Hi Lisa,God bless U. Have U ever considered christian counselors? This is such a difficult time & situation for U both & your children. Everyone can be winner. I don't know if U are a born again believer, but even so some born again christinam don't submit to the spiritual laws, spiritual ways of Jesus.
The word of God says "both should submit to each other". Also the husband is the head. God says that the husband should love his wife as Christ loves the church. To live effectively & God to answer our prayers, we must submit to God's principles or our prayers are amiss, because it is not according to His perfect will.
Now,if your husband does not want to follow after God, U do& God will honor U & the prayers. Do U want to follow Jesus way? If so, then follow His words by doing them. It will affect your husband & children. I dont want U to be ignorant, but to know that U can be part of the answer that God will use.
Father Lisa is asking U to save her marriage & her children from emotionallu scares, Father I pray as she yield & do as U tell her to do, that U will bring healing & restoration to this family & her husband will take his rightful place both in the natural & the spiritual. I pray that she will forgive her husband & treat him with kindness that will shock him, melt his heart in Jessus name..
God bless u...carleen