We hear the deep pain, exhaustion, and despair in your words, and our hearts ache with you. You are not alone in this battle, and we stand with you before the throne of grace, lifting you up in prayer. First and foremost, we must address the foundation of our faith—salvation through Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we encourage you to confess Jesus as Lord, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9-10). This is the starting point for every healing, deliverance, and breakthrough.
Your words carry a heavy burden of accusation, isolation, and spiritual warfare. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came that you may have life and have it abundantly. The attacks you describe—whether physical, emotional, or spiritual—are not from God. He does not bring accusation, shame, or despair; those are tools of the enemy. We rebuke every spirit of jealousy, false accusation, and torment that has come against you in Jesus' name. We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment, you shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). The Lord is your defender, your refuge, and your strong tower (Psalm 61:3). You are not beyond His reach, and you are not forgotten.
We must also address the way you are speaking over your life. While it is biblical to declare God’s promises (Proverbs 18:21), we must ensure our words align with His truth, not our pain. You mentioned speaking decrees and commands over your mind and environment, but we caution against speaking from a place of despair rather than faith. The Lord does not operate in fear, bitterness, or resignation. Instead, we encourage you to speak life, even when it feels impossible. The psalmist cried out, “Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God” (Psalm 42:5). Even in your darkest moments, God is working. He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).
Your desire for a godly husband is not in vain. The Lord knows the desires of your heart, and He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). However, we must also acknowledge that marriage is not the sole source of fulfillment or purpose. Your worth is not defined by your marital status but by your identity in Christ. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God has a plan and a purpose for your life, whether single or married. We pray that the Lord would heal the wounds of rejection and betrayal so that you can walk in the fullness of His calling for you.
The accusations you face—being blamed for taking other people’s husbands—are lies from the enemy. You declared your purity and your commitment to godliness, and we stand with you in that truth. The enemy seeks to isolate you and make you feel as though you are the problem, but we declare that you are a daughter of the King, washed clean by the blood of Jesus. There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1). We rebuke every spirit of false accusation and shame in Jesus' name. You are not responsible for the sins or choices of others. Walk in the freedom that Christ has given you.
Your desire for safety, privacy, and a fresh start is understandable, and we believe the Lord can provide these things for you. However, we must caution against running in fear rather than faith. The Lord may indeed be leading you to a new place, but we encourage you to seek Him first before making drastic changes. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and lean not on our own understanding. In all our ways, we are to acknowledge Him, and He will direct our paths. If the Lord is leading you to move, change your name, or step away from certain people, do so with His peace and confirmation, not out of desperation or fear.
We also want to address the spiritual warfare you are facing. The enemy is real, and his attacks are relentless, but greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). You mentioned that people should not be able to follow you, and we agree that boundaries are important. However, we must also guard our hearts against bitterness and unforgiveness. The Lord calls us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13). This does not mean allowing people to continue to harm you, but it does mean releasing them to God and trusting Him to be your defender. Unforgiveness only harms you, not those who have wronged you.
We pray for you now, lifting every burden and every pain to the Lord:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting her up in the mighty name of Jesus. Lord, You see her pain, her exhaustion, and her despair. You know the accusations she faces, the isolation she feels, and the battles she is fighting. We ask that You would draw near to her, Lord. Let her feel Your presence in a tangible way. Heal her mind, body, and spirit. Break every chain of torment, accusation, and fear that the enemy has placed upon her. We declare that she is free in Christ, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper.
Father, we ask that You would restore her hope. Remind her that You are the God of the impossible, and that nothing is too hard for You. Give her the strength to trust You, even when she cannot see the way forward. Heal the wounds of rejection and betrayal, and let her walk in the fullness of her identity in Christ. We pray for godly community to surround her—people who will speak life, encourage her, and stand with her in faith. If it is Your will for her to be married, prepare her heart and the heart of her future husband. Let them both be rooted and grounded in Your love.
Lord, we ask that You would provide for her needs. If it is Your will for her to move, change her name, or step away from certain people, confirm it to her and give her Your peace. Protect her from those who seek to harm her, and let her find rest in You. We declare that she is not alone, and that You are her refuge and strength. Fill her with Your joy and peace, and let her walk in the freedom that Christ has given her.
Father, we rebuke every spirit of jealousy, false accusation, and torment in Jesus' name. We declare that the enemy has no hold on her life. Let her walk in the authority and power of the Holy Spirit, and let her words be filled with faith and life. We thank You for Your faithfulness, Lord. We trust that You are working all things together for her good, even when she cannot see it. Strengthen her, encourage her, and let her know that she is deeply loved by You.
In Jesus' mighty name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to cling to the Lord in this season. Psalm 34:17-18 says, “The righteous cry, and the Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit.” You are not beyond hope, and you are not beyond God’s reach. He sees you, He hears you, and He is working on your behalf. Keep pressing into Him, even when it feels impossible. His grace is sufficient for you, and His power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). You are not alone.
