Please pray for me that God will continue to set me free from unforgiveness. It is sometimes hard doing this with my ### and other people in my life who have extremely difficult personalities (who are demonized and as a result behave in extremely negative, unstable and harmful ways; who have undiagnosed personality disorders and are mentally/emotionally unstable).
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We understand the deep struggle you are facing, and we lift you up before the Lord, knowing that the battle against unforgiveness is one that requires divine strength and a heart fully surrendered to Christ. The pain caused by those with difficult, unstable, or even demonically influenced behaviors can feel overwhelming, but we must remember that our fight is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). The Lord calls us to forgive, not because the actions of others are excusable, but because forgiveness is the path to our own freedom in Christ.
The Bible clearly teaches us about the importance of forgiveness. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* Unforgiveness is a weight that binds us, but forgiveness releases us from that bondage. It does not mean what was done to you was right or justifiable—it means you are choosing to trust God with your pain rather than allowing bitterness to take root in your heart.
We also recognize that you are dealing with individuals who may be under spiritual oppression or influenced by demonic forces. This is a serious matter, and we must approach it with both discernment and prayer. The behaviors you describe—extreme negativity, instability, and harm—are not of God. In such cases, it is important to pray for their deliverance while also guarding your own heart. Jesus Himself warned us in Matthew 7:6, *"Don’t give that which is holy to the dogs, neither throw your pearls before the pigs, lest perhaps they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces."* This does not mean we withhold love or prayer, but we must be wise in how we engage with those who are spiritually dangerous.
Let us also remember that we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This is not a natural response—it is a supernatural one, made possible only through the power of the Holy Spirit working in us. When we pray for those who have hurt us, we are aligning ourselves with God’s heart, which desires that *all* would come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).
We encourage you to continually surrender this burden to the Lord. He sees the pain you’ve endured, and He is faithful to heal and restore you. Psalm 34:18 reminds us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not alone in this—He is with you, and He will strengthen you as you choose to forgive.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is wrestling with the heavy burden of unforgiveness. Lord, You know the depth of her pain and the wounds inflicted upon her by those with difficult and even demonically influenced behaviors. We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon her heart, washing away every trace of bitterness, resentment, and anger. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Father, we pray that You would grant her the supernatural ability to forgive, just as You have forgiven her. Remind her that forgiveness is not a feeling but an act of obedience—a choice to release the debt owed to her, trusting that You will handle justice in Your perfect timing. Help her to see those who have hurt her through Your eyes, recognizing that they, too, are in need of Your mercy and deliverance.
We rebuked any spiritual strongholds of unforgiveness, bitterness, or offense that may have taken root in her life. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we break their hold over her in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that she is free from the chains of the past and that she walks in the liberty that Christ has purchased for her on the cross.
Lord, we also lift up those who have caused her pain. If they are bound by demonic influence, personality disorders, or emotional instability, we pray for their deliverance and healing. Soften their hearts, Lord, and draw them to Yourself. If they are unsaved, we ask that You would open their eyes to their need for a Savior and lead them to repentance.
Strengthen our sister, Father, and surround her with Your love and protection. Give her wisdom in how to interact with these individuals, setting godly boundaries where necessary while still extending grace. May she experience the fullness of Your freedom as she chooses to walk in forgiveness, and may her life be a testimony of Your redeeming power.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your faithfulness to complete the good work You have begun in her. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We want to encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word. Memorize scriptures on forgiveness, such as Colossians 3:13, which says, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* Let the truth of God’s Word renew your mind and strengthen your heart.
If you find yourself struggling, do not hesitate to reach out to mature believers in your life who can pray with you and hold you accountable. You are not meant to walk this path alone—the body of Christ is here to support and uplift you. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He will bring you through this season victorious.
The Bible clearly teaches us about the importance of forgiveness. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* Unforgiveness is a weight that binds us, but forgiveness releases us from that bondage. It does not mean what was done to you was right or justifiable—it means you are choosing to trust God with your pain rather than allowing bitterness to take root in your heart.
We also recognize that you are dealing with individuals who may be under spiritual oppression or influenced by demonic forces. This is a serious matter, and we must approach it with both discernment and prayer. The behaviors you describe—extreme negativity, instability, and harm—are not of God. In such cases, it is important to pray for their deliverance while also guarding your own heart. Jesus Himself warned us in Matthew 7:6, *"Don’t give that which is holy to the dogs, neither throw your pearls before the pigs, lest perhaps they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces."* This does not mean we withhold love or prayer, but we must be wise in how we engage with those who are spiritually dangerous.
Let us also remember that we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This is not a natural response—it is a supernatural one, made possible only through the power of the Holy Spirit working in us. When we pray for those who have hurt us, we are aligning ourselves with God’s heart, which desires that *all* would come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).
We encourage you to continually surrender this burden to the Lord. He sees the pain you’ve endured, and He is faithful to heal and restore you. Psalm 34:18 reminds us, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not alone in this—He is with you, and He will strengthen you as you choose to forgive.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is wrestling with the heavy burden of unforgiveness. Lord, You know the depth of her pain and the wounds inflicted upon her by those with difficult and even demonically influenced behaviors. We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon her heart, washing away every trace of bitterness, resentment, and anger. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Father, we pray that You would grant her the supernatural ability to forgive, just as You have forgiven her. Remind her that forgiveness is not a feeling but an act of obedience—a choice to release the debt owed to her, trusting that You will handle justice in Your perfect timing. Help her to see those who have hurt her through Your eyes, recognizing that they, too, are in need of Your mercy and deliverance.
We rebuked any spiritual strongholds of unforgiveness, bitterness, or offense that may have taken root in her life. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we break their hold over her in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that she is free from the chains of the past and that she walks in the liberty that Christ has purchased for her on the cross.
Lord, we also lift up those who have caused her pain. If they are bound by demonic influence, personality disorders, or emotional instability, we pray for their deliverance and healing. Soften their hearts, Lord, and draw them to Yourself. If they are unsaved, we ask that You would open their eyes to their need for a Savior and lead them to repentance.
Strengthen our sister, Father, and surround her with Your love and protection. Give her wisdom in how to interact with these individuals, setting godly boundaries where necessary while still extending grace. May she experience the fullness of Your freedom as she chooses to walk in forgiveness, and may her life be a testimony of Your redeeming power.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your faithfulness to complete the good work You have begun in her. In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We want to encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word. Memorize scriptures on forgiveness, such as Colossians 3:13, which says, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* Let the truth of God’s Word renew your mind and strengthen your heart.
If you find yourself struggling, do not hesitate to reach out to mature believers in your life who can pray with you and hold you accountable. You are not meant to walk this path alone—the body of Christ is here to support and uplift you. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He will bring you through this season victorious.
Dear friend, we're here with you, holding your hand in spirit as you navigate this tough road. We know it's not easy to forgive, especially when the hurt is deep and the person causing it seems so far from understanding or remorse. But remember, forgiveness isn't about them, it's about you. It's about freeing yourself from the chains of bitterness and resentment.
We're reminded of a story in the Bible, where Jesus, while hanging on the cross, looked down at those who were crucifying Him and said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do" (Luke 23:34). He didn't excuse their actions, but He chose to forgive because He trusted His Father with justice. That's the kind of forgiveness we're called to, not because they deserve it, but because we trust God with our pain.
We also want to encourage you to set boundaries. It's okay to love and pray for these individuals, but it's also important to protect your heart. Jesus said, "Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before the swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and rend you" (Matthew 7:6). This doesn't mean we stop loving or praying, but it does mean we're wise about how we engage.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You today. Lord, You see the pain she's been through, the hurt she's carrying. We ask that You would heal her heart, fill her with Your peace, and give her the strength to forgive. Help her to see these individuals through Your eyes, Lord, and to love them as You love them. Give her wisdom to set boundaries, Lord, and protect her heart. We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and for hearing our prayer. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We're here for you, every step of the way. Keep seeking the Lord, keep trusting Him, and remember, you're not alone. We're in this together.
We're reminded of a story in the Bible, where Jesus, while hanging on the cross, looked down at those who were crucifying Him and said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do" (Luke 23:34). He didn't excuse their actions, but He chose to forgive because He trusted His Father with justice. That's the kind of forgiveness we're called to, not because they deserve it, but because we trust God with our pain.
We also want to encourage you to set boundaries. It's okay to love and pray for these individuals, but it's also important to protect your heart. Jesus said, "Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before the swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and rend you" (Matthew 7:6). This doesn't mean we stop loving or praying, but it does mean we're wise about how we engage.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister to You today. Lord, You see the pain she's been through, the hurt she's carrying. We ask that You would heal her heart, fill her with Your peace, and give her the strength to forgive. Help her to see these individuals through Your eyes, Lord, and to love them as You love them. Give her wisdom to set boundaries, Lord, and protect her heart. We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and for hearing our prayer. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We're here for you, every step of the way. Keep seeking the Lord, keep trusting Him, and remember, you're not alone. We're in this together.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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