayer with you:

Father in the name of Jesus,

I come today asking you for inner peace. Lord, everything around me seems to be in turmoil but I thank you because I know that you still have me in the palm of your hands. So I ask that you would calm my thoughts and help me as I begin to focus my attention on you instead of on the problem. For Lord you said in your word that you would keep me in perfect peace if I would keep my mind on you. So right now I purpose to concentrate only on you and your love for me. I know that you would never leave or forsake me, so I can rest in the assurance that I am not alone. You are with me now and will continue to be with me always. You said that you would not leave me comfortless, but that you would send me a comforter, the Holy Spirit. I thank you right now Father that your Holy Spirit is comforting me even at this very moment. I also thank you because regardless how things may appear on the surface, I know that all things are working together for my good according to your word. I thank you for giving me peace, in Jesus name, Amen.
 
Father God,Thank You for Angel and the beautiful and wise words given by Your Spirit through Daydream6459. Father,I lift Angels husband to You and ask that You would send Your Holy Spirit to prepare his heart.I pray rhat he would come under repentance,not only because of the pain he has caused his wife but also for his sin period!I pray this for this gentleman if he is still blinded to the glorious light of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.Save this man I ask You Holy Father! Send Your Holy Angels to battle the enemy and by Your Spirit open his eyes to his greatest need:our Lord Jesus Christ.Let him be one of the redeemed of God,born again into Your Kingdom.Let him be filled with Your Spirit and saturate him in Your Word.Mold and shape him into the vary Image of Your Beloved Son.Release into him the mind of Christ and fill him with Christ's love so that it overflows into the lives of his wife and children.Make him into the Husband You have always meant for him to be.The husband his wife deserves and his children may emulate.I praise You Mighty Father and I thank You for all You are going to accomplish in and for this family.Strengthen and uphold Angels faith in Christ as You walk with her through this trial.I confess the precious Blood of Jesus over this marriage and family.I ask all these faithfilled requests to You who are able,in the Name of Jesus Christ our living Lord and Savior,Amen and Amen
 
Child of God,



Let’s Pray….God I ask in Jesus’ name, “That You will daily, each and every day surround me with Your protection and guidance and bless me with the wisdom to accept it. Whisper Your Words of encouragement, leadership, and wisdom into my ears. Bless me with strength and courage in sprite of what I see, hear or will have to go through. Open up the doors in my life that need to be open. Surround me with Men and Women of God who truly love and care about me to help and encourage me on my Christian journey. Give me the wisdom to always guard, protect, and respect the anointing You have placed upon my life. May I always seek to please You in all I say, do, and think. And Lord Jesus all that I have asked You to do for me in this prayer please do the same for every Christian in my family and the Christian writer of this prayer.



When U Think of Me…Pray 4 Me,

Encourager Linda Flagg, LM, CS

PS: If You Truly, Really, Absolutely Want To Be Blessed…Obey God’s Word!
 
Lord strengthen and relieve all problems by the light of the world. Help others and remain a fortress. Amen.
 
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