My Marriage. Help my wife

[Murray Graham Chetty]

Dear lord please help my marriage. Lord my wife Charlene Chetty who I just got married to in October last year treats me like a dog. Lord I finances are hard and I just started work again thanks to you lord. But my wife doesn't sleep with me. She always complains and moans about everything. She has such a huge temper which has carried over from her own family history. She swears such filthy languages in the house and at times she used hit me. She would just lose her temper and physically slaps me or pushes me around. She treats my two daughters from my previous marriage like dirt yet they lost their mother 3 years ago. Her parents hate me because I am Indian and she is white. Lord you gave me another wife and baby after I lost my wife and baby. But why is Charlene doing this to me. Lord I don't want have affairs because my marriage is suffering. Can you please lord help my wife to calm her temper down. I also want the intimacy in my marriage back. I have been asking so long Lord for her parents to except our marriage and yet still they have not. They want nothing to do with us and even our small baby who is a doll has no affection or even care from Charlenes parents and sister. Her parents only worries about the other sisters child cos she is white. Lord why am I going thru all this. Have I not suffered enough. My finances is still not good. Trying to make ends meet. No matter what I do for my wife I still get told off. Why am not allowed to even make love to her. I do so much for her and love her so much but she doesn't show me respect and constantly abuses me. Help my marriage lord. Help restore my marriage and life. I love her Lord


 

 

[Anonymous]

Sir, you need to seek immediate help - you are describing spousal abuse (physical, verbal and emotional). Even though you are male, you can still be a victim of abuse - no one has the right to hit you.

May God protect you and your children.

I don't know where you are located; if in the US:

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[JesusIsMyOnlyHope]

Heavenly Father. In the Name of Your Son Jesus Christ, I pray, that you will receive and answer your child's prayers according to your perfect will. Amen

 

[Prayerblue7]

Almighty Merciful Father,

We lift up this request to youand ask for wisdom. We don't know how to pray as we ought but the Holy Spirit intercedes for us and makes our prayers acceptable...In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness.

We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. Romans 8:26. This is a difficult case, but nothing is too hard for the Lord!  We ask that you would change the heart of the woman from a heart of stone to a heart of flesh.  Give her a heart after your own heart God we pray!  We ask for wisdom for the writer of this request as we are called to honor you in difficult situations and in dealing with difficult people.  We are to return love when shown hatred, and this is hard or us to do, but we can do it with the help of the Holy Spirit!  The situation almost reminds me of the book of Hosea, where God called a man to continue to show love to a woman that was unfaithful. That book is a reminder of the love God has for us continually even though we are sinners and if not for the grace of God we would not be able to stand.  Thank you God!  Help us to continue to show love and to pray for those that seem against us. We do plead for a change in this situation and strength for the writer to bear up in these trying circumstances.  We ask for support; pastoral, and brothers and sisters, to surround him. We ask for a complete turnaround of this woman's attitude and for salvation.  We ask for healing in this marriage. Thank you for hearing our prayers!  

In Jesus' Name.  Amen.

 

[Aloy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[BlessMeFatherGod]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Aloy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Lee George]

I pray for this in Jesus name Amen

 

[Aloy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Phumla Mjekula]

Lord Jesus  !! this brings tears to our eyes,,,, may your divine intervention show up in this situation your immediate help Lord, I decree & declare your wisdom over this situation Jesus,, nothing is impossible for u, in Jesus Mighty name I pray Amen & Amen.