Marriage Reconcilliation

[ruthmlunjwa]

Isaac came home last night as it was his birthday. It was not an unpleasant evening. However he still will not move his clothes back into the house and keeps saying he doesn't know how this will be resolved. I pointed out that we can't change the past just the future, and that we made a commitment to oneanother when we were married, and that we need to work at it. He said our house doesn't feel like home and i asked what we could do to make it feel like home, he then said that he couldn't keep asking me to give up myself anymore than he could give up himself and I said there needed to be compromise on both sides. He said that he hurts me when he tries to be himself so i asked for an example, he said about going out drinking. I explained that I did not mind him going out for a drink but that I didn't like the way the alcohol changes him, and pointed out that I need to spend some time with my husband aswell. he then said that evryone keeps saying to him about his drinking and he said maybe he does have a drink problem but that it is because he is unhappy with other things. I also spoke to him about getting enough rest as he is working too much but he said he didn't feel tired from working too much, but i explained he still isn't getting enough rest. Please pray that he will commit to sorting out our problems an that he will be able to let go of the past. he also said he wasn't sure that talking to others would help and that he wanted to look to himself for the answers, i said that even he knew this was not the right way. Please pray that he will go to mediation with me so we can really sort things out. Please pray that God will give him a forgiving and loving spirit, and that God will melt his heart, please pray that God will show me what I need to do and that God will give me the faith that this marriage will be healed, please pray that God will make himself known to me in a mighty way. Please pray that God will send my husband a Christian to guide him. I ask these things in jesus Name. Ruth Please also pray that our baby will be unaffected by any of this.

 

[ruthmlunjwa]

Father I am desperate for you help, Please help me!

 

[candypooh]

In Jesus Name I pray:

Lord please guide this man's heart back home to his wife and help him to forgive, forget, and move on for a happy life with his wife. Guide the wife to do what is right and whatever is needed to keep her home united.

In Jesus Name I pray:

Amen!

 

[kaatazze]

Amazing Grace, we all give You isaac to mold him the way You want him to be. i ask that You deliver him from his troubling heart and mind and set him free. i ask that he recalls the wedding day when he took his vows before You. i ask that You restore the love he had for his wife and may it never leave his side, ever. deliver isaac from bondages of hearsays, alcohol, destruction and direct him to new ways of being a married man and father. i speak to the alcohol, every time isaac takes a drink, may it have reverse effect, may he be drunk in the Holy Spirit to the point he will realize that alcohol is not working the way it used to be, that the Holy Spirit will take the place of altering his mind. i speak to the wife, before he lays his head on his pillow, lay your hands on it with your petition, unbeknownest to isaac and leave the Holy Spirit there for him to rest his head. when he awakes each day may he be closer to the Lord. thank the Lord that You are able to come to this site so that Your prayer warriors can hold You closer to Jesus with Your concerns which will be no more! you are becoming a good and faithful servant in the eyes of God, bringing isaac closer to Him, for he is using you for one more soul to save. return to this site and praise the name of Jesus everytime You see His blessings, wipe your tears dry your eyes for He will never leave you and will restore Your marriage for Your family. wait patiently and silently for He is doing His works. AMEN!