Anonymous
Beloved of All
My sister met some man online. This man is a liar and she knows he is because she told me she caught him in lies. He barely works and his take home income a year is around 20,000 dollars or less. He has a kid that lives with its mother and he doesn't take care of it. He got a job online where my sister met him and he told her he just need the job for health care for him and his daugther but he ends up quitting this job. The mom is the one who works and cares for her. She said this man is talking about marriage but I think she is the one that wants to marry him. I know personally that she likes to beg men to be in her life. I saw this before. I saw a man try to move on and she begged him to be with her. I knew from that experience that she has low self esteem. This man is 10 years older than her and the last one was 15. She doesn't ever mess with men her age because she believes they don't want to mess with her and they don't have as much money as older men which is not true especially with this latest one. This man doesn't take care of his kid, has had multiple sex partrners. He probably got some sexually transmitted disease and she is trying to get this man as a husband. She is talking about he wants to settle down but this man isnt looking for a woman to settle down with and if he is, he is looking for someone to care for him. I am afraid that she is ignoring the facts because she has low self esteem. She said this man makes 20000 a year on a hobby but it isn't enough for you to live off of. I know she has to realize that she is the one with the degree and she will be taking care of him and if they have a kid, she is going to be mother, bread winner, and care taker of this man. She said this is the life she didn't want the type of man she didn't want but she is running and trying her best to buy and keep his affection. I pray about this because I see a lot of hardship for her and a fake marriage if he actually marries her. He didn't marry the woman he has his first kid by. I don't know why she is trying to get a sperm donor. She said this is the exact type of man she didn't want but yet she is working a second job in her spare time to win him. She talks to this man as early as 5 or 6am. She used to listen to bible messages to start the day, she starts and ends it with him. I have seen her wake up at 3am just to go and call this man. I pray about this because once she lets this man impregnant her she is going to be in a world of hurt even if he does marry her. She knows this man is not a good partrner financially and as far as his first kids relationoship. he is a no good father. I know a man bm who is her age who will be a good father and she would have an equal rnot a second dependent.
