My father is very selfish and narcissistic,he ...

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My father is very selfish and narcissistic,he is trying to live with me and stop me marrying or having kids. He wants to affect my fertility. Please pray in the name of Jesus that he decides now to find a nice retirement home when the time comes,please pray that he and all his friends understand he won’t live with me. Anyone I know living with a parent wishes they were dead,but I travel a lot etc too and it’s not an option. He always bullied me,please pray he will formally accept he cannot live with me.
 
I, too, had a narcissistic father (and still have a narcissistic mother). I can tell you that only another person who has had a narcissistic parent--or a parent with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) can truly understand and appreciate where you're coming from. Those who have not lived with a personality-disordered parent will not understand and will label you as "selfish" and "ungrateful." Those who are self-righteous (like narcissistic parents) and religious will try to quote the commandment, "Honor Thy Father and Mother." But what they fail to understand is that those parents never behaved as true parents to us--instead, they were physically, emotionally, psychologically--and sometimes sexually--abusive to us and did their best to crush our spirit and destroy us. The Bible also says, "Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord." And "For my father and my mother have forsaken me, But the LORD will take me up." You may want to check out this website: https://relevantmagazine.com/life/how-do-i-honor-my-father-and-mother-if-they-were-abusive
I was continually sick around my parents because they were so abusive to me since the day I was born. I will never know what I looked like as an infant because there were no photos taken of me -- they were extremely neglectful and abusive. With that said, I encourage you to read up on Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and I wish you the best of luck with whatever decision you choose to take with your father. Remember, we can honor our parents from afar. God did not intend for us to continue to be abused by those who were meant to love us, nurture us, and respect us. May God bless you and give you courage and peace.
 
May God in Jesus’ name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus. Thank You. Amen!

Let Us Both Pray: God I ask You in Jesus name bless me with the desires of my heart that is the will of God for my life and the will of God for those I pray for according to Your perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and cause my soul to prosper and never cease to grow in the grace and knowledge of Jesus Christ. God keep me as the apple of Your eye and cause me to keep Your Word as the apple of my eye. Bless me with wisdom and a wise understanding heart. Bless me with a praying spirit and cause my relationship with You to grow more intimate, trusting, and stronger. May I come to know You in truth and fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, body, soul, and strength. Bless and strengthen me to live my life to please You so that I will fulfill my God purpose/destiny. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me ever prosper. Give Your angels charge over me to protect, deliver, and keep me safe from all evil, hurt, harm, danger, accidents, demonic activity, witchcraft, the plans of my enemies, and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God You ambush and cause all my enemies to stumble, fail, and be greatly ashamed. May all my enemies accept Your Son, Jesus Christ, as Savior and live their lives to please Him. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of this prayer and all those I care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Thank You. Thank You. Amen.

Jesus, the Son of God, felt He needed to pray—We as Christians, the Children of God, need to pray.
 
Praying with and for you in Jesus.

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
 

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