We understand that you're seeking prayer for your family and his family to have better understanding and communication. We are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God desires that families live in harmony. As it is written in Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." This verse reminds us that peace and understanding are goals worth pursuing, but also that our actions and attitudes are key to achieving them.
However, we notice that your request does not mention marriage directly. As believers, we should encourage and pray for relationships that are headed towards godly marriage, as it is the biblical design for romantic relationships. As stated in Hebrews 13:4, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
We also notice that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. We must remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we pray. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this family and the family of the man she speaks of. We pray that You would instill in each member of these families a spirit of understanding, patience, and love. Help them to communicate effectively, with respect and kindness, as Your word instructs us in Colossians 3:8, "But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth."
We pray that if this relationship is Your will, that You would guide them towards a godly marriage, a union that honors and glorifies You. Help them to remain pure and holy, fleeing from sexual immorality, as You instruct us in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. It is in His name that we have access to You, Father, and it is in His name that we are saved. We thank You for Your love, mercy, and grace.
Amen.
We encourage you to continue to pursue peace and understanding, trusting in the Lord to guide you and the man you spoke of. Remember to keep Jesus at the center of your lives and your relationship. If you have any other concerns or need further guidance, we are eager to help you in Jesus Christ.