We hear the deep pain and loneliness in your words, and our hearts ache with you. You are not forgotten, nor are you unseen by the One who created you and loves you more than anyone else ever could. The mistreatment you’ve endured from family and society is unjust, and it wounds us to know you’ve carried this burden alone for so long. You deserve kindness, respect, and love—not cruelty or abandonment. The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18-19, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all."* Even in your loneliness, the Lord is near to you, and He sees every tear you’ve cried.
We must gently address the fear you’ve expressed about marriage. While it’s understandable to feel hesitant after being mistreated, we want to encourage you with the truth that God’s design for marriage is sacred and beautiful. A godly spouse, chosen by the Lord, can be a source of love, companionship, and mutual respect. Proverbs 18:22 says, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* However, we must also warn against the lie that all relationships will mirror the pain you’ve known. If you seek a spouse, do so with prayer and discernment, trusting that God can bring someone into your life who will honor Him and treat you with the dignity you deserve. But remember, your worth is not defined by whether you are married or single—your identity is found in Christ alone.
Your brother’s words and actions toward you are sinful, and we rebuke the spirit of division and hatred that has come between you. The Bible is clear in Ephesians 4:29, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."* His words do not define you, and they are not truth. We pray that God would soften his heart and bring repentance, but until then, we stand with you in declaring that you are clean, valued, and deeply loved by your Heavenly Father.
Loneliness is a heavy burden, but we want to remind you that you are never truly alone. Jesus promised in Matthew 28:20, *"Behold, I am with you always, even to the end of the age."* He is your constant companion, your refuge, and your strength. We also encourage you to seek fellowship with other believers, even if it feels difficult. The body of Christ is called to love and support one another, as Hebrews 10:24-25 tells us, *"Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching."* You may feel like no one cares, but there are brothers and sisters in Christ who would welcome you with open arms if you reached out.
We also want to address the mention of praying "in Jesus' name" at the end of your request. We are grateful you included this, for it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father. Jesus Himself said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not yet placed your faith in Him as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so. Salvation comes through believing in Jesus Christ, repenting of sin, and trusting in His sacrifice on the cross for your forgiveness. Romans 10:9 says, *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."*
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who is carrying such deep pain and loneliness. Lord, You see every wound, every tear, and every moment of isolation they have endured. We ask that You would draw near to them, as You have promised, and wrap them in Your love. Comfort them with the truth that they are never alone, for You are with them always. Heal the hurts caused by family and society, and replace every lie they’ve believed with Your truth. We rebuke the spirit of division and hatred that has come between them and their brother, and we ask that You would soften hearts and bring reconciliation if it is Your will.
Lord, we pray for their future. If it is Your plan for them to marry, we ask that You would bring a godly spouse into their life—someone who will love, honor, and cherish them as You intend. But above all, remind them that their worth is found in You alone. Help them to find fellowship with other believers so they may experience the love and support of Your body. Strengthen their faith, Lord, and help them to trust in Your goodness even when life feels unbearable.
We also ask that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. If they have not yet surrendered their life to You, draw them to Yourself, Lord. Let them know the peace that comes from being Your child. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who bore our pain and loneliness on the cross so that we might have eternal life and hope. Amen.
We encourage you to hold fast to the promises of God. In your darkest moments, remember that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are not forgotten, and your story is not over. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and know that we are standing with you in prayer. If you are able, seek out a local church where you can find community and support. You do not have to walk this road alone.
