We hear your pain and cry out to the Lord on your behalf, standing with you against this injustice. The Word of God is clear that all people—male and female—are created in His image and are to be treated with dignity, respect, and love (Genesis 1:27). No one is to lord authority over another in a way that oppresses or manipulates, for Scripture warns, *"You know that the rulers of the nations lord it over them, and their great ones exercise authority over them. It shall not be so among you"* (Matthew 20:25-26). What you are enduring is not of God, and we rebuke in Jesus’ name the spirit of control, manipulation, and spiritual abuse at work in your home.
Your mother and sister are misusing their positions—not as women, but as individuals who have twisted God’s design for family and authority. The Bible does not grant anyone, regardless of gender, the right to dominate, belittle, or enslave another. In fact, Scripture commands, *"Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than themselves"* (Philippians 2:3). Their behavior is a perversion of godly femininity, which is meant to reflect strength, wisdom, and nurturing love—not cruelty or exploitation.
We must also address the spiritual manipulation you’ve described. Using religion as a weapon to control or harm is a grave sin. Jesus Himself rebuked the religious leaders of His day for such hypocrisy: *"Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you shut up the Kingdom of Heaven against men; for you don’t enter in yourselves, neither do you allow those who are entering to enter"* (Matthew 23:13). If they are distorting Scripture to justify their behavior, they are leading themselves—and possibly others—into deception. We pray that their hearts would be convicted by the Holy Spirit and that they would repent of this wickedness.
You are not called to be a slave in your own home. God’s design for family is one of mutual respect, love, and submission to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21). If your mother and sister are using their femininity as a tool for control, they are operating in rebellion against God’s order. We declare in Jesus’ name that their schemes will not stand, and that the truth of God’s Word will expose and dismantle their manipulations.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear brother who is suffering under the weight of spiritual and emotional abuse. Lord, You see every tear, every injustice, and every moment of torment he has endured. We ask that You would be his refuge and strength, a very present help in this time of trouble (Psalm 46:1). Break the chains of manipulation and control that have bound him, and let Your light expose the darkness at work in his home.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of Jezebel—the spirit of control, manipulation, and witchcraft—that seeks to dominate and destroy Your children. We declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against him in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Give him the courage to stand firm in his identity as Your son, created with purpose and dignity.
Lord, we pray for his mother and sister. Soften their hearts, Holy Spirit. Convict them of their sin and lead them to repentance. If they refuse to turn from their wickedness, we ask that You would remove their influence and bring godly authority into his life to protect and guide him. Surround him with believers who will speak truth, love, and encouragement into his life.
Father, we ask that You would heal the wounds in his soul. Restore what has been stolen and bring justice where there has been oppression. Give him wisdom to navigate this situation with grace and discernment, and grant him the strength to set boundaries that honor You. May he find his worth and security in You alone, knowing that he is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14).
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who came to set the captives free and to proclaim liberty to the oppressed (Luke 4:18). May Your will be done in his life, and may Your kingdom come in his home. Amen.
Brother, we want you to know that you are not alone. The Lord sees your suffering, and He is a God of justice. *"The Lord works righteousness and justice for all who are oppressed"* (Psalm 103:6). You have the right to seek safety, to speak truth, and to refuse to be a victim. If possible, we encourage you to seek godly counsel—perhaps from a pastor, elder, or trusted Christian mentor—who can help you navigate this situation with wisdom. If you are in physical danger, do not hesitate to reach out to authorities for protection.
Remember, your identity is not defined by their cruelty. You are a son of the Most High God, created for a purpose, and no one can thwart His plans for your life. *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future"* (Jeremiah 29:11). Hold fast to that promise, and do not lose heart. The enemy may have meant this for harm, but God can turn it around for your good (Genesis 50:20).
Finally, we urge you to anchor yourself in the truth of God’s Word. Spend time in prayer and Scripture, allowing the Holy Spirit to renew your mind and strengthen your spirit. The psalms are a powerful place to start—many of them were written out of deep suffering and cry out to God for deliverance. Let them be your voice when you feel too weary to pray.
You are loved. You are valued. And you are not forgotten. We stand with you in this battle, believing that God will bring justice, healing, and restoration. Keep your eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He will never leave you nor forsake you.
