We understand the deep pain, anger, and fear you are experiencing as you witness your brother’s actions and the potential harm to your mother’s well-being. The Lord sees the injustice and the burden you carry, and He calls us to trust in Him even in the midst of such trials. Your heart is crying out for justice, protection, and provision, and we join you in lifting this before the throne of God.
First, we must address the spiritual condition of your brother. His actions—taking money without permission, justifying sinful behavior like drug use, and exploiting your mother’s generosity—are not only unjust but also reflect a heart that is far from God. The Bible warns us in Proverbs 28:24, *"Whoever robs his father or his mother and says, 'It’s not wrong,' is a partner with a destroyer."* His behavior is destructive, both to himself and to your family. We must pray for his repentance, for God to convict his heart and turn him from his sinful ways. The apostle Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, *"Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom."* Your brother’s actions—stealing, deception, and drug use—place him in danger of God’s judgment unless he turns to Christ in true repentance.
We also recognize the anger and bitterness in your heart, and while these feelings are understandable, we must guard against allowing them to take root. Ephesians 4:26-27 tells us, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil."* Your anger is justified, but it must not lead to sin or a hardened heart. Instead, we are called to forgive, even as Christ forgave us. This does not mean excusing your brother’s behavior, but it means releasing the bitterness to God and trusting Him to bring justice. Romans 12:19 assures us, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"* God sees what is happening, and He will act in His perfect timing.
Your fear about your mother’s future and the inheritance is also valid, but we must remember that our trust is in the Lord, not in money or earthly security. Jesus teaches us in Matthew 6:19-21, *"Don’t lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves don’t break through and steal; for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."* While it is wise to steward your mother’s resources responsibly, we must not allow fear to dominate our hearts. Instead, we are to seek first God’s Kingdom and His righteousness, trusting that He will provide for all our needs (Matthew 6:33).
We also urge you to take practical steps to protect your mother. If she is not fully aware of her financial situation, it may be necessary to seek legal or financial counsel to ensure her resources are managed wisely and ethically. Proverbs 31:8-9 calls us to *"Open your mouth for the mute, in the cause of all who are left desolate. Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy."* In this case, your mother is vulnerable, and it is your duty as her child to advocate for her well-being. This may involve difficult conversations or actions, but it is an act of love and obedience to God.
Lastly, we notice that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we can be saved or through which our prayers are heard. Jesus Himself declares in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* And in John 16:23-24, He says, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full."* We must always approach God in the name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have boldness and confidence before the throne of grace.
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Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister who is burdened with anger, fear, and grief over the actions of her brother. Lord, You see the injustice and the pain this has caused, and we ask You to intervene mightily in this situation.
Father, we pray for this brother, whose heart has been hardened by sin. Lord, convict him of his wrongdoing—of his theft, his deception, and his disregard for Your commandments. Soften his heart, Lord, and bring him to true repentance. Let him see the destruction his actions are causing, not only to his family but to his own soul. Draw him to Yourself, Father, that he may turn from his sins and find forgiveness and redemption in Jesus Christ. Break the chains of addiction and greed that bind him, and set him free to walk in Your ways. We pray that You would surround him with godly influences who will speak truth into his life and lead him to You.
Lord, we also lift up our sister, who is carrying such a heavy burden. Father, calm her fears and replace her anger with Your peace. Help her to release this situation into Your hands, trusting that You are just and that You will act on behalf of Your children. Give her wisdom, Lord, to know how to protect her mother’s resources and well-being. Guide her steps as she seeks to honor You in this difficult situation. Remind her that vengeance belongs to You, and that You will repay. Strengthen her faith, Lord, that she may not be overcome by anxiety but may rest in Your promises.
Father, we pray for this dear mother, who is vulnerable and in need of protection. Provide for her every need—her health, her care, and her daily bread. Surround her with godly caregivers who will look after her with integrity and compassion. Give her clarity of mind, Lord, where possible, and let her feel Your love and comfort in her old age. Protect her from those who would take advantage of her, and let Your hand of provision be evident in her life.
Lord, we ask that You would bring unity and restoration to this family where it aligns with Your will. Heal the broken relationships, and let Your love and truth prevail. If there are legal or practical steps that need to be taken, give wisdom and discernment to our sister and to any advisors she may seek. Let Your will be done in this situation, Father, and let Your name be glorified.
We thank You, Lord, that You are a God of justice and mercy. We trust in Your faithfulness, knowing that You hear our prayers and that You will act according to Your perfect will. May Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard our sister’s heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus we pray, Amen.