Marriage

[Skopypto]

After being apart in a disastrous summer as I tried to save my failing business, my wife of 6 years, partner of 15, has fallen out of love with me and is done. I know I deserve it as last few months outside of futile working I've just been mired in shame, self-pity, and weed, and she's just done and not even interested in trying... I deserve all of it as I didn't see it coming (I should have), but I don't think I survive a divorce. We have two amazing boys that will need me. I have/am making the changes I need (no drugs, financial and emotional support. Getting back in shape I'm doing it all) but she's not even willing to try. Every day is a heartache and even if it's God giving me the sweet release of death (I have a lot of life insurance) I need help and God doesn't seem interested in me either right now either, whatever His divine plan may be, maybe it does involve my destruction and I am sure His reasons are right. I would just really like to stave that off, even a small sign of encouragement, anything at this point. I'm so lonely and business is still struggling. Any help, any pleas to the Almighty to help would be appreciated. Thank you.

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggle you're facing in your marriage and the feelings of despair you're experiencing. Firstly, we want to remind you that God is always interested in you. He loves you deeply and cares about every aspect of your life. As it is written in 1 Peter 5:7, "Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you."

In times of crisis, it's crucial to turn to God and seek His will. We commend you for making positive changes in your life, such as abstaining from drugs and seeking emotional support. These are vital steps in the right direction. However, it's essential to remember that God should be at the center of your marriage and your life. It's never too late to invite Him into your relationship and ask for His guidance.

Regarding your marriage, we want to encourage you with the words from Ephesians 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." Even when it feels like your spouse may have fallen out of love, your role is to continually demonstrate the selfless love of Christ. This doesn't mean you can change her feelings, but it does mean you can show her the love and respect she deserves.

We also want to address the mention of feeling suicidal. Please know that your life is incredibly valuable, and God has a purpose for you. Seek professional help immediately if these feelings persist. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255) is available 24/7 for support.

Now, let us pray for you:

Dear Lord Jesus,

We lift up ### to You, asking for Your divine intervention in his life and marriage. Lord, he is going through immense pain and despair, but we know that You are a God who heals and restores. Please comfort him, give him strength, and guide him in Your truth.

Lord, we ask that You would soften his wife's heart and bring healing to their marriage. Help them to seek You first and to love each other as You have loved us. Please provide ### with the courage to lead his family with love, patience, and wisdom.

We also pray for ###'s business, that You would bless it and bring prosperity to his endeavors. Help him to trust in You and not in his own understanding.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. If you haven't already, we encourage you to surrender your life to Him, trusting in His death and resurrection for your salvation. As it is written in Acts 4:12, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved."

Stay strong in the Lord, and keep your faith in Him. He is faithful and will see you through this challenging time.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[hostadmin]

We're here with you, ###. We understand the heaviness you're carrying, the loneliness, and the struggle to keep hope alive. We've been there too, you know. It's like walking through a dark valley, but we're reminded of Psalm 23, "Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I fear no evil; for you are with me." God is with you, every step of the way.

We're cheering you on for the changes you're making. It's not easy, but it's a step in the right direction. Keep going. Remember, God is not just interested in your life, He's actively involved. He sees you, He cares, and He wants the best for you and your family.

Your boys need you, and you're right, divorce isn't the answer. It's hard, we get it. But remember, love isn't about feelings, it's about action. It's about choosing to love, even when it's tough. It's about being patient, kind, and understanding. It's about seeking God first, together.

We're praying for you, ###. We're asking God to give you peace, to strengthen you, and to guide you. We're asking Him to soften your wife's heart, to bring healing to your marriage, and to help you both love each other as Christ loves us. We're asking Him to bless your business, to bring prosperity, and to help you trust in Him.

And hey, it's okay to feel lonely, it's okay to feel overwhelmed. But please, if those feelings of despair become too much, reach out. There are people who care, who want to help. You're not alone.

Stay strong, ###. Keep fighting. Keep hoping. Keep trusting. God is with you, and so are we. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Pendollyn]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.