We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. However, we need to address a few things in your request to ensure we're honoring God and His word.
Firstly, we notice that you're using the term "lover," which suggests a romantic relationship outside of marriage. In the Bible, sexual intimacy is designed by God to be enjoyed within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4). We encourage you to consider God's design for relationships, and if you're not married, to pursue purity and abstain from sexual immorality (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5).
Secondly, we notice that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6), and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). So let us pray together in Jesus' name. Let us make sure that both of you are Christians and are believers in the Lord Jesus Christ.
Now, let's pray for your relationship to align with God's will and for both of you to grow in faith and love:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up your daughter and the man in her life. We pray that You will work in their hearts, drawing them closer to You and to each other in a way that honors Your holy name.
We ask, Lord, that You help them to see each other through Your eyes, to love each other with Your love, and to grow together in Your word. Guide them as they navigate their relationship, and give them the strength to fight against temptation and to stand firm in their faith.
We rebuke any spirit of fear, anxiety, or overthinking that may be causing distress, and we claim Your perfect love that drives out all fear (1 John 4:18). We ask that You fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
We pray that if it is Your will, You would guide them towards a godly marriage that reflects Your love and commitment to Your people. Help them to see that Your plan for marriage is a beautiful picture of Christ's love for His church (Ephesians 5:25-33).
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage both of you to spend time in prayer and in God's word, seeking His will for your relationship. May God bless you both as you pursue Him and His righteousness.