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We hear your cry, dear sister, and we lift you up before the throne of grace with heavy hearts. The pain of being threatened by your own child—one you carried, nurtured, and loved—cuts deeper than any physical wound. It is a sorrow no mother should bear, and yet here you stand, refusing to compromise your convictions, even when it costs you dearly. Your life *does* matter, not just to you, but to the God who formed you in your mother’s womb (Psalm 139:13-14) and who calls you His beloved. You are not alone in this battle.
First, we must address the spiritual warfare at play here. The hatred, violence, and control you describe are not of God. Scripture warns us that "the thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy" (John 10:10), and we see his work in the threats against you. But Jesus came that we might have life—and have it abundantly. The enemy wants to isolate you, to make you feel powerless, but God’s Word declares, "No weapon that is formed against you will prevail" (Isaiah 54:17). We rebuke the spirit of rebellion, violence, and hatred in your child’s heart in the name of Jesus. We command it to loose its grip and flee, for "the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world" (1 John 4:4).
Your refusal to enable sin or surrender your life to manipulation is righteous. Scripture is clear: "If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8), but this does not mean you are called to fund or facilitate ungodly behavior. Boundaries are biblical. Proverbs 22:6 instructs us to "train up a child in the way he should go," but it does not guarantee they will walk in it. When a child rejects truth, the parent’s role shifts to prayer, godly sorrow, and—when necessary—tough love. You are not wrong for protecting your life and your peace. In fact, Jesus Himself said, "If your right eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and throw it from you" (Matthew 5:29). This is not a call to literal self-harm, but a radical command to remove anything—even relationships—that leads you into sin or danger.
We must also speak plainly about the spiritual state of your child. Hatred toward a parent is a serious matter. Leviticus 19:3 commands, "Each one of you shall respect his mother and his father," and the New Testament echoes this in Ephesians 6:2-3: "Honor your father and mother... that it may be well with you." The rebellion you are facing is not just against you—it is against God’s design. We pray for conviction to fall upon your child, for the Holy Spirit to soften their heart, and for their eyes to be opened to the destruction they are walking in. But we also recognize that this may be a long battle. Do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9), even when the fruit is not yet visible.
Now, to your plea for protection: we stand with you in prayer, declaring Psalm 91 over your life. "He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, 'He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.'" (Psalm 91:1-2). We pray that God would station His angels around you, that no weapon formed against you would prosper, and that you would walk in divine peace, even in the midst of this storm. If there is a need for physical protection—locks, security systems, or even legal intervention—we encourage you to seek it. Wisdom is a gift from God (James 1:5), and He will guide your steps if you ask Him.
You mentioned that your life means a lot to you, and we want to affirm that. Your life has value because you are made in the image of God (Genesis 1:27). You are not disposable. You are not a doormat. Jesus said, "I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly" (John 10:10), and that includes *you*. Do not let the enemy convince you that your worth is tied to how much abuse you endure. God sees your tears, He collects them in a bottle (Psalm 56:8), and He will repay every wrong done to you (Romans 12:19).
But we must also ask: Have you placed your trust fully in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? The name of Jesus is the only name by which we can approach God (John 14:6), and it is the only name that has power over the forces of darkness. If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is not just about eternal life—it is about having the power of the Holy Spirit within you to face every trial. Without Christ, we are defenseless against the schemes of the enemy. With Him, we are more than conquerors (Romans 8:37).
We also encourage you to seek godly community. Isolation is one of the enemy’s greatest tools. Proverbs 18:1 warns, "A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; he rages against all wise judgment." Find a Bible-believing church where you can be supported, prayed for, and held accountable. Share your burden with trusted believers who can stand with you in prayer and practical help. You do not have to walk this road alone.
Lastly, we pray for your heart. The betrayal of a child is a wound that can fester into bitterness if not surrendered to God. Hebrews 12:15 warns, "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God, and that no root of bitterness springs up to cause trouble and defile many." We pray that God would heal your heart, that you would release your child into His hands, and that you would find your identity not in being a mother, but in being a daughter of the King. Your worth is not defined by your child’s behavior. Your worth is defined by the price Jesus paid for you on the cross.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister who is enduring threats and hatred from her own child. Lord, You see her pain, You hear her cries, and You collect her tears. We declare that she is not alone, for You are her refuge and her fortress. We rebuke the spirit of rebellion, violence, and control in her child’s life, and we command it to flee in the name of Jesus. We pray for a hedge of protection around her—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Station Your angels around her, Lord, and let no weapon formed against her prosper.
Father, we ask for wisdom for her. Show her the steps she needs to take to protect herself, whether that is legal action, boundaries, or seeking help from authorities. Give her discernment to know when to speak and when to be silent, when to engage and when to step back. Surround her with godly community that will stand with her in prayer and support.
We pray for her child, Lord. Break the hardness of their heart. Let conviction fall upon them like a heavy weight. Open their eyes to see the destruction they are walking in, and draw them back to You. If it is Your will, restore this relationship, but if not, give our sister the strength to release her child into Your hands. Heal her heart from the betrayal and the pain. Let her find her identity in You, not in her role as a mother.
Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to her in a powerful way. If she does not know You as her Savior, draw her to Yourself. Let her experience the peace that surpasses all understanding, the joy of Your presence, and the power of Your Holy Spirit within her. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her.
We thank You, Father, that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Strengthen her, encourage her, and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
First, we must address the spiritual warfare at play here. The hatred, violence, and control you describe are not of God. Scripture warns us that "the thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy" (John 10:10), and we see his work in the threats against you. But Jesus came that we might have life—and have it abundantly. The enemy wants to isolate you, to make you feel powerless, but God’s Word declares, "No weapon that is formed against you will prevail" (Isaiah 54:17). We rebuke the spirit of rebellion, violence, and hatred in your child’s heart in the name of Jesus. We command it to loose its grip and flee, for "the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world" (1 John 4:4).
Your refusal to enable sin or surrender your life to manipulation is righteous. Scripture is clear: "If anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his own house, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8), but this does not mean you are called to fund or facilitate ungodly behavior. Boundaries are biblical. Proverbs 22:6 instructs us to "train up a child in the way he should go," but it does not guarantee they will walk in it. When a child rejects truth, the parent’s role shifts to prayer, godly sorrow, and—when necessary—tough love. You are not wrong for protecting your life and your peace. In fact, Jesus Himself said, "If your right eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and throw it from you" (Matthew 5:29). This is not a call to literal self-harm, but a radical command to remove anything—even relationships—that leads you into sin or danger.
We must also speak plainly about the spiritual state of your child. Hatred toward a parent is a serious matter. Leviticus 19:3 commands, "Each one of you shall respect his mother and his father," and the New Testament echoes this in Ephesians 6:2-3: "Honor your father and mother... that it may be well with you." The rebellion you are facing is not just against you—it is against God’s design. We pray for conviction to fall upon your child, for the Holy Spirit to soften their heart, and for their eyes to be opened to the destruction they are walking in. But we also recognize that this may be a long battle. Do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9), even when the fruit is not yet visible.
Now, to your plea for protection: we stand with you in prayer, declaring Psalm 91 over your life. "He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, 'He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.'" (Psalm 91:1-2). We pray that God would station His angels around you, that no weapon formed against you would prosper, and that you would walk in divine peace, even in the midst of this storm. If there is a need for physical protection—locks, security systems, or even legal intervention—we encourage you to seek it. Wisdom is a gift from God (James 1:5), and He will guide your steps if you ask Him.
You mentioned that your life means a lot to you, and we want to affirm that. Your life has value because you are made in the image of God (Genesis 1:27). You are not disposable. You are not a doormat. Jesus said, "I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly" (John 10:10), and that includes *you*. Do not let the enemy convince you that your worth is tied to how much abuse you endure. God sees your tears, He collects them in a bottle (Psalm 56:8), and He will repay every wrong done to you (Romans 12:19).
But we must also ask: Have you placed your trust fully in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? The name of Jesus is the only name by which we can approach God (John 14:6), and it is the only name that has power over the forces of darkness. If you have not surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today. Romans 10:9 says, "If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved." Salvation is not just about eternal life—it is about having the power of the Holy Spirit within you to face every trial. Without Christ, we are defenseless against the schemes of the enemy. With Him, we are more than conquerors (Romans 8:37).
We also encourage you to seek godly community. Isolation is one of the enemy’s greatest tools. Proverbs 18:1 warns, "A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; he rages against all wise judgment." Find a Bible-believing church where you can be supported, prayed for, and held accountable. Share your burden with trusted believers who can stand with you in prayer and practical help. You do not have to walk this road alone.
Lastly, we pray for your heart. The betrayal of a child is a wound that can fester into bitterness if not surrendered to God. Hebrews 12:15 warns, "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God, and that no root of bitterness springs up to cause trouble and defile many." We pray that God would heal your heart, that you would release your child into His hands, and that you would find your identity not in being a mother, but in being a daughter of the King. Your worth is not defined by your child’s behavior. Your worth is defined by the price Jesus paid for you on the cross.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister who is enduring threats and hatred from her own child. Lord, You see her pain, You hear her cries, and You collect her tears. We declare that she is not alone, for You are her refuge and her fortress. We rebuke the spirit of rebellion, violence, and control in her child’s life, and we command it to flee in the name of Jesus. We pray for a hedge of protection around her—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Station Your angels around her, Lord, and let no weapon formed against her prosper.
Father, we ask for wisdom for her. Show her the steps she needs to take to protect herself, whether that is legal action, boundaries, or seeking help from authorities. Give her discernment to know when to speak and when to be silent, when to engage and when to step back. Surround her with godly community that will stand with her in prayer and support.
We pray for her child, Lord. Break the hardness of their heart. Let conviction fall upon them like a heavy weight. Open their eyes to see the destruction they are walking in, and draw them back to You. If it is Your will, restore this relationship, but if not, give our sister the strength to release her child into Your hands. Heal her heart from the betrayal and the pain. Let her find her identity in You, not in her role as a mother.
Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to her in a powerful way. If she does not know You as her Savior, draw her to Yourself. Let her experience the peace that surpasses all understanding, the joy of Your presence, and the power of Your Holy Spirit within her. We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her.
We thank You, Father, that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We trust You to work all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). Strengthen her, encourage her, and let her feel Your presence in a tangible way. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Dear sister, we stand with you in this challenging time, lifting your name before our Heavenly Father. We know the fear and uncertainty you're facing, but we want you to know that you are not alone. We are here, praying for you, believing with you, and reminding you of the truth that God sees you, He knows your pain, and He is with you every step of the way.
We pray for protection over your life, dear sister. We ask God to station His angels around you, to keep you safe from harm, and to give you wisdom in knowing how to protect yourself. We pray that you would feel His peace, even in the midst of this storm, and that you would trust in Him, knowing that He has a plan and a purpose in all things.
We also pray for your child. We ask God to soften their heart, to open their eyes to the truth, and to draw them back to Him. We pray for conviction to fall upon them, and for them to turn from their ways. We ask God to give you the strength to parent with love and firmness, to set boundaries when necessary, and to trust in God's plan for their life.
We remind you, dear sister, that your life matters. You are a child of God, loved and cherished by Him. You are not a doormat, and you are not disposable. You have value and worth in His eyes, and He sees every tear you cry. We pray that you would find your identity in Him, and not in the behavior of your child.
We encourage you to seek godly community, dear sister. Find a church where you can be supported, prayed for, and held accountable. Share your burden with trusted believers who can stand with you in prayer and practical help. You do not have to walk this road alone.
Lastly, we pray for your heart, dear sister. We ask God to heal you from the pain and betrayal you're feeling. We pray that you would release your child into God's hands, and find your identity in Him. We pray that you would experience the peace, joy, and power of His Holy Spirit in your life.
We believe in the power of prayer, dear sister. We believe that God hears our cries, and that He will answer according to His will. We trust in Him, and we trust in the power of His name. We pray all these things in Jesus' mighty name, Amen.
We pray for protection over your life, dear sister. We ask God to station His angels around you, to keep you safe from harm, and to give you wisdom in knowing how to protect yourself. We pray that you would feel His peace, even in the midst of this storm, and that you would trust in Him, knowing that He has a plan and a purpose in all things.
We also pray for your child. We ask God to soften their heart, to open their eyes to the truth, and to draw them back to Him. We pray for conviction to fall upon them, and for them to turn from their ways. We ask God to give you the strength to parent with love and firmness, to set boundaries when necessary, and to trust in God's plan for their life.
We remind you, dear sister, that your life matters. You are a child of God, loved and cherished by Him. You are not a doormat, and you are not disposable. You have value and worth in His eyes, and He sees every tear you cry. We pray that you would find your identity in Him, and not in the behavior of your child.
We encourage you to seek godly community, dear sister. Find a church where you can be supported, prayed for, and held accountable. Share your burden with trusted believers who can stand with you in prayer and practical help. You do not have to walk this road alone.
Lastly, we pray for your heart, dear sister. We ask God to heal you from the pain and betrayal you're feeling. We pray that you would release your child into God's hands, and find your identity in Him. We pray that you would experience the peace, joy, and power of His Holy Spirit in your life.
We believe in the power of prayer, dear sister. We believe that God hears our cries, and that He will answer according to His will. We trust in Him, and we trust in the power of His name. We pray all these things in Jesus' mighty name, Amen.
The Encourager
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Deuteronomy 3:16: Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.
Child of God, Fear Not. Keep Your Focus On God. Trust God. God Is Your Protection. God Is With You As A Mighty Warrior. God Will Never Leave You or Forsake You. No Weapon Formed Against You Shall Prosper.
God, I ask You in Jesus's name, today and for always place a hedge of protection and a wall of fire all around me. Cover me, Lord Jesus. Give Your angels charge over me to protect, deliver, keep me safe, and healthy. Be my refuge, fortress, and my ever-present help in the time of trouble. God, make me to dwell in safety. Cause me to lie down in peace and sleep. Lord, You be the watchman over my life, family, home, and all that You have blessed me with. God vindicate me according to Your righteousness. You arise in my life and cause all my enemies to be scattered (physically, spiritually, financially, emotionally, and psychologically) that come to fight, hurt, steal, kill, torment, deceive, distract, destroy, and or discourage me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Do not let my enemies rejoice over me. Fight against all those who fight against me. Let no weapon formed against me ever prosper. God instruct Your angels to defeat, chasten, and cause my enemies to stumble, fail, and be greatly ashamed. God distract, disappoint, frustrate, and humiliate all my enemies. Utterly destroy all their evil plans. God please forever honor this prayer over my life, the life of the writer of this prayer, and all those who truly love and care about me. Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Child of God, Fear Not. Keep Your Focus On God. Trust God. God Is Your Protection. God Is With You As A Mighty Warrior. God Will Never Leave You or Forsake You. No Weapon Formed Against You Shall Prosper.
God, I ask You in Jesus's name, today and for always place a hedge of protection and a wall of fire all around me. Cover me, Lord Jesus. Give Your angels charge over me to protect, deliver, keep me safe, and healthy. Be my refuge, fortress, and my ever-present help in the time of trouble. God, make me to dwell in safety. Cause me to lie down in peace and sleep. Lord, You be the watchman over my life, family, home, and all that You have blessed me with. God vindicate me according to Your righteousness. You arise in my life and cause all my enemies to be scattered (physically, spiritually, financially, emotionally, and psychologically) that come to fight, hurt, steal, kill, torment, deceive, distract, destroy, and or discourage me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Do not let my enemies rejoice over me. Fight against all those who fight against me. Let no weapon formed against me ever prosper. God instruct Your angels to defeat, chasten, and cause my enemies to stumble, fail, and be greatly ashamed. God distract, disappoint, frustrate, and humiliate all my enemies. Utterly destroy all their evil plans. God please forever honor this prayer over my life, the life of the writer of this prayer, and all those who truly love and care about me. Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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