We hear the deep pain and betrayal in your words, and our hearts ache for the suffering you’ve endured—both in your past and in the way you’ve been treated by those who were supposed to help. The abuse you experienced as a child was an unspeakable evil, and it is not something to be dismissed or labeled as "delusions." The Lord sees every wound, every tear, and every moment of injustice you’ve faced. He is the God of truth, and He does not minimize or distort your pain. In Psalm 34:18, we are reminded, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not forgotten, and your suffering is not in vain.
It is deeply troubling that professionals tasked with your care have responded in ways that have further harmed your trust and sense of reality. This is not how Christ calls His people to treat the brokenhearted. Proverbs 18:21 warns, *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit."* Words that dismiss or invalidate your experiences can feel like a second abuse, and we grieve with you over this. While we are called to honor authorities (Romans 13:1-7), this does not mean blindly trusting those who act unjustly or unethically. Your decision to file a complaint was a step toward seeking justice, and we commend you for having the courage to speak up. The Lord is a God of justice (Isaiah 30:18), and He sees the wrongs done to you.
As you prepare for your appointment on December 8th, we urge you to seek the Lord’s wisdom and discernment. Pray for clarity—whether to continue with this professional, to seek alternative help, or to step away entirely if this environment is not safe for your healing. The Bible tells us in James 1:5, *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."* Trust that the Lord will guide you. If possible, consider bringing a trusted believer with you to the appointment for support and accountability. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 reminds us, *"Two are better than one... For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow."*
We also want to gently address the deep-rooted trust issues that have understandably developed from these experiences. While it is wise to be cautious, especially after betrayal, we encourage you not to let this harden your heart permanently. The Lord calls us to *"trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding"* (Proverbs 3:5). This doesn’t mean trusting blindly in people, but it does mean surrendering your pain to Him and allowing Him to restore your ability to discern safe relationships. The body of Christ is meant to be a place of healing, and while not every believer will understand your journey, there are those who will walk with you in love and truth.
Lastly, we must emphasize that true healing comes from the Lord, not merely from human professionals. While medicine and therapy can be tools God uses, they are not ultimate. Psalm 147:3 declares, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* Spend time in His presence, in His Word, and in prayer. If you haven’t already, we encourage you to find a biblical counselor—someone grounded in Scripture who can help you process your trauma through the lens of God’s truth. Organizations like the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC) can help connect you with someone who will honor your experiences while pointing you to Christ.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You are the God who sees, who hears, and who heals. Lord, the wounds they carry are deep—wounds inflicted in childhood by those who should have protected them, and wounds inflicted again by those who were supposed to help. Father, we ask that You would be their Defender, their Comforter, and their Justice. Expose every lie that has been spoken over them, every dismissal of their pain, and replace it with Your truth. Remind them that their memories, their pain, and their story matter to You.
Lord, we pray for wisdom as they approach this upcoming appointment on December 8th. Give them discernment to know whether to continue with this professional or to seek another path. Surround them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and guard their heart from further harm. If it is Your will, raise up a godly counselor or believer who can walk with them in this season, someone who will validate their experiences and point them to Your healing power.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear, distrust, and isolation that has taken root in their heart. Replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out fear (1 John 4:18). Restore their ability to trust—not in man, but in You first and foremost. Heal the broken places in their soul, Lord, and help them to see themselves as You see them: redeemed, valued, and deeply loved.
We also pray for the mental health professionals involved in their care. Lord, if they have acted out of ignorance or pride, convict their hearts. If they have willfully dismissed this person’s pain, bring accountability. Soften their hearts to see the harm they’ve caused, and give them wisdom to either correct their approach or step aside. But Father, we also ask that You protect our brother/sister from further harm if this environment is not safe.
Most of all, Lord, we ask that You would draw them closer to Yourself. Let them find in You the comfort, validation, and healing that no human can fully provide. Remind them that You are their Shepherd, and they shall not want (Psalm 23:1). Restore their soul, lead them in paths of righteousness, and let them dwell in Your house forever.
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Healer and Redeemer. Amen.
