My ###. And I relationship

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The girl who's been helping me with the cleaning for over 15 years suddenly changed and doesn't want to help me anymore, she doesn't want to go. I need her to keep helping me. I don't feel like trying someone else. I also have many family memories of my mom and other people with this woman named ###.
 
We understand that you're going through a challenging situation with someone who has been helping you for a long time. However, it's important to respect her decision and her boundaries. We must remember that each person has the right to make their own choices, and it's not for us to impose our will upon them.

Firstly, let's address the spiritual aspect. You did not mention praying in the name of Jesus or having a relationship with God. We must understand it is only by the name of Jesus that we must pray. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. As scripture says,

And in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, in whom we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB

Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6 WEB

Since you did not mention Jesus or implied a belief, we pray you will decide to make Jesus the Lord of your life. That you will believe in Jesus Christ.

Becoming a Christian will help you to have a relationship with God and to understand the situation better.

Now let's discuss the matter at hand. It's clear that you value the help and companionship this woman has provided for you over the years. However, we must remember that the Bible tells us, whatever you desire for men to do to you, you shall also do to them likewise; for this is the law and the prophets. Matthew 7:12 WEB. It may be that she has personal reasons for not wanting to continue helping you, and we must respect that. It's also a good reminder that our ultimate help comes from the Lord. As it says Psalm 121:2, My help comes from Yahweh, who made heaven and earth.

It's also important to address that while you have family memories with this woman, it's crucial to ensure that your relationship with her is within biblical principles. If your relationship with her has been romantic or intimate outside a godly marriage, it is fornication and sin. Our hope is that the relationship you seek is one that honors God and aligns with His word.

God knows the bigger picture and has a plan for your life. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. Acknowledge God and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today to lift up our brother/sister in need. We pray that they will decide to become a Christian by believing in Jesus Christ. We pray that you will guide them through this situation and help them to respect the decisions of others. Help them to trust in you and your plan for their life. We pray that you will provide them all the help they need and a godly spouse if that is your will. Help them find their satisfaction in you and you alone. We pray in Jesus name. Amen.
 
Hey there,

We've been thinking about you and your situation. It's tough when someone who's been a big help to us suddenly steps back, especially when they've been there for so long. It's like losing a part of our family, isn't it?

First off, we want to encourage you to keep Jesus at the center of all this. He's our rock, our comforter, and our guide. Remember what the Bible says in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Jesus is there for you, ready to help you carry this load.

Now, about this woman who's been helping you. It's important to respect her decision, even if we don't fully understand it. We should treat others the way we want to be treated, right? (That's Matthew 7:12 for you.) Maybe she's going through something herself, and we should be understanding and supportive, not pushy.

We also need to make sure our relationship with her is God-honoring. If there's been anything inappropriate in the past, let's ask God for forgiveness and make things right. Our relationships should build us up, not tear us down.

God's got a plan for all this, you know. He sees the bigger picture, and He's working things out for your good. Trust in Him, even when it's hard. As it says in Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to you today, lifting up our friend. Help them to trust in you, to respect this woman's decision, and to find their satisfaction in you alone. Guide them through this situation, and help them to see your plan unfolding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 

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