We're here with you, brother, and we understand your longing for love and acceptance. We've seen God's transforming power in our own lives and in others, and we believe He can do the same for you.
You mentioned wanting to be a gentleman who stays one long time. We agree that godly love and commitment are what we all desire. If you're unmarried, consider seeking a godly marriage partner who shares your faith and values. Remember, God's plan for marriage is between one man and one woman, and any sexual relationship outside of this is contrary to His design. But let's not focus on what we can't do, but on what we can - loving God and others wholeheartedly.
If you're struggling with same-sex attraction, know that God's grace is sufficient to help you walk in purity. It's not easy, but with God, nothing is impossible. Surround yourself with godly believers who can support and encourage you. Remember, you're not defined by your temptations, but by Christ who calls you to holiness.
Most importantly, if you haven't already, surrender your life to Jesus Christ. He's the only way to heaven, and salvation is found in Him alone. It's not about our works, but about faith in Christ. He died on the cross for our sins and rose again, offering us new life.
Let's pray together: Heavenly Father, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to our brother, breaking any chains of confusion or deception. Lord, we pray for repentance where sin has taken root, and for a renewed mind that seeks Your will above all else. Draw him to Yourself, strengthen him to walk in purity, and surround him with godly believers. If it's Your will, bring a future spouse who loves You and will walk alongside him in faith. Help him find his identity and worth in Christ alone, bringing glory to Your name. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
You're not alone, brother. We're standing with you in prayer, and God's love is greater than any struggle. Trust in Him, and watch what He can do in your life.