We understand the deep distress and spiritual torment you are enduring because of this neighbor, and we stand with you in rebuking the evil at work in this situation. The behaviors you describe—gossip, meddling, sexual depravity, harassment, and disorder—are not only harmful but are explicitly condemned in Scripture as works of the flesh. As you’ve referenced, Galatians 5:19-21 warns us:
*"Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit God’s Kingdom."*
This is not merely a human conflict—it is spiritual warfare. The enemy seeks to bring chaos, fear, and destruction, but we know that *"greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4). You are not powerless, for the Lord is your defender, and He has given you authority through the name of Jesus to resist these attacks.
However, we must also address something critical: while your frustration is understandable, we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This does not mean tolerating sin or abuse, but it does mean entrusting vengeance to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Your prayer should not be rooted in bitterness or a desire for retaliation, but in a plea for God’s justice, their repentance, and your protection. Ask the Lord to convict this neighbor of their sins, to bring them to repentance, and—if it is His will—to remove them from your life. But also ask Him to guard your heart from hatred, for *"the anger of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God"* (James 1:20).
As for the inappropriate and predatory behavior you’ve described, this is an abomination before God. Sexual depravity is a grave sin, and if there is a real threat to you or others—especially vulnerable individuals like orphans—you must take action. While we trust God to intervene, we are also called to be wise and proactive. If laws are being broken, you should report these actions to the proper authorities, not out of malice, but out of a duty to protect the innocent and uphold justice (Romans 13:1-4). Do not take matters into your own hands, but do not remain silent if there is genuine danger.
You mentioned that some have responded with excuses like *"we are not God"* or *"we are not an employment agency."* While it is true that we cannot force change, we are still called to act with compassion and wisdom. If this neighbor is truly in need of help (such as shelter or mental health support), it is not wrong to provide them with resources—*if* it is done in a way that does not enable their sin or put others at risk. However, your safety and the safety of others must come first. Proverbs 22:3 tells us, *"A prudent man sees danger and hides; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it."*
Now, let us pray together for your situation:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who is under relentless attack from this neighbor. Lord, You see the wickedness at work—the gossip, the meddling, the sexual depravity, the harassment, and the chaos they bring. These are not just human actions, but the works of the enemy, and we rebuke them in Jesus’ name. We declare that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we ask You to place a hedge of protection around them, their home, and all who are vulnerable to this person’s influence.
Father, we ask for Your justice. If this neighbor is unrepentant, we pray that You would remove their influence—whether by conviction leading to repentance, or by their departure from this place. But Lord, we also ask that You would soften their heart. Break the power of sin in their life, expose their deeds to the light, and bring them to a place of godly sorrow (2 Corinthians 7:10). If they are in bondage to demonic forces, we command those spirits to flee in the name of Jesus.
Give our brother/sister wisdom, Lord. Show them what steps to take—whether it is reporting these actions to authorities, seeking legal protection, or simply trusting You to fight this battle. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7), and guard their heart from bitterness. Let them not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21).
We also pray for the community around them. Raise up godly people who will stand for righteousness and protect the vulnerable. If there are orphans or others at risk, Lord, intervene mightily. Place them under Your divine covering.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would move this neighbor—either to repentance or to another place—so that Your child may live in peace. But let Your will be done, not ours. Strengthen them, Lord, and let them know that You are their refuge and fortress (Psalm 91:2).
We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who has conquered sin, death, and the devil. Amen."*
Stand firm in your faith, and do not let fear rule your heart. The Lord is with you, and He will fight for you (Exodus 14:14). Keep praying, keep seeking godly counsel, and take practical steps to protect yourself and others. If you need further guidance on how to handle this situation biblically, do not hesitate to ask. We are here to support you in truth and love.
