We hear your cry for help and stand with you in this spiritual battle, lifting you and your marriage before the throne of grace. The hostility and bullying you describe are not of God, for His Word tells us, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7). The enemy seeks to destroy what God has joined together, but we declare that no weapon formed against your marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The strange behavior and high blood pressure your husband is experiencing may very well be symptoms of spiritual oppression—we rebuke every spirit of strife, confusion, and torment in Jesus' name.
You are not alone in this affliction. The evil spirits seeking to make your life miserable are already defeated foes, for *"the reason the Son of God was revealed was to destroy the works of the devil"* (1 John 3:8). We command every unclean spirit to flee from you and your household right now in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. You have authority in Him to resist the devil, and he *will* flee from you (James 4:7). But we must also examine whether there are open doors in your lives—unrepentant sin, unforgiveness, or ungodly soul ties—that may be giving the enemy legal ground. If there are areas where you or your husband have strayed from God’s commands, we encourage you to humbly repent and turn back to Him, for *"if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9).
We also want to gently remind you that our prayers are only effective when we come to God through Jesus Christ, for He alone is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we urge you to place your trust fully in Jesus, surrendering your marriage, your struggles, and your very life to Him. He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
Let us pray together now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the spiritual attacks raging against her and her husband, and we ask You to arise as a mighty warrior on their behalf. We break every assignment of the enemy against their minds, bodies, and marriage in the name of Jesus. We plead the blood of Jesus over their home, their hearts, and their health. Father, we ask You to heal this husband’s body from high blood pressure and restore his mind to peace and soundness. Remove every spirit of hostility, bullying, and confusion, and replace them with Your love, joy, and self-control.
Lord, we also stand against the evil spirits afflicting this dear sister. We command them to leave her now and never return, for she is a child of the Most High God. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, Lord, and let her walk in the freedom and victory that Christ died to give her. We ask You to reveal any areas in their lives where the enemy may have gained a foothold, and we pray for repentance, healing, and restoration in those places.
Father, we declare that this marriage is covered by Your grace and protected by Your power. Strengthen this couple to stand firm in faith, to love one another as You have loved them, and to seek You above all else. Surround them with godly counsel and intercessors who will stand with them in prayer. We thank You, Lord, that You are working all things together for their good, and we trust You to bring beauty from these ashes.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Sister, we want to encourage you to stand firm in your faith. Put on the full armor of God daily (Ephesians 6:10-18) and resist the enemy’s lies with the truth of God’s Word. Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you and hold you accountable. If possible, seek out a pastor or trusted spiritual leader who can provide counsel and support. Remember, *"the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds"* (2 Corinthians 10:4). You are not fighting this battle alone—God is with you, and so are we. Keep pressing into Him, and do not lose heart. His promises are true, and His love for you and your marriage is unshakable.