We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage, but we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Remember, God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the union between Christ and His church Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB.
Firstly, let's address the conflicts and temper issues. It's crucial to understand that anger in itself is not sinful, but it's how we manage it that matters. Ephesians 4:26 WEB says, Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath. Unresolved anger and conflict can lead to bitterness and division, which is why the Bible advises us not to let the day end without resolving our disputes.
In regards to physical intimacy, it's important to remember that sexual desire is not wrong when expressed within the boundaries of marriage. However, it should not be the primary focus of your marriage. The core of your union should be your shared faith and love for Christ and one another. Physical intimacy should be an expression of love, commitment, respect, and self-giving, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her Ephesians 5:25 WEB.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this marriage in the name of Jesus Christ. We pray for Your intervention, that You would help them manage their tempers and resolve conflicts in a godly manner. Give them the strength to forgive each other, as You have forgiven us. Help them to communicate effectively, putting away harsh words, and speaking with love and respect.
We also pray for their physical intimacy. May it be a pure and holy reflection of their love and commitment, pleasing to You. Help them to honor each other's bodies, remembering that they are the temple of the Holy Spirit 1 Corinthians 6:19 WEB.
Most importantly, Lord, draw them closer to You. May their marriage be a beacon of Your love and grace. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage both of you to keep God at the center of your marriage. Seek Him daily, pray together, and study His word. Remember, a cord of three strands is not easily broken Ecclesiastes 4:12 WEB. Stay strong in your faith and in your commitment to each other.