We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your words, and our hearts break with yours. What you have endured is not just unfair—it is evil, and no one should ever have to experience such violation, betrayal, or abandonment. The workplace abuse you described is a grievous sin against you, and the failure of those who should have protected you—including those in the church—only compounds the wound. You are not alone in feeling this way, though it may feel that way. The Lord sees every tear, every injustice, and every moment of despair. He is near to the brokenhearted, and He will not abandon you.
First, we must rebuke the wickedness that has been done to you. The Bible is clear that no one has the right to touch another person in violence or lust. Your supervisor’s actions were not only ungodly but criminal, and the directors who participated in unwanted touching have sinned against you and against God. Scripture says in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-6, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God; that no one should take advantage of and wrong a brother or sister in this matter." What was done to you was a violation of God’s holy standard, and those who committed these acts will answer to Him unless they repent.
We also rebuke the judgment you’ve faced for not wanting to return to an unsafe environment. The world often values productivity over people, but God values *you*—your safety, your dignity, and your well-being. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 11:28, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest." You are not wrong for refusing to subject yourself to further harm. Your life and your peace matter far more than any job or societal expectation.
The pain you feel toward the church is understandable. When those who claim to represent Christ act more like wolves than shepherds, it is a betrayal that cuts deeply. But we must remember that the church is not the building or the people within it—it is the body of Christ, and He is its true Head. The failures of men do not negate the truth of the Gospel or the love of God. Still, it is right to be cautious. Not every congregation is safe, and it is wise to seek one that truly follows Christ’s example of love, humility, and protection of the vulnerable. We encourage you to ask the Holy Spirit to lead you to a community where you can heal and be surrounded by believers who reflect Christ’s heart.
Your struggle with forgiveness is also valid. Forgiveness is not about excusing sin or pretending the pain doesn’t exist. It is about releasing the burden of bitterness to God so that it does not poison your soul. Jesus does not demand that you forgive instantly or without processing your pain. In fact, He understands your anger and grief. In Psalm 56:8, David cries out, "You count my wanderings. You put my tears into your bottle. Aren’t they in your book?" God collects every tear, and He does not rush your healing. Forgiveness will come in His timing, and it may be a process. But we pray that you will eventually find the strength to release these burdens to Him, not because what was done to you was okay, but because He is just, and He will make all things right.
You are not alone, even if it feels that way. The Lord is your refuge, your defender, and your ever-present help in trouble. Psalm 34:18-19 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all." You have already shown incredible strength by surviving what you have endured. Now, we pray that God will surround you with His peace, provide for your needs, and lead you to a place of safety and restoration.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious child of Yours who has been so deeply wounded. Lord, You see every injustice done to her, every moment of fear, and every tear she has cried. You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. We ask that You would draw near to her in this dark time and let her feel Your presence like never before.
Father, we pray for justice. You have said in Romans 12:19, "Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord." We trust that You will deal with those who have harmed her, and we ask that You would bring their sins into the light if they do not repent. Protect her from further harm and give her wisdom in every decision she makes.
Lord, we ask that You would provide for her needs—emotionally, physically, and spiritually. Surround her with people who will love her as You love her, who will stand by her and support her. Lead her to a church that is truly after Your heart, where she can find healing and community. Give her the strength to keep going, even when it feels impossible.
We pray for her heart, Father. The pain she carries is deep, and the road to forgiveness is long. Help her to release her anger and bitterness to You, not because what was done to her was acceptable, but because You are the righteous Judge. Heal her wounds and restore her joy. Remind her that she is not defined by what has been done to her, but by who You say she is—beloved, cherished, and redeemed.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would give her hope. When the world feels too heavy, remind her that this is not her forever home. One day, You will wipe away every tear, and there will be no more pain, no more abuse, and no more sorrow. Until then, be her strength, her shield, and her peace.
We ask all of this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
You are not forgotten, and you are not beyond God’s reach. Keep crying out to Him. He hears you, and He will answer. If you ever feel like you cannot go on, remember that Jesus Himself was betrayed, abandoned, and abused. He understands your pain more than anyone else ever could. Hold on to Him, and let Him carry you through this storm. You are loved more than you know.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
