Viariurire
Servant of All
My ### just told me she is going into hospice soon. She has pancreatic cancer. We have been estranged. Due to drugs. It’s hard to be back in her life. And start over again. It’s hard on my heart. Ty
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We grieve with you in this painful season, and we lift your heart before the Lord, knowing that He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). The weight of estrangement, addiction, and now the reality of terminal illness is more than any of us can bear alone—but you are not alone. The Lord sees your sorrow, and He is your strength in this valley. We pray that even in this hard place, you would feel His presence holding you up, for He has promised never to leave you or forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:8).
The enemy has sought to steal, kill, and destroy through the bondage of drugs, but we stand against that spirit in the name of Jesus. Addiction is a cruel master, but Christ came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18). While your mother’s time may be short, we pray for redemption in these final moments—for the Lord to break every chain of sin and shame, for her to turn to Him in repentance and faith, and for you both to experience the healing only He can bring. There is no sin too great for His mercy, no brokenness too deep for His grace. If she has not yet surrendered her life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to share the Gospel with her gently but boldly. Remind her that eternal life is found in no other name under heaven but His (Acts 4:12), and that today is the day of salvation (2 Corinthians 6:2). Pray with her, read Scripture over her, and trust the Holy Spirit to work in her heart.
As for you, we pray the Lord would guard your heart from bitterness or unresolved anger. Forgiveness is not excusing the pain caused, but it is releasing the debt to the Lord, who judges justly (Romans 12:19). Jesus commanded us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13), and in doing so, you free yourself from the weight of unforgiveness. This is a time to love as Christ loves—sacrificially, without condition. Even if the past has been marred by sin and brokenness, love covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8). Ask the Lord to help you love her well in these final days, to speak words of life, and to extend the same grace you yourself have received from Him.
We also pray for supernatural strength for you as you navigate the emotional toll of reconnecting. The Lord knows the complexity of your heart—the love for your mother mixed with the pain of the past. He is not surprised by your struggle, and He invites you to cast all your anxieties on Him (1 Peter 5:7). Lean on Him moment by moment. If you feel overwhelmed, cry out to Him as David did: “My heart is severely pained within me. The terrors of death have fallen on me. Fearfulness and trembling have come on me. Horror has overwhelmed me. I said, ‘Oh that I had wings like a dove! Then I would fly away, and be at rest’” (Psalm 55:4-6). Yet even in that psalm, David ends with trust: “Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved” (Psalm 55:22).
Practical steps may help as well. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support you in prayer and encouragement. If possible, seek godly counseling to process the grief and complexities of reconciliation. And above all, saturate this time in Scripture and prayer. The Word of God is a lamp to your feet in this dark place (Psalm 119:105).
Now, let us pray together for you and your mother:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother who is walking through such a painful season. Lord, You are the God of all comfort (2 Corinthians 1:3), and we ask that You would wrap Your arms around him in these days. Comfort him as only You can, and let him feel Your presence in a tangible way. You see every tear he has cried, every wound he has carried, and You are near to him now.
We pray for his mother, Lord. You knit her together in her mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13), and You know the number of her days (Psalm 139:16). We ask for Your mercy to be poured out upon her. If she does not know You, Lord, we pray that You would draw her to Yourself in these final moments. Soften her heart to receive Your forgiveness and grace. Break every chain of addiction and sin that has held her captive, and let her find true freedom in Jesus Christ. May she turn to Him in repentance and faith, and may she hear Your voice saying, “Today you will be with me in Paradise” (Luke 23:43).
For our brother, we pray for strength beyond his own. Give him the words to speak, the love to extend, and the grace to forgive. Heal the wounds of the past, Lord, and let this time be marked by Your redemption. Help him to release any bitterness or resentment, and fill him instead with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Give him wisdom in how to love her well, and surround him with Your people who can support and uplift him.
We rebuke the spirit of fear, sadness, and despair that seeks to overwhelm him. We declare that You, Lord, are his refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Let him rest in You, knowing that You are sovereign over all things, including this. And when the grief feels too heavy, remind him that You are carrying him (Isaiah 46:4).
We pray all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who conquered sin and death and offers eternal life to all who believe. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in this situation. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to hold fast to the hope of the Gospel. Death is not the end for those who are in Christ—it is the beginning of eternal life with Him (John 11:25-26). If your mother is a believer, you will see her again in the presence of the Lord, where there is no more pain, sorrow, or sin (Revelation 21:4). If she is not yet saved, there is still time to pray and share the truth with her. And for you, this season—though painful—can be a testament to the power of God’s grace to restore and redeem. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is with you, and He will never leave you.
The enemy has sought to steal, kill, and destroy through the bondage of drugs, but we stand against that spirit in the name of Jesus. Addiction is a cruel master, but Christ came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18). While your mother’s time may be short, we pray for redemption in these final moments—for the Lord to break every chain of sin and shame, for her to turn to Him in repentance and faith, and for you both to experience the healing only He can bring. There is no sin too great for His mercy, no brokenness too deep for His grace. If she has not yet surrendered her life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to share the Gospel with her gently but boldly. Remind her that eternal life is found in no other name under heaven but His (Acts 4:12), and that today is the day of salvation (2 Corinthians 6:2). Pray with her, read Scripture over her, and trust the Holy Spirit to work in her heart.
As for you, we pray the Lord would guard your heart from bitterness or unresolved anger. Forgiveness is not excusing the pain caused, but it is releasing the debt to the Lord, who judges justly (Romans 12:19). Jesus commanded us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13), and in doing so, you free yourself from the weight of unforgiveness. This is a time to love as Christ loves—sacrificially, without condition. Even if the past has been marred by sin and brokenness, love covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8). Ask the Lord to help you love her well in these final days, to speak words of life, and to extend the same grace you yourself have received from Him.
We also pray for supernatural strength for you as you navigate the emotional toll of reconnecting. The Lord knows the complexity of your heart—the love for your mother mixed with the pain of the past. He is not surprised by your struggle, and He invites you to cast all your anxieties on Him (1 Peter 5:7). Lean on Him moment by moment. If you feel overwhelmed, cry out to Him as David did: “My heart is severely pained within me. The terrors of death have fallen on me. Fearfulness and trembling have come on me. Horror has overwhelmed me. I said, ‘Oh that I had wings like a dove! Then I would fly away, and be at rest’” (Psalm 55:4-6). Yet even in that psalm, David ends with trust: “Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved” (Psalm 55:22).
Practical steps may help as well. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can support you in prayer and encouragement. If possible, seek godly counseling to process the grief and complexities of reconciliation. And above all, saturate this time in Scripture and prayer. The Word of God is a lamp to your feet in this dark place (Psalm 119:105).
Now, let us pray together for you and your mother:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother who is walking through such a painful season. Lord, You are the God of all comfort (2 Corinthians 1:3), and we ask that You would wrap Your arms around him in these days. Comfort him as only You can, and let him feel Your presence in a tangible way. You see every tear he has cried, every wound he has carried, and You are near to him now.
We pray for his mother, Lord. You knit her together in her mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13), and You know the number of her days (Psalm 139:16). We ask for Your mercy to be poured out upon her. If she does not know You, Lord, we pray that You would draw her to Yourself in these final moments. Soften her heart to receive Your forgiveness and grace. Break every chain of addiction and sin that has held her captive, and let her find true freedom in Jesus Christ. May she turn to Him in repentance and faith, and may she hear Your voice saying, “Today you will be with me in Paradise” (Luke 23:43).
For our brother, we pray for strength beyond his own. Give him the words to speak, the love to extend, and the grace to forgive. Heal the wounds of the past, Lord, and let this time be marked by Your redemption. Help him to release any bitterness or resentment, and fill him instead with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Give him wisdom in how to love her well, and surround him with Your people who can support and uplift him.
We rebuke the spirit of fear, sadness, and despair that seeks to overwhelm him. We declare that You, Lord, are his refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Let him rest in You, knowing that You are sovereign over all things, including this. And when the grief feels too heavy, remind him that You are carrying him (Isaiah 46:4).
We pray all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who conquered sin and death and offers eternal life to all who believe. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in this situation. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to hold fast to the hope of the Gospel. Death is not the end for those who are in Christ—it is the beginning of eternal life with Him (John 11:25-26). If your mother is a believer, you will see her again in the presence of the Lord, where there is no more pain, sorrow, or sin (Revelation 21:4). If she is not yet saved, there is still time to pray and share the truth with her. And for you, this season—though painful—can be a testament to the power of God’s grace to restore and redeem. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is with you, and He will never leave you.
We're right here with you, dear friend, as you face this heart-wrenching news. It's like a storm has swept in, and we're standing with you in the eye of it. We're not just praying for you, but we're also feeling your pain, your fear, and your struggle. It's okay to be overwhelmed, to feel like you're drowning in a sea of emotions. We're here to hold you up, to remind you that you're not alone.
We're lifting your mom up too, dear. We're asking God to wrap His loving arms around her, to comfort her in her time of need. We're praying for her healing, for her heart to be softened, and for her to turn to Jesus if she hasn't already. We're believing for a miracle, for God to do what only He can do.
But we're also praying for you, dear. We're asking God to give you strength, to fill you with His peace, and to help you love your mom well in these final days. We're praying that you'll feel God's presence with you, moment by moment, and that you'll know His love in a tangible way.
We're here for you, dear. We're praying with you, for you, and we're believing God for a mighty move in your family. Trust in Him, hold on to His promises, and let's walk through this storm together.
We're lifting your mom up too, dear. We're asking God to wrap His loving arms around her, to comfort her in her time of need. We're praying for her healing, for her heart to be softened, and for her to turn to Jesus if she hasn't already. We're believing for a miracle, for God to do what only He can do.
But we're also praying for you, dear. We're asking God to give you strength, to fill you with His peace, and to help you love your mom well in these final days. We're praying that you'll feel God's presence with you, moment by moment, and that you'll know His love in a tangible way.
We're here for you, dear. We're praying with you, for you, and we're believing God for a mighty move in your family. Trust in Him, hold on to His promises, and let's walk through this storm together.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to lift you up in this tender and difficult season, knowing how deeply this news must be weighing on your heart. The journey of reconciliation—especially when time feels so precious—can feel overwhelming, but we are honored you’ve invited us to stand with you in prayer for your mother and for the healing of your relationship.
We’ve been praying fervently for God’s comfort to surround you both, for His peace that surpasses understanding to guard your heart, and for divine opportunities to bring restoration in ways only He can orchestrate. We know the pain of estrangement is heavy, and the reality of her illness makes it even harder, but we serve a God who specializes in redeeming what seems broken beyond repair. He sees your love for her, your sorrow, and your willingness to step back into her life despite the past. That kind of love is a reflection of His heart, and we believe He is at work even now, softening hearts and making a way where there seems to be no way.
If your mother’s condition has shifted—whether through healing, peace in her final days, or a miraculous turn of events—we would love for you to share a praise report with us. If the road ahead still feels uncertain or painful, please don’t hesitate to post again so we can continue to cover you both in prayer. We’re here to walk with you through every step, lifting you up before the Father who cares deeply for you both.
May God grant you strength for each day, wisdom in every conversation, and the assurance that His grace is sufficient for you. We’re trusting Him to carry what you cannot, to mend what feels irreparable, and to fill the spaces of your heart with His presence. You’re not alone in this. We’re standing with you, believing for His mercy and love to be evident in ways that leave no doubt of His nearness.
We pray all these things in Jesus’ name.
We’ve been praying fervently for God’s comfort to surround you both, for His peace that surpasses understanding to guard your heart, and for divine opportunities to bring restoration in ways only He can orchestrate. We know the pain of estrangement is heavy, and the reality of her illness makes it even harder, but we serve a God who specializes in redeeming what seems broken beyond repair. He sees your love for her, your sorrow, and your willingness to step back into her life despite the past. That kind of love is a reflection of His heart, and we believe He is at work even now, softening hearts and making a way where there seems to be no way.
If your mother’s condition has shifted—whether through healing, peace in her final days, or a miraculous turn of events—we would love for you to share a praise report with us. If the road ahead still feels uncertain or painful, please don’t hesitate to post again so we can continue to cover you both in prayer. We’re here to walk with you through every step, lifting you up before the Father who cares deeply for you both.
May God grant you strength for each day, wisdom in every conversation, and the assurance that His grace is sufficient for you. We’re trusting Him to carry what you cannot, to mend what feels irreparable, and to fill the spaces of your heart with His presence. You’re not alone in this. We’re standing with you, believing for His mercy and love to be evident in ways that leave no doubt of His nearness.
We pray all these things in Jesus’ name.
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