Marriage Is Failing Due To Lying

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My husband & I have been married for almost 2 yrs. He's a minister. We attend his church where his grandmoter & mother are pastor & co-pastor. When we first started dating he told me how he had a relationship with a married woman, & that is was over. I took him at his word. We got married & shortly after I became pregnant. I'm a praying woman, & during the pregnancy I felt something wasn't right. He was very protective of his cell phone. I asked him was he still dealing with &, or talking to her he said no. His mother the co-pastor asked him the same question & he told her no as well. It was revealed that he never stopped dealing with or talking to her. He lied 3 times over about dealing with this woman & it got revealed every time. As I stated above, his grandmother & mother are pastor & co-pastor of the church. They are fully aware that he lied a few times about this female, but decieded to do nothing about it. He's their son & grandson, & because of that there are no consequences to his actions. Before I had physical proof that he had been talking to & dealing with this woman, his mother didn't believe me. Point being whenever I've come to the pastor & co-pastor about any issue dealing with my husband, they automatically believe him, even if he's lying. I forgave him & things were getting better, until now. He's lying once again about this woman. We're having a revival at the church & she came. I want everybody to be saved, & have no problem with her being there as long as my husband respects me, & deals with her appropriately. Sunday night at the revival he hugs this woman right in front of me, & I was not pleased. I tried to talk to him about how I felt about it, he literally plugged his ears & wouldn't hear of it. I told the co-pastor his mom about it, & she agreed that it wasn't appropiate for him to hug her. She asked him about it, & he blatantly lied & said he didn't hug her. I was looking right at him. Of course after he lied to his mother, she automatically believed him. God knows that I'm telling the truth. My point is, again there are no consequences to him lying because his grandmother, & mother are pastor & co-pastor. I want to honor my marriage vows, & not get divorced, but I'm so tired of him lying, & nothing being done about it. He knows his mother & grandmother are going to believe whatever he says, & he takes full advantage of it. I'm more concerned about his soul than anything. He has a lying spirit that he needs to be delivered from, but as long as he's under his grandmother, & mother at the church he's never going to be delivered from it, because they are in denial about it. They want so bad for him not to be how he is, that they just won't help him deal with it. My prayer request is for my huband to be delivered from his lying spirit. Also, for his family to not be partial to him, & to deal with him as they would any other member.
 
Lord I ask that you press him by the Holy Spirit to confront this sin because it is literally destroying him and his marriage. Let darkness be exposed to the light of Christ. Restore this marriage and let all involved be honest and repent of allowing sin in the leadership. In Jesus Name Amen
 
Lord God, my Prayers are with favored 14 to give her streaght and hold her head up high to know that you lord right all wrongs.and you lord will be by her side forever.
 
Lord, I lay this heartbreaking prayer at your feet to take care , Lord you know all if this husband still going on with this married women , I pray you touch this other women and this Husband Heart to stop what their doing ........IN JESUS NAME AMEN
 
Lord Jesus Christ, I thank you because you hear your children. You said before we call you will answer. You knew from eternity that at this hour we call upon your name on behalf of this family. And you have already decided that you are going to answer. Thank you for your answer. Now in the Name of Jesus Christ, Satan, leave this family alone. Your assignment over this family is cancealled. You are released from your assignment. Leave now in Jesus' name.

The blood of Jesus is again you. I surround this family with the fire of the Holy Spirit. Lying spirit you are loose in Jesus Christ's name. Your power over this family is broken.

Thank you Jesus, thank for saving this dear family. Amen
 
Lord I pray for this family. Lord you are all knowing and you know what is going on. Lord I pray you send you Holy Sprit with FIRE. Santan we sever you notice the Blood of Jesus is against you. Get your hand off this family. We bind the spirt of lying and we command you to lossen her husband in the name of Jesus. Lord I pray for the Pastor and the Co pastor for obidence in the word which is clear regarding sin the church. In Jesus name I pray Amen.
 
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Heavenly Father, please remove this adulterous woman from this couple. May his affections belong to his wife alone.

Secondly, I pray that all those involved in this church repent from allowing women to be in leadership. As Your Word says " I do not permit a woman to teach or have authority over a man; she must be silent. 1 Tim 2:11
 
In the name of Jesus, I rebuke the lying spirit in favored14's husband. Lord, let your holy spirit touch this man. I set loose a mighty conviction in this man's heart and I pray for the fear of God to be upon him. Lord he did not only lie to his wife but to you also Lord. Adultery is a terrible sin Lord, we pray in Jesus name, for the other woman's mighty conviction,if she is really a child of God, she will stop being in such a situation and lave this family alone. Lord i pray for peace in favored14's heart, and strength to keep on fighting.

Thank you Lord Jesus that you hear our prayers. I am in agreement with all the rest of the prayers here. We pray this in Jesus name and for God's glory, amen and amen!
 
Lord please send the Holy Spirit to convict this husband and the other woman in this marriage. May she become as bitter as wormwood to him. May the Holy Spirit also convict the pastors of this church for not trying to rectify the situation. I pray blessings over the wife in this situation and pray that you give her the strength to continue to honor her vows. In Jesus name she will be victorious in all this. Thank you Jesus.
 
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