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My husband left me 2 years ago. We are not divorced, no papers. He has told me the whole time that he isn't with anyone. And we still were saying I love you and I miss you. We were still sexually active. I found out a week ago he has actually been living with someone. She does know about me - this person is someone I felt very uncomfortable around because I felt she had plans of wanting my husband. She did. She knows about me. She knows about our family. 2 kids. She does not know we were sleeping together. When confronted he said if I want to tell her I can he would understand, should I? He limits his time at home. He only sees his kids at home. He never takes them out unless I plan it and pay for it. He says he doesn't have the money. He's spending his money on her and her 2 kids. Which he sees more than his own. I know this is not him, this is not the man I know. I feel in my heart God will bring him home and out of his convictions and to him but I also get so scared. I told him I needed him to decide because the kids and I are in emotional turmoil knowing nothing. I think he's going to bring papers and I'm scared. Because I know his heart is not right right now. I know he needs to turn it around. He's always believed in God. We didn't go to church although raised in church we let God get away from our family. The people he hangs out with and the new gf doesn't believe in God. I need my husband's heart to change. Please pray for my husband and our marriage. I do not want a divorce. I do love him and I would forgive him. None of it would matter.
 
We are truly saddened to hear about the trials you are facing in your marriage, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this struggle. First, we must address the serious issues in this request. Your husband is living with another woman, and you mention you were still sexually active with him. This is adultery, which is clearly against biblical principles. In 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 WEB it says "Or don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit God’s Kingdom." Your husband is doing several of these things. We need to pray for his repentance and for God to change his heart.

Additionally, you did not mention Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ in your prayer request. We are only able to go to God which is only possible by the name of Jesus. John 14:6 "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" We want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

Let's pray together for your situation.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister in Christ who is experiencing deep pain and turmoil in her marriage. Lord, you see the brokenness and the adultery that has entered into this union. We pray for conviction and repentance in your husband's heart. Turn his heart back to you, Lord, and to the family.

Father, we pray for healing and restoration in this marriage. We know that you hate divorce. In Malachi 2:16 it says "For I hate divorce, says Yahweh, the God of Israel, and him who covers his garment with violence! says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, and don’t be unfaithful." We pray for a miraculous intervention, that you would soften his heart and draw him back to his wife and children, as well as drawing him closer to the Gospel. We ask that you would remove the adulterous woman and any bad influences from his life that are encouraging his sin and rebellion.

Lord, we also pray for strength and comfort for this sister. Give her the courage to speak with grace and truth from the Word of God. Help her to forgive, but also to be wise to the things going on and to seek the Gospel for herself and her children. Give her peace and guidance as she navigates this difficult time. Help her to be the godly example that you have called her to be.

In Jesus' name, we pray for healing, restoration, and a miraculous turnaround in this marriage. We ask for you to be glorified in this entire situation.

We encourage you to stand firm in your faith and to trust in the Lord with all your heart. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."

Continue to pray and seek God's will for your marriage. Remember that God can turn even the most dire situations around for His glory. Be strong, be faithful, and trust in what is true.
 
We're here with you, sister, as you navigate this challenging time. It's clear that your husband's actions have caused deep pain, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We've been praying for you since we read your post.

First, we want to remind you that God sees your situation, and He cares deeply about what you're going through. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Know that He is near, and He is fighting for you.

We've been interceding for your husband, asking God to soften his heart and bring him back to you and the children. We've also been praying for protection over your family, that God would remove any influences that encourage his sin and rebellion.

We've been praying for you too, sister. We've asked God to give you strength and courage, to help you forgive but also be wise in your decisions. We've been praying for peace and guidance as you navigate this difficult time. We've been asking God to help you be the godly example He's called you to be.

We believe in the power of prayer, and we trust that God can turn this situation around for His glory. We encourage you to keep trusting in Him, even in the face of uncertainty. As it says in Lamentations 3:22-23, "Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness."

Please keep us updated, and know that we're here for you. We're praying for healing, restoration, and a miraculous turnaround in your marriage. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways, acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Let's continue to pray together, trusting in the power of our mighty God.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Your Future Is In God’s Hands
 
We continue to lift you and your husband up in prayer, trusting that God's will shall be done in your marriage. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this situation, and we believe that God hears our collective prayers.

If you have seen signs of restoration and change of heart in your husband, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation remains unchanged or has worsened, we encourage you to post an update so we can continue to pray fervently for you both.

We pray that God brings your husband to a place of conviction and repentance. May God grant him the courage to turn away from his current path and return to his family and his faith. We also pray for your strength and peace during this emotional turmoil. Remember, God is faithful, and He can turn around even the most hopeless situations.

Keep seeking God, keep praying, and keep believing. We are here with you in this journey. We pray that God will bless you and your family, and that His will be done in your lives.
 

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