Court her in Jesus name...show her your love, prove to her (without annoying her) that you love her more now than ever...fight for her love...without being annoying is the key or too pushy...do it as though you just met her...for the first time...God's plan is to save your marriage so the odds are on your side IF you do it right, in Jesus ask His advice before you do ANYTHING, then follow Peace and you will know what I'm saying by the feelings God will use to assure you He has answered...follow peace and God will bless because it's Him who is doing it all...consult Him through His word to be sure you are doing what He wants and so You can KNOW what and how to speak to her and listen to her even if you don't understand why she feels this way or that...point is she feels it...let God speak to her heart and show her, with all your heart try to have compassion for what she is confused about...and not your duty to tell her she is confused, their are spirits in high places trying to destroy a family and individuals..so grab onto God, make Him your partner let HIM do ALL the talking and thinking...get yourself out of the picture and see what God can do!...God bless Lord touch this marriage and restore it to a oneness and divine love that only comes from You...Lord have Your way