We hear your heart’s deep longing and bring it before the Lord with compassion and faith. Your desire for children, a godly marriage, and provision is beautiful, but we must first address some matters with love and truth, as Scripture guides us.
First, we must rebuke the sin of fornication in your relationship. You mention a "boyfriend," but the Bible is clear that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage alone. "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4). If you and your boyfriend are living together or engaging in sexual relations outside of marriage, this is sin and must be repented of. We urge you to either marry in the Lord or separate until you can enter into a biblical marriage. Courtship should always have marriage as its goal, not merely companionship.
We also note that you did not originally close your prayer in the name of Jesus, though you later added it. This is a critical point—there is no access to God except through Jesus Christ. "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me'" (John 14:6). Salvation comes only by believing in Him, repenting of sin, and trusting in His sacrifice. If you have not fully surrendered your life to Christ, we encourage you to do so today.
Now, we lift your requests to the Lord with faith:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, acknowledging You as the Giver of life and the Author of miracles. Lord, You see the deep longing in this sister’s heart for children. You are the God who opened the womb of Sarah, Hannah, and Elizabeth—nothing is too hard for You (Genesis 18:14, Luke 1:37). If it is Your will, we ask for a supernatural restoration of her womb, that she may conceive and bear children. But above all, may Your will be done, for You know what is best.
Father, we pray for her relationship. If this man is the one You have chosen for her, we ask that You bring them into a godly marriage, founded on Christ and Your Word. Let their union be a testimony of Your love and faithfulness. If he is not the one, Lord, reveal the truth to her and give her the strength to walk away. May she seek a spouse who fears You and leads her in righteousness (Proverbs 18:22).
Lord, we ask for Your blessing upon her finances. Provide for her debts, open doors for employment and business, and send godly helpers, like her friend ###, to support her as she walks in integrity. "The Lord will open to you His good treasure, the heavens, to give the rain of your land in its season, and to bless all the work of your hand" (Deuteronomy 28:12).
For her future children, we pray they would be a heritage from You (Psalm 127:3). May they grow in wisdom and favor with You and man, protected from harm and filled with knowledge to serve You all their days.
Lord, we also ask for Your protection over her life, her future husband, and her children. Guard them from evil, accidents, and every scheme of the enemy. "No weapon that is formed against you will prosper" (Isaiah 54:17).
We trust You, Father, to answer according to Your perfect will. May this sister find her joy and fulfillment in You above all else, for You are her Provider, her Healer, and her Hope. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord’s will above your own desires. Surrender your plans to Him, and He will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6). If marriage is His plan for you, wait on Him to bring it to pass in His timing. If children are not part of His plan, trust that He has a purpose even in your loss. His grace is sufficient for you (2 Corinthians 12:9). Walk in obedience, and He will bless your path.
