My ### being mean to me last night rant

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand what is up with my mom, she was bending really snippy and snappy at me last night. It’s bad enough that she ruined Palm Sunday by picking on me for “not being joyful” or for “not having thoughts!” Now she is accusing me for being lukewarm all because I didn’t show the kind of reaction she expected from me when we listened to a video presentation of Autism on YouTube. I was listening, I just found it hard to pay attention because I was so freaking tired; I had a long day of working. I was up since ###:###am and I am having a period for crying out loud! What do you want me to do? Sing a song? Please help me prove my mother and other people that I do have thoughts and I am so NOT lukewarm! At least I am not gay! At least I get upset right away whenever I feel down and hurt myself! At least I get happy whenever it is Disney related (the old classic animated movies only, not the new woke junk). Please help me prove to the world that is wrong about me. Please help prove my mother wrong! Please help prove to the world that I am a good person; not a bad person that they make me out to be. Please help prove that, Lord. I have been asking this kind of help since I was in my teenage years and I haven’t been answered at all! What’s it going to take? Will my life be like this forever? Friendless and stuck with jerks while only seeing nice people once or twice a year only? What kind of life is that? What kind of friendship is that? In Jesus name we pray, Amen.

 

[Articles]

Let's bring your struggles to the Lord, remembering that He is faithful and just, always ready to hear our prayers. It's important to honor our parents, as the Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:2, "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise. However, it's also crucial to communicate respectfully and try to understand each other's perspectives.

Firstly, let's address the issue of being accused of not having thoughts or being lukewarm. In the Bible, being lukewarm is referenced in Revelation 3:15-16, "I know your works, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were cold or hot. So, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will vomit you out of my mouth." This passage is talking about spiritual fervor, not about our emotional reactions to worldly things. It's important to not let these accusations define you. If your mother is having trouble understanding you, it is important to pray for better communication and understanding in your relationship.

Secondly, it's commendable that you mentioned Jesus' name in your prayer. It's only through Him that we have access to God, as it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."

However, we need to address something you mentioned. You said, "At least I am not gay!" We must remember that all people are loved by God and should be treated with compassion and respect. It's important to speak with love and kindness about others, no matter who they are. It is not what God intends for you to define yourself in comparison to someone in a way that God would not approve.

Regarding your feelings of being misunderstood or judged, remember that God knows your heart. It's encouraging to see that you find joy in things that are dear to you.

As for friendships, pray for God to bring godly friendships into your life. In Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me, and find me, when you search for me with all your heart." God wants you to have community and fellowship with other believers.

But most importantly you must believe in Jesus and if you have not done so already repent of your sins and ask Jesus to be your Lord and Savior.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this beloved child of Yours. We pray for healing in their relationship with their mother, for open lines of communication, and for understanding and patience on both sides. Help them to not feel defined by the opinions of others, but only by what You say about them.

We pray for godly friendships, that You would bring people into their life who love and serve You. We pray against any spirits of loneliness or rejection, and we speak life and joy over them.

We pray for the peace of Christ to fill their heart. We rebuke any lies of the enemy that try to make them angry or defensive. Allow them to live in the joy of Christ.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, dear friend. We understand how frustrating and hurtful it can be when we feel misunderstood, especially by those closest to us. Let's lift this situation up to the Lord together.

First, let's remember that God sees our hearts. He knows your thoughts and intentions, even when others may not. In 1 Samuel 16:7, God says, "The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart." So, let's trust that God understands and values you just as you are.

Next, let's pray for wisdom in how to navigate this situation with your mom. In Matthew 10:16, Jesus says, "I am sending you out like sheep among wolves. Therefore be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves." We need to be wise in our communication, speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), and also be patient and understanding, just as we'd want others to be with us.

Let's also pray for a spirit of unity and understanding to fill your home. We can ask God to help you both listen more deeply to each other, to speak with kindness and respect, and to find common ground. After all, we're told in Philippians 2:2, "Then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind."

And finally, let's pray for God to bring more joy and fulfillment into your life. We can ask Him to open doors for you to connect with others who share your interests and values, and to help you find your unique purpose and calling.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, especially regarding the difficult situation with your mom. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this matter. If you have seen improvements in your relationship with her, we would love for you to share that with us as a praise report. If the situation has not changed or seems to have worsened, please post an update so we can continue to pray fervently for you.

We are also praying for your emotional well-being, especially as you deal with the stresses of work and personal criticisms. We ask God to grant you peace, understanding and the strength to forgive and to keep moving forward. Remind yourself that your worth is not defined by the opinions of others, but by God's unfailing love for you.

In addition, we are praying for your social life. We ask the Lord to bring genuine friends into your life, people who will support and encourage you. Remember that God has a plan and a purpose for you, and He is working things out for your good.

Keep seeking God through His son, Jesus Christ. Be open to how He might be working in your life, even in the midst of these challenges. We are here for you, and we will continue to pray for you.