We are deeply grieved to hear of the suffering you and your children are enduring, and we stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ to rebuke this evil and cry out for God’s justice, protection, and deliverance. The Lord sees your affliction, and He is a God who hears the cries of the oppressed. This situation is an abomination in His sight, for Scripture declares that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church—sacrificially, tenderly, and without malice (Ephesians 5:25). Instead, your husband is acting in direct rebellion against God, aligning himself with the works of darkness by paying others to harm you and your children. This is not only criminal but a grievous sin that invites God’s wrath unless he repents.
The Bible is clear: *"Fathers, don’t provoke your children to anger, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord"* (Ephesians 6:4, WEB). What is happening in your home is the opposite of godly leadership—it is tyranny, wickedness, and a violation of the covenant of marriage. The Lord also commands, *"Don’t participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them"* (Ephesians 5:11, WEB). This is not a time for silence or passivity. You must act wisely and urgently to protect yourself and your children, for God has not given you a spirit of fear but of power, love, and sound judgment (2 Timothy 1:7).
First, we urge you to seek immediate safety. Contact local authorities, trusted church leaders, or a Christian organization that aids victims of domestic abuse. You are not obligated to remain in a home where your life and the lives of your children are in danger. God does not call you to endure abuse—He calls you to flee from evil and seek refuge in Him. *"A prudent man sees danger and hides; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it"* (Proverbs 22:3, WEB). If you are in the U.S., you can reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline or a similar organization in your country. Do not delay—your safety and the safety of your children are paramount.
Second, we must address the spiritual warfare at play here. Your husband’s actions are not just human evil—they are empowered by the enemy, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). But greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). We bind every demonic stronghold in your husband’s life and command every spirit of violence, hatred, and perversion to be silenced and cast out in the name of Jesus Christ. We pray that the Lord would expose every hidden scheme, bring every accomplice to justice, and break the power of darkness over your household. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh’s servants, and their righteousness is from me," says Yahweh"* (Isaiah 54:17, WEB).
We also pray for your husband’s soul, though his actions are despicable. The Lord does not desire that any should perish but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). We ask God to convict him deeply of his sins, to bring him to his knees in brokenness, and to turn his heart from evil. May the Holy Spirit haunt him day and night until he confesses, repents, and surrenders to Christ. If he refuses, we pray that the Lord would remove his influence over you and your children entirely, severing every ungodly tie and setting you free from his oppression. *"The Lord examines the righteous, but the wicked and those who love violence, his soul hates"* (Psalm 11:5, WEB).
For you and your children, we pray for supernatural strength, peace that surpasses understanding, and the comfort of the Holy Spirit. May the Lord restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25) and heal every wound—physical, emotional, and spiritual. We declare that your children will not be traumatized or defined by this evil but will rise up as mighty warriors for Christ, their faith refined by fire. *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds"* (Psalm 147:3, WEB). We also pray for godly wisdom as you navigate legal, financial, and relational decisions. The Lord will provide for you, even as He provided manna in the wilderness and ravens to feed Elijah. Trust Him to be your Provider, Protector, and Redeemer.
Finally, we exhort you to cling to Jesus with everything in you. This battle is not yours alone—it is the Lord’s. *"Don’t be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you," says Yahweh"* (Jeremiah 1:8, WEB). Spend time in His Word daily, even if it’s just a verse or two. Let the psalms be your prayer when words fail you. Surround yourself with believers who will stand in the gap for you, as we are doing now. And never forget: you are not abandoned. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister and her children in this hour of desperate need. Lord, You are a God of justice, and You see the wickedness being perpetrated against them. We ask You to rise up, O God, and scatter their enemies (Psalm 68:1). Expose every hidden plot, bring every evil deed to light, and let those who devise harm be ensnared in their own schemes (Psalm 9:15-16). Protect our sister and her children as the apple of Your eye; hide them under the shadow of Your wings (Psalm 17:8).
We bind every spirit of violence, hatred, and perversion in the name of Jesus. We command every demonic assignment against this family to be nullified and destroyed. Let the blood of Jesus cover their home, their minds, and their bodies. Send Your warring angels to stand guard around them, Lord, and let no weapon formed against them prosper.
Father, we pray for supernatural intervention in this situation. Provide a way of escape, open doors for safety and provision, and give our sister wisdom beyond her years to navigate this storm. Let her find favor with authorities, with believers, and with those who can help her. Break the financial strongholds that her husband may be using to control her, and supply all her needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19).
We also pray for her husband, though his sins are grave. Lord, if it is Your will, break his heart of stone and give him a heart of flesh (Ezekiel 36:26). Let him be confronted with the horror of his actions and driven to repentance. If he refuses to turn from his wickedness, then we ask You to remove his ability to harm this family any longer. Sever every ungodly soul tie and set our sister and her children free from his oppression, in Jesus’ name.
Heal their wounds, Lord—every bruise, every scar, every trauma. Restore their peace, their joy, and their trust in You. Let this trial not destroy them but refine them as gold in the fire. Raise up a mighty testimony of Your deliverance through this family, that Your name would be glorified.
We thank You, Father, that You are faithful. You are their Shield, their Strong Tower, and their Ever-Present Help in trouble. We trust You to act on their behalf, for You are a God who defends the cause of the widow and the fatherless (Deuteronomy 10:18). Do not delay, Lord—move swiftly and powerfully in this situation. Let Your will be done, and let Your kingdom come in their lives.
In the mighty, victorious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
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We will continue to stand with you in prayer, sister. Please keep us updated on your situation so we can intercede specifically. If you are able, share this request with your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor who can provide localized support. You are not alone—the Body of Christ is with you, and the Lord Himself fights for you. Stay strong in Him. *"The Lord is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; and he knows those who take refuge in him"* (Nahum 1:7, WEB).