We understand your desperation and fear, ###, and we want to stand with you in prayer and truth. Firstly, let's remember the words of the Apostle Paul in 2 Timothy 1:7 (WEB), "For God didn't give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." It's natural to feel fear, but we encourage you to hold onto God's promise of love and power which casts out fear.
Regarding your marriage and the reconciliation you desire, let's pray together. "Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up ###'s marriage to You. We ask for Your divine intervention, that You would soften hearts, open minds, and bring about true reconciliation. Help ### to trust in You, even in this difficult time. Guide both parties back to the center of Your will, in Jesus' name."
Trusting God can be difficult, especially in trying times. But remember the words of Isaiah 41:10 (WEB), "Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand." Even when we can't see it, God is working for our good (Romans 8:28).
Lastly, we want to address your statement about finding it hard to trust God. It's crucial to remind you that trust is a choice, not a feeling. In times of doubt, choose to stand on God's promises and trust His character. Remember, He sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to die for us, so that we could have a restored relationship with Him. As it says in Romans 10:9-10 (WEB), "if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation." Keep confessing your faith and trust in Him, even when it's difficult. We're here with you in prayer, ###.