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My husband & I have been married for almost 2 yrs. He's a minister. We attend his church where his grandmother & mother are pastor & co-pastor. When we first started dating he told me how he had a relationship with a married woman, & that it was over. I took him at his word. We got married & shortly after I became pregnant. I'm a praying woman, & during the pregnancy I felt something wasn't right. He was very protective of his cell phone. I asked him was he still dealing with, or talking to her he said no. His mother the co-pastor asked him the same question & he told her no as well. It was revealed that he never stopped dealing with or talking to her. He lied 3 times over about dealing with this woman & it got revealed every time. As I stated above, his grandmother & mother are pastor & co-pastor of the church. They are fully aware that he lied a few times about this female, but decided to do nothing about it. He's their son & grandson, & because of that there are no consequences to his actions. Before I had physical proof that he had been talking to & dealing with this woman, his mother didn't believe me. Point being whenever I've come to the pastor & co-pastor about any issue dealing with my husband, they automatically believe him, even if he's lying. I forgave him & things were getting better, until now. He's lying once again about this woman. We're having a revival at the church & she came. I want everybody to be saved, & have no problem with her being there as long as my husband respects me, & deals with her appropriately. Sunday night at the revival he hugs this woman right in front of me, & I was not pleased. I tried to talk to him about how I felt about it, he literally plugged his ears & wouldn't hear of it. I told the co-pastor his mom about it, & she agreed that it wasn't appropriate for him to hug her. She asked him about it, & he blatantly lied & said he didn't hug her. I was looking right at him. Of course after he lied to his mother, she automatically believed him. God knows that I'm telling the truth. My point is, again there are no consequences to him lying because his grandmother, & mother are pastor & co-pastor. I want to honor my marriage vows, & not get divorced, but I'm so tired of him lying, & nothing being done about it. He knows his mother & grandmother are going to believe whatever he says, & he takes full advantage of it. I'm more concerned about his soul than anything. He has a lying spirit that he needs to be delivered from, but as long as he's under his grandmother, & mother at the church he's never going to be delivered from it, because they are in denial about it. They want so bad for him not to be how he is, that they just won't help him deal with it. My prayer request is for my husband to be delivered from his lying spirit. Also, for his family to not be partial to him, & to deal with him as they would any other member.
