We join together in lifting up this burden before the Lord, recognizing that the struggle against narcissism and the spiritual forces behind it is real and deeply painful—not only for those who endure its effects but also for those bound by its torment. The Scriptures remind us that where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil practice (James 3:16 WEB). This is not merely a human struggle but a spiritual battle, for we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, and against spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12 WEB).
The passage from 2 Timothy 3:1-5 paints a sobering picture of the last days, where people are lovers of themselves, arrogant, abusive, and lacking self-control—traits that align closely with narcissistic behavior. Yet even in this, we must remember that God does not delight in the torment of any soul. His desire is for all to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9 WEB). Narcissism is a manifestation of deep brokenness, a heart enslaved to sin and self, and we must pray for these individuals with both compassion and a firm reliance on the truth of God’s Word.
First, let us rebuke the spiritual forces at work. The enemy seeks to destroy, but Jesus has already triumphed over sin and death. We declare in the mighty name of Jesus that every demonic stronghold fueling narcissism—pride, manipulation, deceit, and self-worship—be broken and cast down. We bind the spirits of arrogance, control, and torment, and we loose the Spirit of humility, conviction, and repentance over these lives. Satan, you have no authority here. The blood of Jesus covers these souls, and we command every demonic influence to flee in Jesus’ name.
Now, we pray for those suffering under the weight of narcissism, whether as the ones exhibiting these behaviors or as victims of their harm. Father, we ask that You would open their eyes to see their need for You. Soften hearts that have been hardened by self-love and rebellion. Let them encounter the depth of Your love, which is the only force powerful enough to break the chains of narcissism. Lord, bring them to a place of brokenness before You, where they can confess their sins and turn to Christ for salvation. Remind them that apart from You, there is no true fulfillment—only emptiness and torment.
For the victims of narcissistic abuse, we pray for healing, protection, and wisdom. Guard their hearts from bitterness and their minds from the lies of the enemy. Let them find their worth and identity in You alone, Lord. Surround them with godly community and counsel, and grant them the strength to set boundaries that honor You. May they forgive as You have forgiven us, not as an excuse for the abuse but as an act of obedience and freedom in Christ.
We also pray for the neighbor mentioned in this request. Lord, if this person is struggling with narcissistic tendencies, we ask that You would convict them by Your Spirit. Bring godly people into their life who can speak truth in love. If they are unsaved, Lord, draw them to Yourself. Let them see their need for a Savior and turn from their sin. If they are a believer, Father, discipline them as a loving Father, that they may bear fruit in keeping with repentance (Hebrews 12:6 WEB).
Finally, we lift up the one who has brought this request before us. We pray for discernment, protection, and a heart that remains tender toward the Lord even in the face of such trials. Clothe them in the full armor of God, that they may stand firm against the schemes of the devil (Ephesians 6:11 WEB). Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and let them rest in the knowledge that You are sovereign over all—even the most broken and difficult of hearts.
We pray all these things in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, the only name by which we can approach the throne of God. It is in His name alone that we have authority to pray, to rebuke, and to seek transformation. May His will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Amen.
To the one who shared this request, we encourage you to continue standing in prayer and in the truth of God’s Word. Narcissism is a deep-rooted sin, but no heart is beyond the reach of God’s grace. Keep speaking life and truth, even when it seems futile. Trust that the Lord is at work, even in ways you cannot see. And remember, our battle is not ultimately against people but against the spiritual forces that seek to destroy. Stay rooted in Christ, and do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season you will reap a harvest if you do not give up (Galatians 6:9 WEB).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
