We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." (Mark 10:9 WEB)
The situation you are in is heartbreaking, and it is important to address the sin of adultery that has entered your marriage. "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." (Hebrews 13:4 WEB) Adultery is a serious sin, and it is crucial for your husband to repent and turn away from this behavior.
However, it is also important for you to examine your own heart and actions, as God calls us to love and forgive as He does. "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB)
We encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. Pray for your husband, that his heart would be convicted and that he would repent and seek forgiveness. "The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance." (2 Peter 3:9 WEB)
Together let us pray,
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this precious sister and her marriage. Lord, You know the pain and heartache that she is experiencing, and we ask for Your comfort and guidance during this time. We pray for her husband, that You would convict his heart and bring him to a place of repentance. We ask that You would heal their marriage and restore what the enemy has tried to destroy.
Help them to forgive as You forgive, and to love as You love. Guide them through this difficult time, and give them the strength and wisdom to honor their marriage vows. We ask all of these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, Amen. Remember it is only through Jesus Christ we have access to God and there is no other name by which we can be saved.